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So I feel like I should go to Confession, but I don’t know what specific sins (as far as I’m aware, I’ve committed no mortal sin) to confess to. Am I allowed to just say “I am sorry for all the sins I have committed in my past life” and recite the Act of Contrition? Thank you all ahead of time!
 
If you have no mortal sins to confess, then confess venial sins. Examine your conscience closely and invoke the Holy Ghost to help you; you will soon find some sort of sin that you are guilty of. The priest will not grant absolution if you confess nothing since there would be nothing to absolve, so you have to go in with some sort of sin to confess.
 
If you have no mortal sins to confess, then confess venial sins. Examine your conscience closely and invoke the Holy Ghost to help you; you will soon find some sort of sin that you are guilty of. The priest will not grant absolution if you confess nothing since there would be nothing to absolve, so you have to go in with some sort of sin to confess.
I see. Thank you!
 
Examine your conscience closely and invoke the Holy Ghost to help you; you will soon find some sort of sin that you are guilty of.
I can definitely confirm this…🙂
 
So I feel like I should go to Confession, but I don’t know what specific sins (as far as I’m aware, I’ve committed no mortal sin) to confess to. Am I allowed to just say “I am sorry for all the sins I have committed in my past life” and recite the Act of Contrition? Thank you all ahead of time!
I was like that some time ago. One day, even after a prayerful examination of conscience during adoration hour and still feeling blank, I went into the confessional anyway ; I told the priest I had this problem of not remembering my sins. He started to ask me simple questions and my! my! my! :o It is true, there is always something to confess. Even if you just remember some tiny venial sin, mention it and state that for all those sins which you may have forgotten, you wish to ask for forgiveness. 🙂
 
If you have nothing to confess to, don’t go to confession. The last thing you need is to develop scruples.
 
So I feel like I should go to Confession, but I don’t know what specific sins (as far as I’m aware, I’ve committed no mortal sin) to confess to. Am I allowed to just say “I am sorry for all the sins I have committed in my past life” and recite the Act of Contrition? Thank you all ahead of time!
Baltimore Catechism No. 3

Q. 782. What should one do who has only venial sins to confess?

A. One who has only venial sins to confess should tell also some sin already confessed in his past life for which he knows he is truly sorry; because it is not easy to be truly sorry for slight sins and imperfections, and yet we must be sorry for the sins confessed that our confession may be valid – hence we add some past sin for which we are truly sorry to those for which we may not be sufficiently sorry.

Q. 783. Should a person stay from confession because he thinks he has no sin to confess ?

A. A person should not stay from confession because he thinks he has no sin to confess, for the Sacrament of Penance, besides forgiving sin, gives an increase of sanctifying grace, and of this we have always need, especially to resist temptation. The Saints, who were almost without imperfection, went to confession frequently.

Catechism of the Catholic Church

1458 Without being strictly necessary, confession of everyday faults (venial sins) is nevertheless strongly recommended by the Church.59 Indeed the regular confession of our venial sins helps us form our conscience, fight against evil tendencies, let ourselves be healed by Christ and progress in the life of the Spirit. By receiving more frequently through this sacrament the gift of the Father’s mercy, we are spurred to be merciful as he is merciful:60

Whoever confesses his sins . . . is already working with God. God indicts your sins; if you also indict them, you are joined with God. Man and sinner are, so to speak, two realities: when you hear “man” - this is what God has made; when you hear “sinner” - this is what man himself has made. Destroy what you have made, so that God may save what he has made. . . . When you begin to abhor what you have made, it is then that your good works are beginning, since you are accusing yourself of your evil works. The beginning of good works is the confession of evil works. You do the truth and come to the light.61

1855 … Venial sin allows charity to subsist, even though it offends and wounds it.

1863 Venial sin weakens charity; it manifests a disordered affection for created goods; it impedes the soul’s progress in the exercise of the virtues and the practice of the moral good; it merits temporal punishment. Deliberate and unrepented venial sin disposes us little by little to commit mortal sin. However venial sin does not break the covenant with God. With God’s grace it is humanly reparable. "Venial sin does not deprive the sinner of sanctifying grace, friendship with God, charity, and consequently eternal happiness."134

While he is in the flesh, man cannot help but have at least some light sins. But do not despise these sins which we call “light”: if you take them for light when you weigh them, tremble when you count them. A number of light objects makes a great mass; a number of drops fills a river; a number of grains makes a heap. What then is our hope? Above all, confession.135
 
You’ll find something, and it may just turn out to be a great confession. Right before Easter I went to confession thinking I really had nothing to confess because I had just been the week before. I did an examination of conscience and came up with the fact that I have a habit of watching a tv channel that airs programs promoting gossip and materialism (reality tv) and that that, in turn, can influence me to feel envy towards others. My penance was for the next three days to pray for impoverished children. That was very humbling confession indeed!
 
So I feel like I should go to Confession, but I don’t know what specific sins (as far as I’m aware, I’ve committed no mortal sin) to confess to. Am I allowed to just say “I am sorry for all the sins I have committed in my past life” and recite the Act of Contrition? Thank you all ahead of time!
It is very good to confess venial sins on a frequent basis though they can be forgiven in other ways…and they do not have to be in number and kind like mortal. (one can be rather general).

One may also confess past sins you confessed (mortal or venial) - renewing your sorrow for them (though do not fall into thinking they were not absolved before). (if you do confess any already confessed mortal sins - one does not have to give the same information as if they had not been confessed - one may end ones confession for example with - and all the sins against chastity of my life especially lustful thoughts).
 
If you have no mortal sins to confess, then confess venial sins. Examine your conscience closely and invoke the Holy Ghost to help you; you will soon find some sort of sin that you are guilty of. The priest will not grant absolution if you confess nothing since there would be nothing to absolve, so you have to go in with some sort of sin to confess.
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Guess that much is to it.

There is some booklets to help you (the OP) to examine your conscience. You may be surprised that you would find yourself had committed many more sins than you thought you did.

If you have nothing to confess at all, which is not likely, then do not go for Confession.

As a side note, our former Pope, St John Paul II, made it a habit to go for Confession weekly. Now he is a saint.

The closer one is to God, the clearer our sins would be. We begin to recognize more and more what offend Him.

God bless.
 
I have a problem thinking of anything to say in Confession also. Bad memory, pretty boring life.🤷 I hear that statement about JPII, but he had enormous responsibilities and everything he said had import worldwide. This is not the same as a grandmother with a part-time job who plays a lot of Candy Crush.😊 No doubt I’m missing something, but can’t figure out what.:o
 
So I feel like I should go to Confession, but I don’t know what specific sins (as far as I’m aware, I’ve committed no mortal sin) to confess to. Am I allowed to just say “I am sorry for all the sins I have committed in my past life” and recite the Act of Contrition? Thank you all ahead of time!
I go to confession with a basket full of petty sins. Petty sins, petty habits. My priest did not dismiss them as venial. Christ said that he will spew the lukewarm from His mouth. I appreciated that priest because he realized that I really need to cease being a petty person.
 
If you have nothing to confess to, don’t go to confession. The last thing you need is to develop scruples.
This is what I think but our pastor is encouraging everyone to frequent confession.

I have told him in the past, I don’t do anything. I know this might not make sense but can we confess we hate gong to confession? Do we still get the graces? Maybe I can confess to being clueless. :confused:
 
This is what I think but our pastor is encouraging everyone to frequent confession.

I have told him in the past, I don’t do anything. I know this might not make sense but can we confess we hate gong to confession? Do we still get the graces? Maybe I can confess to being clueless. :confused:
See post #7.
 
If you have nothing to confess to, don’t go to confession. The last thing you need is to develop scruples.
(Scruples are a rather different matter).

The Church recommends - strongly- frequent confession.

Catechism:

1458 Without being strictly necessary, confession of everyday faults (venial sins) is nevertheless strongly recommended by the Church.59 Indeed the regular confession of our venial sins helps us form our conscience, fight against evil tendencies, let ourselves be healed by Christ and progress in the life of the Spirit. By receiving more frequently through this sacrament the gift of the Father’s mercy, we are spurred to be merciful as he is merciful.

scborromeo.org/ccc/p2s2c2a4.htm#1424
This is what I think but our pastor is encouraging everyone to frequent confession.
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And he would be correct - for that is what the Church does - strongly recommends it.
 
I would also offer that if you are having a hard time coming up with anything to confess, consider looking into a more thorough examination of conscience. If you have a smart phone or tablet, there is an app called iConfess, which offers a terrific examination. I use it for my own confessions.

Also, don’t just look at sins of commission, what we have done, but also sins of omission, what we have failed to do.

For instance, how are you spending your time? Is it how God wants you to spend it? I find myself falling in this area frequently. I waste a terrible amount of time.
 
What buc_fan said.

A parishioner once told our pastor that she never went to confession because she didn’t have any sins on her soul. He responded that even thinking that is a potential sin of pride.

I have yet to meet the person who truly didn’t have a single sin to confess. We have all done something wrong, or failed to do something right. A detailed examination of conscience can help bring those deficiencies to light.

Scruples are a different matter - I don’t mean to make light of those who struggle in this way. However, from what I have seen, it is far more common for people to talk themselves out of believing a real sin is indeed real than it is for them to believe everything they do is sinful. Frequent confession, encouraged by the Church, is a major weapon in combatting this.
 
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