But we are allowed to defend ourselves.
Assassinations are either murder or acts of war. Soleimani was planning attacks, just as our military was planning plenty of attacks. If killing people who plan attacks is considered “defense” then the Iranians could be justified in murdering our President and leaders in the Pentagon.
If you like, I can post the sections of the CCC that clearly show that the killing of Soleimani violates just war doctrine. If nothing else, war is always the last resort, but there were plenty of other remedies in this case.
Iran’s grievance: Israel exists. So…is that a legitimate grievance?
That’s not their core grievance. Their grievance is that fellow Muslim people were pushed out of their homes and properties and were not allowed to return to where they were born. In addition, lands and resources are confiscated on an ongoing basis. These are grievances that are recognized by the entire world, except for Israel and the lobbyist-controlled US.
Palestine: Rejected a two-state solution
This is false. They have always been amenable to a just solution, such as the Camp David Accords.
that is really irrelevant to Iran’s desire to commit genocide
The desire, when it happens, can be resolved. Resolution begins with understanding and forgiveness; it begins with dialog. There are plenty of people in Israel who would also favor genocide of their enemies. It’s a psychology of hate, all of us are capable.
Some people just can’t be trusted…especially those who are quite vocal about killing you, your children, your country, your race.
I will agree that trust can’t be forced, and there will be people that a person may never trust. However, all people can be trusted to some extent, but it takes time, sometimes a lifetime. People eventually come to realize that they can benefit from a good relationship. Trust is “step 2”, a step that may never occur in a lifetime. What can occur is “step 1”, which is understanding, forgiveness, reconciliation.
Jesus calls us to love our enemies, to pray for those who persecute us. Jesus guides us to real, permanent resolution. I have hated, and I do no longer. If I can overcome my hatred, then so can everyone else!