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in real life, this is none of my business anyway, but since popular TV shows are often bringing up controversies like this now – i feel like i have to ask these questions for the sake of non-Catholic viewers who ask me about these situations because they know i’m Catholic. i’d like to be able to set the record straight and not seem like a dummy when it comes to my faith.
for example: in an episode of a police-themed show i just saw, a priest confides to a cop he’s friends with that he knows the location of a kidnapped boy from his parish because he took the kidnapper’s confession but cannot tell what that location is because of the seal of confession. (nevermind he’s already broken the seal simply by saying he’s taken a confession and knows something)
first question: i read from another forum that a priest cannot tell ANYTHING said in the confessional even to save someone’s life. i’m guessing that “anything” would include the location even though confessing to the sin of kidnapping is kind of different than geographic details irrelevant to the spiritual side of his situation, but what should the priest do with that information? could he theoretically look for the child himself and set him free secretly as long as he didn’t tell anyone and kept his involvement in the situation a secret also so no one knows he knew? does the Church have any guidelines for something time sensitive like that?
second question: let’s say the kidnapper wasn’t even really sorry but wants to taunt the priest with information he can’t share. the priest can tell he’s not sorry but just bragging and denies him absolution. since it was an insincere confession, does the seal still apply or can he report that information on the basis of it being not a real confession? and if the kidnapper was unbaptized or not even Catholic, that would definitely not count right? i for one can’t think of why he would tell the priest a location anyway unless he wanted to anonymously tip someone as a means of making things right (in which case the priest can just tell him to leave a note somewhere it’ll be found), or else he really is just sadistically bragging. those are the only two reasons i can think of why that situation would happen in real life.
any other insights about this sort of thing i can share with those who ask about this are welcome.
for example: in an episode of a police-themed show i just saw, a priest confides to a cop he’s friends with that he knows the location of a kidnapped boy from his parish because he took the kidnapper’s confession but cannot tell what that location is because of the seal of confession. (nevermind he’s already broken the seal simply by saying he’s taken a confession and knows something)
first question: i read from another forum that a priest cannot tell ANYTHING said in the confessional even to save someone’s life. i’m guessing that “anything” would include the location even though confessing to the sin of kidnapping is kind of different than geographic details irrelevant to the spiritual side of his situation, but what should the priest do with that information? could he theoretically look for the child himself and set him free secretly as long as he didn’t tell anyone and kept his involvement in the situation a secret also so no one knows he knew? does the Church have any guidelines for something time sensitive like that?
second question: let’s say the kidnapper wasn’t even really sorry but wants to taunt the priest with information he can’t share. the priest can tell he’s not sorry but just bragging and denies him absolution. since it was an insincere confession, does the seal still apply or can he report that information on the basis of it being not a real confession? and if the kidnapper was unbaptized or not even Catholic, that would definitely not count right? i for one can’t think of why he would tell the priest a location anyway unless he wanted to anonymously tip someone as a means of making things right (in which case the priest can just tell him to leave a note somewhere it’ll be found), or else he really is just sadistically bragging. those are the only two reasons i can think of why that situation would happen in real life.
any other insights about this sort of thing i can share with those who ask about this are welcome.