Considering Leaving Mormonism For Traditional Christianity...

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Let me preface this by saying that I am very hesitant to post this thread, since I don’t want this to turn into a negative post with personal attacks or attacks against other faiths (whether from Catholics, ex-LDS, LDS, etc etc).

So I’ve been thinking a lot lately that much in the faith of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is difficult to understand and deal with, especially in the context of historical/ancient Judeo-Christian faith(s) and the records we have from Biblical times and immediately after. There is a lot in Mormonism that I love, such as:

-the temple
-eternal marriage
-continuing revelation
-apostles and prophets to this day
-emphasis on scripture study

At the same time, there’s much that is very troubling, at least for me, such as:

-priesthood ban-I’ve tried to rationalize this many times, and used to say that we simply don’t know why it came about (perhaps we really don’t) or why it was perpetuated. We know that the priesthood was restricted by lineage in Old Testament times, yet I don’t see how we could accept that after Jesus Christ and His Great Commission, this sort of restriction would be acceptable or make sense.

-the Eucharist-When I read the New Testament, I really don’t see any other way to interpret Christ’s words than Real Presence. Also, out of all the issues, I think this is the one that is SO clear in the writings of the ECFs. While some Latter-day Saint apologists and scholars will refer to certain writings to show ancient evidence of a unique LDS belief, I don’t see any evidence that the ancient Christians believed in a symbolic, non-Real Presence, understanding of the Eucharist.

-the Godhead-I can understand both perspectives on this. I fully believe that the Father, Son, and Holy Ghost are distinct from each other (they are not each other). That is of course compatible with the Trinity doctrine. I don’t really have a problem with the Father being embodied. What I am troubled by is the belief that God was once a man (no, I don’t believe that LDS generally hold that He was once a sinful man. Instead, LDS tend to believe that He was a man in the same way that Christ was), and the implications of that, i.e., infinite regress of Gods. It makes much more sense, and seems to comport more with the Bible, to believe that God has eternally existed as God, did not progress to Godhood (another issue I have), etc.

-evidences for the Book of Mormon-I’ve been reading a few inspirational Christian books, and obviously they all focus on the Bible. The more I read these and look into them, the more I wonder why the Book of Mormon is needed. Also, there is confusion as to where the Book of Mormon actually took place. LDS apologists and scholars disagree on where things are located, and it seems like each position could be valid based on what the person says.

-the Apostasy-this of course is the main issue. Was there really an apostasy of the Church of Jesus Christ? Was it predicted in the Bible? I have seen verses given as evidence of a total apostasy of the ancient Church, yet some seem to be referring to something else (like ancient Israel in the verses about a famine of hearing the word of God). I’m reading this debate between an LDS and a Catholic to see both perspectives.

And along with the Apostasy is the Restoration. Now, LDS apologists and scholars many times refer to various statements by early Christians and/or fringe Christian groups as evidencing LDS beliefs. Yet, there is absolutely no evidence of a single, unified, ancient Church of Jesus Christ that held these beliefs.

So now what?-Well, that’s where I’m at now. I’ve decided to start reading some critical (not “anti”) books and resources to more understand that perspective. I know I’ve mentioned before on this board that I have many critical and anti (noting the difference) books, articles, websites, etc. I’ll start looking at Mormon Think again, and I just pulled “An Insider’s View of Mormon Origins” and “One Nation Under Gods” off the shelf, and am starting Insider’s. Any other suggested resources (not interested in CARM, Tanner’s, or anything of the sort). Just want to understand the “other side” and make an informed decision. I’m familiar with the “other side”, having been there before my conversion, yet I would appreciate any other thoughts as well.

Some of you may wonder why I don’t just walk away. Well! I wish it was that easy. As a convert of many years, I luckily don’t have family as members, though I have many friends (I’m in my 20s). I also serve as Elders Quorum President right now. I don’t see how I could just fade away like some of the people that we’re trying to “reactivate” do. Not sure what to do about that. And of course I haven’t written off Mormonism at this point, just strongly questioning. Guess I’m missing Catholicism what with the being in the midst of electing a new Pope, and I was thinking about how I missed walking around the Basilica of the National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception, lighting candles there, feeling connected to something ancient, etc.

Anyway, just wanted to share, and appreciate thoughts from all perspectives. I have more thoughts on this, but have to run to work, and wanted to get this in before I run. I’ll post again late tonight/tomorrow. Oh and I don’t accept PMs (for various reasons), so I’d appreciate thoughts posted in the thread.
 
First thanks for asking this hard question

I would ask my self what did the first followers of Jesus do and write down how did they interprate his teachings

I suggest reading the early Christian writings such as
Ignatous of Antioch
Polycarp
Justin Myrtr
And so on

God bless your journey
 
When I saw the title of your thread, I had to take you off of ignore to see what was going on.

Good for you!! I realize that you are not saying you will convert, and you’re not saying you’re not. Just the fact that you are investigating things is a HUGE step.

Converting, let alone thinking about it is very difficult. Believe me, I’ve been there.

Reading some of the Early Church Fathers (ECFs) are a great place to start. Aquinas for one.

Another great place to start (which I highly recommend), is talk to a priest. Call a local parish, or one a bit further away(if you’re worried about being seen), and make an appointment to meet with him. They are a huge resource, and can provide you with a wealth of information, with absolutely no obligation.

Another great resource is our forum members who were previously mormon. Most of them struggled with the same points as you.

I will pray for you on this journey. I know it will be difficult, but remember the Holy Spirit is leading you this way for a reason. Just be open to it.

God Bless.
 
When I saw the title of your thread, I had to take you off of ignore to see what was going on.

Good for you!! I realize that you are not saying you will convert, and you’re not saying you’re not. Just the fact that you are investigating things is a HUGE step.

Converting, let alone thinking about it is very difficult. Believe me, I’ve been there.

Reading some of the Early Church Fathers (ECFs) are a great place to start. Aquinas for one.

Another great place to start (which I highly recommend), is talk to a priest. Call a local parish, or one a bit further away(if you’re worried about being seen), and make an appointment to meet with him. They are a huge resource, and can provide you with a wealth of information, with absolutely no obligation.

Another great resource is our forum members who were previously mormon. Most of them struggled with the same points as you.

I will pray for you on this journey. I know it will be difficult, but remember the Holy Spirit is leading you this way for a reason. Just be open to it.

God Bless.
Aquinas is rather too late to be counted amongst the Early Church Fathers.

To the OP: I will say a prayer for you. Wishing you the best on your journey. Perhaps read something accessible like ‘Mere Christianity’ by C. S. Lewis to accommodate yourself with the more mainstream understandings of the Christian faith.
 
You are in my prayers, LivingWaters7. I wanted to address some of the points where I thought I could give my (name removed by moderator)ut as someone who reluctantly left the LDS faith and reluctantly committed to the Catholic faith.
There is a lot in Mormonism that I love, such as:

-the temple
-eternal marriage
-continuing revelation
-apostles and prophets to this day
-emphasis on scripture study
Marriage: The prospect of being with the person you love forever is very appealing. Keep in mind that Catholicism doesn’t hold that you will be separated from your loved ones in heaven. I am confident that the relationships we have here on earth now will be even better in heaven. The reason Catholics don’t believe we are married in heaven is due to the Catholic understanding of what marriage is: a visible and material grace to procreate and unify husband and wife. Because there will be no procreation in heaven there will be no need for marriage; however, we will still be unified to our loved ones.
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Continuing Revelation:**This one was pretty easy for me to get past, but I understand its appeal and your difficulty letting go. The first question I have for you is what revelation has come from the LDS faith that you find profound and significant? When I asked myself this question I couldn’t think of anything substantial that the LDS faith offered that wasn’t either already in Christianity or problematic (i.e. priesthood ban, polygamy). A follow-up question: if the entirety of truth and love are revealed in Christ and scripture why is continuing revelation necessary?
-the Apostasy-this of course is the main issue. Was there really an apostasy of the Church of Jesus Christ? Was it predicted in the Bible? I have seen verses given as evidence of a total apostasy of the ancient Church, yet some seem to be referring to something else (like ancient Israel in the verses about a famine of hearing the word of God). I’m reading this debate between an LDS and a Catholic to see both perspectives.
I’ve actually read the debate you linked. It was okay, but I think the Catholic representative could have done better.
And along with the Apostasy is the Restoration. Now, LDS apologists and scholars many times refer to various statements by early Christians and/or fringe Christian groups as evidencing LDS beliefs. Yet, there is absolutely no evidence of a single, unified, ancient Church of Jesus Christ that held these beliefs.
The most important question to ask, I think, is whether, at its core (doctrinally), what Catholicism teaches is problematic in itself. Is the Church’s teaching harmful? Does it seem true in the fallen world in which we live? If so, why was a restoration necessary? If not, then keep working at it.
So now what?-Well, that’s where I’m at now. I’ve decided to start reading some critical (not “anti”) books and resources to more understand that perspective. I know I’ve mentioned before on this board that I have many critical and anti (noting the difference) books, articles, websites, etc. I’ll start looking at Mormon Think again, and I just pulled “An Insider’s View of Mormon Origins” and “One Nation Under Gods” off the shelf, and am starting Insider’s. Any other suggested resources (not interested in CARM, Tanner’s, or anything of the sort). Just want to understand the “other side” and make an informed decision. I’m familiar with the “other side”, having been there before my conversion, yet I would appreciate any other thoughts as well.
Mormonthink is good. Helped me out a lot. I think two good questions to ask as you read LDS apologetics are 1. Do I find this answer compelling? 2. Are there other explanations that are just as convincing? I actually ended up drifting further away from the LDS faith because I found FARMS and FAIR unconvincing.
Some of you may wonder why I don’t just walk away. Well! I wish it was that easy. As a convert of many years, I luckily don’t have family as members, though I have many friends (I’m in my 20s). I also serve as Elders Quorum President right now. I don’t see how I could just fade away like some of the people that we’re trying to “reactivate” do. Not sure what to do about that. And of course I haven’t written off Mormonism at this point, just strongly questioning. Guess I’m missing Catholicism what with the being in the midst of electing a new Pope, and I was thinking about how I missed walking around the Basilica of the National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception, lighting candles there, feeling connected to something ancient, etc.
As someone who has been there I understand the struggle. Just keep praying for an open mind and open hart, and above all else, the guidance of the Holy Spirit.
 
There are so many endearing things about the Mormon faith…I can see it would be a struggle to leave.

Only you can make that decision. Mormonism/LDS is such an All American religion that I’ve always been tender hearted about the faith.

I was willing to convert to it myself when I was younger but was told not to when I confided that I didn’t believe most of what was being presented but I loved the family home evenings and the way the church members supported each other.

The LDS churches I attended had members who certainly showed love and kindness to each other. Also, there are a lot of really smart people in that faith, do they have something similar to apologetics that you could study?

All religions have profess beliefs that I’m very skeptical about so I don’t see how leaving one to go to another would resolve that situation.
 
All religions have profess beliefs that I’m very skeptical about so I don’t see how leaving one to go to another would resolve that situation.
All hearts are restless, until they rest in truth.
 
Let me preface this by saying that I am very hesitant to post this thread, since I don’t want this to turn into a negative post with personal attacks or attacks against other faiths (whether from Catholics, ex-LDS, LDS, etc etc).

So I’ve been thinking a lot lately that much in the faith of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is difficult to understand and deal with, especially in the context of historical/ancient Judeo-Christian faith(s) and the records we have from Biblical times and immediately after. There is a lot in Mormonism that I love, such as:

-the temple
-eternal marriage
-continuing revelation
-apostles and prophets to this day
-emphasis on scripture study

At the same time, there’s much that is very troubling, at least for me, such as:

-priesthood ban-I’ve tried to rationalize this many times, and used to say that we simply don’t know why it came about (perhaps we really don’t) or why it was perpetuated. We know that the priesthood was restricted by lineage in Old Testament times, yet I don’t see how we could accept that after Jesus Christ and His Great Commission, this sort of restriction would be acceptable or make sense.

-the Eucharist-When I read the New Testament, I really don’t see any other way to interpret Christ’s words than Real Presence. Also, out of all the issues, I think this is the one that is SO clear in the writings of the ECFs. While some Latter-day Saint apologists and scholars will refer to certain writings to show ancient evidence of a unique LDS belief, I don’t see any evidence that the ancient Christians believed in a symbolic, non-Real Presence, understanding of the Eucharist.

-the Godhead-I can understand both perspectives on this. I fully believe that the Father, Son, and Holy Ghost are distinct from each other (they are not each other). That is of course compatible with the Trinity doctrine. I don’t really have a problem with the Father being embodied. What I am troubled by is the belief that God was once a man (no, I don’t believe that LDS generally hold that He was once a sinful man. Instead, LDS tend to believe that He was a man in the same way that Christ was), and the implications of that, i.e., infinite regress of Gods. It makes much more sense, and seems to comport more with the Bible, to believe that God has eternally existed as God, did not progress to Godhood (another issue I have), etc.

-evidences for the Book of Mormon-I’ve been reading a few inspirational Christian books, and obviously they all focus on the Bible. The more I read these and look into them, the more I wonder why the Book of Mormon is needed. Also, there is confusion as to where the Book of Mormon actually took place. LDS apologists and scholars disagree on where things are located, and it seems like each position could be valid based on what the person says.

-the Apostasy-this of course is the main issue. Was there really an apostasy of the Church of Jesus Christ? Was it predicted in the Bible? I have seen verses given as evidence of a total apostasy of the ancient Church, yet some seem to be referring to something else (like ancient Israel in the verses about a famine of hearing the word of God). I’m reading this debate between an LDS and a Catholic to see both perspectives.

And along with the Apostasy is the Restoration. Now, LDS apologists and scholars many times refer to various statements by early Christians and/or fringe Christian groups as evidencing LDS beliefs. Yet, there is absolutely no evidence of a single, unified, ancient Church of Jesus Christ that held these beliefs.

So now what?-Well, that’s where I’m at now. I’ve decided to start reading some critical (not “anti”) books and resources to more understand that perspective. I know I’ve mentioned before on this board that I have many critical and anti (noting the difference) books, articles, websites, etc. I’ll start looking at Mormon Think again, and I just pulled “An Insider’s View of Mormon Origins” and “One Nation Under Gods” off the shelf, and am starting Insider’s. Any other suggested resources (not interested in CARM, Tanner’s, or anything of the sort). Just want to understand the “other side” and make an informed decision. I’m familiar with the “other side”, having been there before my conversion, yet I would appreciate any other thoughts as well.

Some of you may wonder why I don’t just walk away. Well! I wish it was that easy. As a convert of many years, I luckily don’t have family as members, though I have many friends (I’m in my 20s). I also serve as Elders Quorum President right now. I don’t see how I could just fade away like some of the people that we’re trying to “reactivate” do. Not sure what to do about that. And of course I haven’t written off Mormonism at this point, just strongly questioning. Guess I’m missing Catholicism what with the being in the midst of electing a new Pope, and I was thinking about how I missed walking around the Basilica of the National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception, lighting candles there, feeling connected to something ancient, etc.

Anyway, just wanted to share, and appreciate thoughts from all perspectives. I have more thoughts on this, but have to run to work, and wanted to get this in before I run. I’ll post again late tonight/tomorrow. Oh and I don’t accept PMs (for various reasons), so I’d appreciate thoughts posted in the thread.
You have a lot to think about, to meditate on.

There is only one question that I will pose to you think and meditate on whatever concerns or issues or loves you have.

How important is spiritual truth, spiritual realities to you?

God Bless. Will be praying for you and your journey. Wherever it leads, where ever you find God takes you.
 
LW7, I can’t think of a Mormon resource that is convincing. I think if I could, I would not have left Mormonism. 🙂 That isn’t to say I don’t understand the reasoning the LDS have for staying in LDS church, because I do, it just doesn’t fly with me.

I can only recommend that you deepen your personal spiritual practices, More prayer and more study of the Bible. It is Lent, after all, when we are called to deepening conversion and penitence. Join us during this time, in deepening your own spirituality. Holy Week is coming up, the Triduum is a good time to worship Christ, in communion with the whole Church. Fast with us on Good Friday.

Pray the rosary.

God bless you on your journey, wherever your path may lead.

Rebecca
 
God Bless You Livingwaters7. I pray that you find your answer. That goes for all of us here in need of answers. I pray for all of us
 
When I saw the title of your thread, I had to take you off of ignore to see what was going on.

Good for you!! I realize that you are not saying you will convert, and you’re not saying you’re not. Just the fact that you are investigating things is a HUGE step.

Converting, let alone thinking about it is very difficult. Believe me, I’ve been there.

Reading some of the Early Church Fathers (ECFs) are a great place to start. Aquinas for one.

Another great place to start (which I highly recommend), is talk to a priest. Call a local parish, or one a bit further away(if you’re worried about being seen), and make an appointment to meet with him. They are a huge resource, and can provide you with a wealth of information, with absolutely no obligation.

Another great resource is our forum members who were previously mormon. Most of them struggled with the same points as you.

I will pray for you on this journey. I know it will be difficult, but remember the Holy Spirit is leading you this way for a reason. Just be open to it.

God Bless.
I think it would be much better to read Augustine first as Aquinus is not an Early Church Father (he was born in 1225)
 
I think it would be much better to read Augustine first as Aquinus is not an Early Church Father (he was born in 1225)
See post #4, it’s been covered already.

I’ll just stand over here and wait for the firing squad 😛
 
See post #4, it’s been covered already.

I’ll just stand over here and wait for the firing squad 😛
Two -

I know you know better. Was it the wine or beer or something else? Or were you just overly excited for LW?
😃
 
Two -

I know you know better. Was it the wine or beer or something else? Or were you just overly excited for LW?
😃
No, none of the above.

I was wrong, and I must be punished.

I will tell you though, after the day I had today, a beer sounds good, and I don’t even drink!!!
 
Congratulations, LW, and may your journey to the Truth go well. :crossrc:👍

Pekin: bad weather down your way? Only another six inches here, and I was hoping for a blizzard.
 
Congratulations, LW, and may your journey to the Truth go well. :crossrc:👍

Pekin: bad weather down your way? Only another six inches here, and I was hoping for a blizzard.
We only got about 3 in the Peoria area. A little over 7 southeast of Springfield.

But with all the airport delays, cancellations, etc. I think I’m going to start drinking…LOL
 
Pekin: bad weather down your way? Only another six inches here, and I was hoping for a blizzard.
PLEASE KEEP ALL BLIZZARDS IN YOUR PART OF THE COUNTRY. WE GOT HIT WITH “NEMO” AND WE LOST 10 OF OUR 14 GREENHOUSES ON OUR FARM. MAJOR HIT TO OUR LIVELYHOOD

(I now return you to your regular programming, already in progress)
 
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