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Here is the link to the CCC.
You’re drawing a correlation that doesn’t exist. We ALL have baptismal rights as priest, profit, and king. The sacrament of marriage doesn’t bestow special “head of household” rights on a man any more than it gives special graces to women. the CCC makes it VERY clear that they are EQUALS in the eyes of God. One could argue it gives different graces, but these are no more effective or special than the graces given to a women in the sacrament of matrimony.Q. 574. What is a Sacrament?
A. A Sacrament is an outward sign instituted by Christ to give grace.
Q. 602. What is sacramental grace?
A. Sacramental grace is a special help which God gives, to attain the end for which He instituted each Sacrament.
I never said marriage is ordination. But it is as a sacrament and all sacraments give special grace to attain the ends for which it was instituted. The husband, as head of the household, therefore has grace for his specific role of authority in the family.
Right. Each receives grace necessary to his or her role. The husband receives grace for his role of head of the family.Yes – marriage is a Sacrament. The Grace(s) of the Sacrament of marriage applies to both husband and wife.
So you deny the constant teaching of the Church that the man is the head of the household?You’re drawing a correlation that doesn’t exist. We ALL have baptismal rights as priest, profit, and king. The sacrament of marriage doesn’t bestow special “head of household” rights on a man any more than it gives special graces to women. the CCC makes it VERY clear that they are EQUALS in the eyes of God. One could argue it gives different graces, but these are no more effective or special than the graces given to a women in the sacrament of matrimony.
I was wondering about Ethiopia–whether that counted as sub-Saharan Africa. Shall we say “No Christianity in sub-Saharan Africa except for Ethiopia”?You’re wrong about Sub-Sahara Africa. You’re forgetting the Ethiopian Orthodox Church which was certainly alive and well long before the 10th century.
East Asia… depends what you mean by that. Assyrian Christians reached China by the 7th century. In the Pre-Islamic era, the Assyrian Church was far more widespread than we Latins were back in Western Europe.
he grace of the sacrament of Matrimony
1642 Christ is the source of this grace. "Just as of old God encountered his people with a covenant of love and fidelity, so our Savior, the spouse of the Church, now encounters Christian spouses through the sacrament of Matrimony."149 Christ dwells with them, gives them the strength to take up their crosses and so follow him, to rise again after they have fallen, to forgive one another, to bear one another’s burdens, to “be subject to one another out of reverence for Christ,” 150 and to love one another with supernatural, tender, and fruitful love. In the joys of their love and family life he gives them here on earth a foretaste of the wedding feast of the Lamb:
So you deny the constant teaching of the Church that the man is the head of the household?
OK. So if I understand you accept the husband is the head of the household. But you deny he is given special graces necessary for this role? If so this also would be at odds with the Faith.No. I deny that the “head of the household” gets ANY grace not turned out measure for measure with EQUAL graces for the “heart of the household” which is the woman. These may, understandably be different graces but they are NOT, by any means more effective.
To say a man gets more grace than a woman during a sacrament that is administered equally between them would be to make a mockery of the whole institution of marriage and create a lasting imbalance of spiritual grace.
There is no such thing EVER indicated in scripture, CCC or Cannon Law. Even when the “head of the household” is supported, there is absolutely NO evidence that equal (but perhaps different) graces are not given to a woman.
Could you find us an authoritative Church document saying that the husband gets more graces than the wife, or that the husband’s prayers are more valued than the wife’s? Because I’m not seeing any documents being cited so far that say those things. Even if the husband is the head of the household (which you can get out of Casti Connubii, just as you get the idea that the wife is the heart of the home), it does not follow that the husband gets more graces or that his prayers carry more weight.And it is the constant teaching of the Church.
The author of the Letter to the Ephesians sees no contradiction between an exhortation formulated in this way and the words: “Wives, be subject to your husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife” (5:22-23). The author knows that this way of speaking, so profoundly rooted in the customs and religious tradition of the time, is to be understood and carried out in a new way: as a “mutual subjection out of reverence for Christ” (cf. Eph 5:21). This is especially true because the husband is called the “head” of the wife as Christ is the head of the Church; he is so in order to give “himself up for her” (Eph 5:25), and giving himself up for her means giving up even his own life. However, whereas in the relationship between Christ and the Church the subjection is only on the part of the Church, in the relationship between husband and wife the “subjection” is not one-sided but mutual.
In relation to the “old” this is evidently something “new”: it is an innovation of the Gospel. We find various passages in which the apostolic writings express this innovation, even though they also communicate what is “old”: what is rooted in the religious tradition of Israel, in its way of understanding and explaining the sacred texts, as for example the second chapter of the Book of Genesis.[49]
The apostolic letters are addressed to people living in an environment marked by that same traditional way of thinking and acting. The “innovation” of Christ is a fact: it constitutes the unambiguous content of the evangelical message and is the result of the Redemption. However, the awareness that in marriage there is mutual “subjection of the spouses out of reverence for Christ”, and not just that of the wife to the husband, must gradually establish itself in hearts, consciences, behaviour and customs. This is a call which from that time onwards, does not cease to challenge succeeding generations; it is a call which people have to accept ever anew. Saint Paul not only wrote: “In Christ Jesus… there is no more man or woman”, but also wrote: “There is no more slave or freeman”. Yet how many generations were needed for such a principle to be realized in the history of humanity through the abolition of slavery! And what is one to say of the many forms of slavery to which individuals and peoples are subjected, which have not yet disappeared from history?
But the challenge presented by the “ethos” of the Redemption is clear and definitive. All the reasons in favour of the “subjection” of woman to man in marriage must be understood in the sense of a “mutual subjection” of both “out of reverence for Christ”. The measure of true spousal love finds its deepest source in Christ, who is the Bridegroom of the Church, his Bride.
Mulieris Dignitatem (August 15, 1988) | John Paul II