I see the problem here. No, the word “intense” or the expression “intense prayer” is used in Spiritual Theology to describe a life of constant prayer.
If it were obsessive, it would be a pathalogy, not a virtue.
Intense prayer, on the other hand, is the placing of self in the constant presence of God, whether one is on his knees in front of the tabernacle, at liturgy, at recollection or at work.
St. Jose Maria describes the latter very well. He speaks of taking the ordinary and turning it into prayer. He’s referring to the work of daily life, whatever that may be for each of us. In other words, one does not have to stop praying because we have to teach, go to the office, take care of the kids, walk the dog, etc. Those daily duties can be done as prayer when we offer them to the Lord and we do them for the Lord. Therefore, we do them to the best of our ability. It’s not always going to be perfect, but it should always be the best that we can do.
St. Jose Maria is thinking along the same lines as St. Benedict, St. Francis and St. Therese. Benedict use the term “ora et labora” (pray and work). Francis said, “Everyone shall work, for the Lord also worked.” Therese said, “Do the small things with great love.” All of them were raising the intent of work. Work ceases to be an end in itself, and becomes another means to achieve holiness. In that sense, it becomes part of our life of prayer. The classic definition of prayer is raising the mind and heart to God. One can do this while washing the car too. Don’t stop when you put down your rosary.
Does that help?
As to your other question, no I’m not a priest. I’m a religious. In our community everyone is Brother, ordained or not. We don’t distinguish. Actually, in the entire Franciscan family there is no distinction. In the 20th century, people began to call ordained brothers, Father, because they were used to doing that with other priests. It stuck.
Today, the movement is to go back to the roots of the order. Some Franciscan communities use Brother, others use Friar and some just go with the flow, because it’s not a major issue as long as the ordained are not singularized.
You will find Franciscans who are not ordained but are theologians, spiritual directors, parish administrators, superiors, novice masters, formators, medical doctors, teachers, etc.
You will also find ordained Franciscans who are writers, parish priests, confessors, directors of soup kitchens, running homeless shelters, doing street ministry, on mission teams.
And everyone gets to do laundry, cook, scrub floors, and whatever else it takes to run the house and the ministry.
For example, I was a superior. Now I’m on the formation team and I teach spiritual theology to those in formation and I run a diocesan formation ministry for men in crisis pregnancies, teach and preach. Since I’ve done a lot of teaching, when I joined CAF I couldn’t think of a really snazzy name, so I chose my initials and education, hence JReducation.
Fraternally,
Br. JR, OSF