Contraception Ban: Be fruitful and overpopulate?

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Who said anything about celibacy. I’ll have sex with my wife, because she’s my wife, and put my faith in God that if He blesses us with children, he will also provide.
Uhhh…the person I quoted did…

Well good for you, but are you loosing your job months after taking on your first mortgage? If not good for you, I’m toeing the line of destitution and insolvency, walk a mile in my shoes pal I guarantee you’ll think a bit different no matter what you bluster on a message board.
 
Demonstrates a lack of faith, IMO. Just my opinion though.
Do you think that all people who get evicted and forced on the dole are faithless cretins? no matter how faithful you are God doesn’t always provide. If you believe He does then you have to believe that everyone who lives in poverty are faithless animals deserving of their fate. You sound like a perfect candidate for the “health and wealth Gospel”.
 
Uhhh…the person I quoted did…

Well good for you, but are you loosing your job months after taking on your first mortgage? If not good for you, I’m toeing the line of destitution and insolvency, walk a mile in my shoes pal I guarantee you’ll think a bit different no matter what you bluster on a message board.
Walk a mile in my shoes and you’ll think your situation ain’t so bad.
 
Do you think that all people who get evicted and forced on the dole are faithless cretins? no matter how faithful you are God doesn’t always provide.
“Being on the dole” is being provided for. It may insult one’s pride, and of course, we should always be working as hard as we can to provide for ourselves, but as you know, pride is one of the seven deadly sins.
 
Okay, I am going to try hard to keep the strawmen from popping into my posts. They represent the views of real people who often hold contradictory views about population on a number of moral issues, but I will try hard to address only the specific views that Contarini shared. We agree on many moral issues, but we specifically see the issue of non-abortificatient contraception differently.
…I have very mixed feelings about the contraception issue. I think the Catholic understanding of the nature of sexuality is a powerful one, and I essentially agree with it. I also think that there’s something to the argument that if people see children as an unwanted byproduct of sex, this will lead them to resort to abortion if contraception doesn’t work. At the same time, practically speaking it does seem to be counterproductive to ban non-abortifacient contraceptives if our main goal is to reduce abortions, since obviously people who never get pregnant will never have abortions. However, that really isn’t my point here, which is simply that non-abortifacient contraception clearly is not taking human life and thus cannot be set against the horrors of disease, famine, etc.
We differ on what our main goal is. I brought up how over-population concerns relate to abortion earlier because many on this board do share the view that abortion is immoral, yet they may fall for fears of overpopulation. I think it’s important that they understand how overpopulation concerns and contraception are often link with abortion. But my main goal is not to simply reduce the number of abortions–my main goal is living morally and getting to heaven.

If the goal is to reduce pregnancies (and therefore also the number of abortion), let’s examine methods of birth control. I found a table with effectiveness rates at a non-Catholic website that seems to promote contraception here: storknet.com/cubbies/birthcontrol/methods.htm Please note the rate of expected pregnanies from typical use is PER YEAR. Every year, women having sex become pregnant–and many of them used contraception.

One main problem with contraception–even the non-abortificant types–is that people mistakenly believe it prevents pregnancy. No it doesn’t; contraception only reduces the chance of pregnancy when having sex. Because many people mistakenly believe they won’t get pregnant when using contraception, some people who fear pregnancy and might not otherwise engage in sexual activity, have sex. Some get pregnant.

The out of wedlock pregnancy rate rose substantially following the legalization and widespread acceptance of contraception. Once contraception became available to married couples, many others began engaging in sexual activity outside of marriage because unmarried persons also had access to contraception too. More sex usually results in more pregnancies. If you believe–as I do–that sex outside of marriage is not part of God’s plan, then I hope you can see how contraception within marriage contributes to others having sex outside of marriage. I believe the widespread availability of contraception promotes immoral sexual behavior.​

So your point was that non-abortificant methods of contraception that don’t take human lives can’t be set against the horrors of disease and famine. Could you please elaborate what you mean by that?
 
Uhhh of course not… Don’t be absurd, stop equating using a condom to murdering a baby. Man the liberties and insults some of you “die hard” Catholics have levied at me leaves me truly amazed.

I’ll have sex with my wife, because she’s my wife, I’m not going to demand celibacy for two or three years until our financial picture looks more rosey, that’s ridiculous.
So…you still didn’t explore that question. If you have such a grave reason to delay children, why in the world would you be using artificial contraception?

And when that contraception fails and your wife conceives a baby, what will you do since you are in such a drastic situation?

I find it very offensive that you call me some diehard Catholic just to dismiss my completely non-religious questions regarding the efficacy of a hormonal replacement therapy. This is science and logic, not religion.
 
Uhhh…the person I quoted did…

Well good for you, but are you loosing your job months after taking on your first mortgage? If not good for you, I’m toeing the line of destitution and insolvency, walk a mile in my shoes pal I guarantee you’ll think a bit different no matter what you bluster on a message board.
Furthermore, celibacy is a vow to refrain from sexual behavior including sexual intercourse. This is commonly a vow taken by religious people.

What is being proposed on this board is abstinence. For example, you practice it everyday at work, in the car and while eating dinner.

I didn’t see celibacy tossed around on here…was the post deleted?
 
Okay, I am going to try hard to keep the strawmen from popping into my posts. They represent the views of real people who often hold contradictory views about population on a number of moral issues, but I will try hard to address only the specific views that Contarini shared. We agree on many moral issues, but we specifically see the issue of non-abortificatient contraception differently.

We differ on what our main goal is. I brought up how over-population concerns relate to abortion earlier because many on this board do share the view that abortion is immoral, yet they may fall for fears of overpopulation. I think it’s important that they understand how overpopulation concerns and contraception are often link with abortion.
The link is through the mind of overly zealous people
But my main goal is not to simply reduce the number of abortions–my main goal is living morally and getting to heaven.

If the goal is to reduce pregnancies (and therefore also the number of abortion), let’s examine methods of birth control. I found a table with effectiveness rates at a non-Catholic website that seems to promote contraception here: storknet.com/cubbies/birthcontrol/methods.htm Please note the rate of expected pregnanies from typical use is PER YEAR. Every year, women having sex become pregnant–and many of them used contraception.

One main problem with contraception–even the non-abortificant types–is that people mistakenly believe it prevents pregnancy. No it doesn’t; contraception only reduces the chance of pregnancy when having sex. Because many people mistakenly believe they won’t get pregnant when using contraception, some people who fear pregnancy and might not otherwise engage in sexual activity, have sex. Some get pregnant.

The out of wedlock pregnancy rate rose substantially following the legalization and widespread acceptance of contraception. Once contraception became available to married couples, many others began engaging in sexual activity outside of marriage because unmarried persons also had access to contraception too.
this is simple incorrect
More sex usually results in more pregnancies.
this is simple incorrect

If you believe–as I do–that sex outside of marriage is not part of God’s plan, then I hope you can see how contraception within marriage contributes to others having sex outside of marriage. I believe the widespread availability of contraception promotes immoral sexual behavior.​

So your point was that non-abortificant methods of contraception that don’t take human lives can’t be set against the horrors of disease and famine. Could you please elaborate what you mean by that?
People to not have to be immoral, whether they have 50 condoms or none. The fact is more babies are lost* when no method of birth control is used. That is simple math. No pregnancy requires the immoral action of killing. Anybody who deliberately misleads even when promoting NFP needs to re-read their catechism. The Church’s position is no outside interference in the process so the condom is banned.
  • this is through the natural process not intental human action
 
I brought up how over-population concerns relate to abortion earlier because many on this board do share the view that abortion is immoral, yet they may fall for fears of overpopulation.
But it’s precisely for that reason that your argument was a “straw man.” In other words, you were admitting that your fellow Catholics on this board who might be concerned about overpopulation agree with you that abortion is wrong–and I also agree with you on that. So you are holding out this bogeyman of “people who want to use abortion to reduce overpopulation” when in fact that isn’t a live option being debated. Nor is there any necessary link. Obviously if people think abortion is a legitimate option, then when contraception fails they may turn to abortion. But we are all agreed so far that abortion isn’t a legitimate option, so it becomes completely irrelevant for the points we do disagree on.
One main problem with contraception–even the non-abortificant types–is that people mistakenly believe it prevents pregnancy. No it doesn’t; contraception only reduces the chance of pregnancy when having sex. Because many people mistakenly believe they won’t get pregnant when using contraception, some people who fear pregnancy and might not otherwise engage in sexual activity, have sex. Some get pregnant.

The out of wedlock pregnancy rate rose substantially following the legalization and widespread acceptance of contraception. Once contraception became available to married couples, many others began engaging in sexual activity outside of marriage because unmarried persons also had access to contraception too. More sex usually results in more pregnancies. If you believe–as I do–that sex outside of marriage is not part of God’s plan, then I hope you can see how contraception within marriage contributes to others having sex outside of marriage. I believe the widespread availability of contraception promotes immoral sexual behavior.
This raises several closely connected issues. One of them is whether as a matter of social policy it’s legitimate to take actions in order to save life that might have the unwanted side-effect of promoting sexual immorality. I had this argument some time ago with regard to AIDS in Africa. (I would say that yes, it is legitimate). Another is whether the effect you describe (if your statistics are accurate, a point on which I will reserve judgment until I see further evidence) could not be counteracted through clearer instruction regarding the failure rates of contraceptive practices (in fact, I hear that such instruction is taking place in contemporary sex-education programs, to the extent that liberals criticize many of these programs for greatly exaggerating the risk of failure). However, the most relevant point is that if we are talking about reducing pregnancies across the board (both to prevent birth-control-by-horrific-disaster and to prevent abortions), then you can’t just talk about out-of-wedlock pregnancies, obviously. It is possible that unmarried people do have more sex when birth control is more available. But obviously our goal is not to prevent married people from having sex (at least I hope yours isn’t!), and one presumes that married people are more likely to have sex anyway than unmarried people (stereotypes about married people losing interest in sex to the contrary!). So I don’t think you have shown that promoting purely natural means of birth control is going to reduce the number of abortions or going to be more effective in preventing disaster-as-birth-control.
So your point was that non-abortificant methods of contraception that don’t take human lives can’t be set against the horrors of disease and famine.
My point is simply that whatever the moral problems with birth control (leaving abortion out of it), it is far more moral to make birth control available than to sit back and willingly allow huge numbers of people (including many children, born and unborn) die from disease and famine. I recognize that you and other hardline defenders of the Catholic position will disagree with this premise. To me, this constitutes a very good reason for moral people to think twice about accepting the Catholic position. If birth control is indeed such a serious sin, then you are right–but those of us on the fence about whether it is sinful and how sinful it might be find your callousness about massive amounts of death and suffering a pretty persuasive argument against the view that birth control is in fact a matter of such grave moral significance. We know that allowing lots of people to suffer and die when you could prevent it is a bad thing. So a moral view that leads you to acquiesce in this has a strong presumption against it from the start.

In Christ,

Edwin
 
My point is simply that whatever the moral problems with birth control (leaving abortion out of it), it is far more moral to make birth control available than to sit back and willingly allow huge numbers of people (including many children, born and unborn) die from disease and famine. I recognize that you and other hardline defenders of the Catholic position will disagree with this premise. To me, this constitutes a very good reason for moral people to think twice about accepting the Catholic position. If birth control is indeed such a serious sin, then you are right–but those of us on the fence about whether it is sinful and how sinful it might be find your callousness about massive amounts of death and suffering a pretty persuasive argument against the view that birth control is in fact a matter of such grave moral significance.
Edwin, I sent you a pm, but I want to address this quote here since you brought up that my hardline stance might drive you and others further from accepting the Catholic Church’s position. I apologize if I sounded callous.

I wasn’t clear about how real you thought the threat of over-population is. I am clearer now; thank you for clarifying. I do* not* share your worries about famine and disease due to over-population. If I worried about that, I wouldn’t have seven children.

I don’t believe that the choice is between using contraception or allow large numbers of people to starve to death. I would not “willingly allowing huge numbers of people” to die from famine and disease. I don’t believe lack of contraception would cause such problems, so there is no “willingness” on my part.

I believe contraception is a serious sin. Some people don’t. Some people may believe I am irresponsible for having seven children and contributing to the “over-population problem.” I don’t think I am. We see the world differently. I like my world view better. 🙂

In Christ, gardens
 
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