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Grandfather’s post above was excellent!

I have another question for you, though…So, you’re “open to being convinced”…Why do we need to convince you?

I am more and more beginning to agree with dzheremi that this thread is nothing more than a provocative “thought experiment”. Perhaps you could “convince” us otherwise. :cool:
By the way. I am a Catholic who loves Orthodoxy. I am also broken hearted that the two are not one. Why can’t we embrace? Why can’t we love one another as God and His holy mother we both claim to love will?

The obstinacy and rancor that has gone on and still does is truly a disgrace. We make fools of ourselves and disgrace God. Whatever you think about the pope, Marian dogmas, the word formulas about the Holy Trinity arguments, you can argue for another thousand years with no resolution, but be sure of this, the separation, animosity, violence, and general nastiness that has taken place between professing Christians, the Orthodox and Catholics who obstinately remain divided is a disgrace and if we knew grace we would be ashamed instead of hard hearted in what we have done and beg one another’s forgiveness, and God’s.

Jesus commands in the gospel that we be one and that we love one another. We disobey the Savior. Unity is not a divine suggestion. Do your best to get along. It is a command. The cause of the destruction once Christian civilization is division. If we hope to rebuild and regain what has been lost it will never happen without unity.
 
By the way. I am a Catholic who loves Orthodoxy. I am also broken hearted that the two are not one. Why can’t we embrace? Why can’t we love one another as God and His holy mother we both claim to love will?

The obstinacy and rancor that has gone on and still does is truly a disgrace. We make fools of ourselves and disgrace God. Whatever you think about the pope, Marian dogmas, the word formulas about the Holy Trinity arguments, you can argue for another thousand years with no resolution, but be sure of this, the separation, animosity, violence, and general nastiness that has taken place between professing Christians, the Orthodox and Catholics who obstinately remain divided is a disgrace and if we knew grace we would be ashamed instead of hard hearted in what we have done and beg one another’s forgiveness, and God’s.

Jesus commands in the gospel that we be one and that we love one another. We disobey the Savior. Unity is not a divine suggestion. Do your best to get along. It is a command. The cause of the destruction once Christian civilization is division. If we hope to rebuild and regain what has been lost it will never happen without unity.
It has been said by some people I know that the schism between us is a sin, and that to the extent we maintain that schism we participate in that sin. I am not one to know or decide whether that is in fact true or not. I do know, however, that our schism is a source of immense suffering and sadness, and my sense is that, very unfortunately and as much as I would love to see it, there will be no reunification in what’s left of my lifetime. 😦
 
What are the most fundamental doctrinal differences, the points of contention, keeping Eastern Orthodoxy and the Catholic Church separate? Maybe it is the authority of the pope, Marian dogmas, the Filioque, maybe one or two others.

Anyone trying to decide between which party in a schism is right should consider the core issues in dispute. Your approach, convince me you are right and I will convert does not seem like the best way to go about resolving the matter. It sounds like a dare, or an attempt to provoke argument.

Thinking about which rite you would belong to is getting the cart before the horse. It is not relevant to where you are now. It does not matter now.
1Tim215Mommy, I don’t know if I would have put it in exactly the same way, but essentially I agree with grandfather that your approach isn’t quite right.

The way I look at it, some people were born into Anglicanism, Lutheranism, etc., and are free agents (so to speak) with respect to joining Catholicism vs joining Orthodoxy. But on the other hand, those of us who already belong to one or the other of those two Churches are not free agents. I’m not saying that I would never even consider becoming Orthodox (incidentally, there was a time when I gave it quite a lot of consideration), but it would be a very different act for me than it would be for eg a Lutheran, because it would mean that I would be “schisming” from the Catholic Church.
 
I’m not saying that I would never even consider becoming Orthodox (incidentally, there was a time when I gave it quite a lot of consideration), but it would be a very different act for me than it would be for eg a Lutheran, because it would mean that I would be “schisming” from the Catholic Church.
I’m assuming that if you ever did become Orthodox it would be because you’re convinced they’re correct and the Catholic Church is not. If that is the case would you see yourself entering into schism, or leaving it? (This is how I saw it when I became Orthodox.)
 
I’m assuming that if you ever did become Orthodox it would be because you’re convinced they’re correct and the Catholic Church is not. If that is the case would you see yourself entering into schism, or leaving it? (This is how I saw it when I became Orthodox.)
I can’t quite put my finger on it, but that seems somewhat like a distinction without a difference, as the saying goes.

If I’m OC and believe that the CC is “in schism”, there is a schism, right?
If I’m CC and believe that the OC is “in schism”, there is a schism, right"

Either way there is a schism and someone has schism-ed from someone else. (Or, both from each other??)

So if I leave one side of the schism for the other, that doesn’t eliminate the schism, it just puts me on the other (you know, the “right”) side of it, doesn’t it? All’s I’ve done, really, is switch sides.

Or…is my reasoning faulty (again…😦 😦 )??

Be all that as it may, though, I still don’t understand WHY we need to convince 1Tim215Mommy to enter into the Catholic Church…:confused:🤷
 
I’m assuming that if you ever did become Orthodox it would be because you’re convinced they’re correct and the Catholic Church is not. If that is the case would you see yourself entering into schism, or leaving it? (This is how I saw it when I became Orthodox.)
I meant “schisming” in the sense that if I left Catholicism for Orthodoxy, I would be schisming from Catholicism and, likewise, if I left Orthodoxy for Catholicism I would be schisming from Orthodoxy. (See also my example that a Lutheran could join Orthodoxy without schisming from Catholicism – and vice versa.)

But having said that, I tend to be a bit reluctant to use the word schisiming because I think it is sometimes used as a cheap attack.
 
It has been said by some people I know that the schism between us is a sin, and that to the extent we maintain that schism we participate in that sin. I am not one to know or decide whether that is in fact true or not. I do know, however, that our schism is a source of immense suffering and sadness, and my sense is that, very unfortunately and as much as I would love to see it, there will be no reunification in what’s left of my lifetime. 😦
Disobeying divine commands is sinful. Christ commands unity. The disunity was caused by individuals, mainly those in the hierarchy who also obstinately persist in maintaining it.

We can be culpable for the guilt of others in several ways. One way is encouraging the sinner or the sin. In that way we are participants in the particular evil. Those who fuel the fires of acrimony and division are guilty of this ongoing very grievous sin. Those who are pained by the division and pray for healing are in God’s will.

Orthodox and Catholics claim they honor the Virgin Mother of God. Does anyone think Mary endorses this ugly mess among her children created by those who say they honor her and wish to please her? Instead of asking which side is right ask which is the bigger pack of nitwits.

Whether you are Orthodox or Catholic rather than condemn the other, condemn this disgraceful breech for the evil it is. Ask for forgiveness of one another and God and stop the accusations.
 
That’s all fine and well, but who is willing to give up the theological and ecclesiological distinctives that keep them apart to make way for this unity? If I apologize to Roman Catholics and Eastern Orthodox for not agreeing with them about Chalcedon, to use but one example (which I’m absolutely not going to do, and I do not expect them to do to me, either), then what? Saying that we wish schisms would end and apologizing for poor treatment isn’t unity. Communing together openly and honestly and without any sort of hindrance is unity, and that’s not going to happen just because RCs say they love the Orthodox or vice versa.

Sorry to be a wet blanket, but really…everything that doesn’t result in adoption of the faith entire without precondition is navel gazing and fake hand-wringing. I mean, I am most definitely not happy that we are separated from the Chalcedonians, but I don’t want to be one, because I think they are wrong. And they for their part will not accept me or anyone in my communion unless we assent to exactly what they want us to, including Chalcedon, so what’s the point of all this hue and cry and reminders of Christ’s call to unity? Absolutely every communion in the world of Christianity believes that they have such unity already in their communion, and even more to the point they’re right. Catholics have unity around the Roman Pope and the distinctive ecclesiology of their communion that makes that the most important defining characteristic of their church. Orthodox have unity around the Patriarchs of the autocephalous churches And for the both the other is at least in ecclesiological heresy, having gone back from what they claim was the model when we were all united. So what on earth are you going to do about it? If you won’t leave the Roman Pope, then don’t be shocked when the Orthodox won’t leave their Patriarchs and Popes, either. It takes two to schism, but only one to come back, but the one that has to come back is always the other guy, or else centuries of fathers in a given tradition are flat-out wrong.

And of course our fathers are not wrong. 🙂
 
The principles you’re laying out make sense, dzheremi … but that doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with, for example, Cathholics admitting that we worsened relations by proselytizing Orthodox, the First Vatican Council, even the sacking of Constantinople if we want to go back that far. We can’t change the past, but we can apologize for it.
 
That’s all fine and well, but who is willing to give up the theological and ecclesiological distinctives that keep them apart to make way for this unity? If I apologize to Roman Catholics and Eastern Orthodox for not agreeing with them about Chalcedon, to use but one example (which I’m absolutely not going to do, and I do not expect them to do to me, either), then what? Saying that we wish schisms would end and apologizing for poor treatment isn’t unity. Communing together openly and honestly and without any sort of hindrance is unity, and that’s not going to happen just because RCs say they love the Orthodox or vice versa.

Sorry to be a wet blanket, but really…everything that doesn’t result in adoption of the faith entire without precondition is navel gazing and fake hand-wringing. I mean, I am most definitely not happy that we are separated from the Chalcedonians, but I don’t want to be one, because I think they are wrong. And they for their part will not accept me or anyone in my communion unless we assent to exactly what they want us to, including Chalcedon, so what’s the point of all this hue and cry and reminders of Christ’s call to unity? Absolutely every communion in the world of Christianity believes that they have such unity already in their communion, and even more to the point they’re right. Catholics have unity around the Roman Pope and the distinctive ecclesiology of their communion that makes that the most important defining characteristic of their church. Orthodox have unity around the Patriarchs of the autocephalous churches And for the both the other is at least in ecclesiological heresy, having gone back from what they claim was the model when we were all united. So what on earth are you going to do about it? If you won’t leave the Roman Pope, then don’t be shocked when the Orthodox won’t leave their Patriarchs and Popes, either. It takes two to schism, but only one to come back, but the one that has to come back is always the other guy, or else centuries of fathers in a given tradition are flat-out wrong.

And of course our fathers are not wrong. 🙂
All of which is true. Especially the part about OUR fathers not being wrong 👍.

And none of which goes to convincing the OP to become Catholic.:eek::eek: Oh, wait a minute…were we supposed to be doing that? :D:cool:
 
dzheremi, of course I agree in main, but I’ll make a comment anyway (yeah BIG surprise … LOL) 😛
I mean, I am most definitely not happy that we are separated from the Chalcedonians, but I don’t want to be one, because I think they are wrong. And they for their part will not accept me or anyone in my communion unless we assent to exactly what they want us to, including Chalcedon, so what’s the point of all this hue and cry and reminders of Christ’s call to unity?
I really don’t want to be one of those either. :eek: But I think that in the matter of Christology, (which was really the point of Chalcedon), that hurdle has been vaulted, at least on Rome’s part (and … well, you know I generally don’t agree with Rome). What remains is more ecclesiological, and at this point in time, that is probably the most significant obstacle (at least between the RC and the OO & ACoE - the EO are another story and I won’t address that). I won’t address ecclesiology either, lest I get myself in dutch with one or another poster, but you already know where my chips are placed on that. 😉
 
The principles you’re laying out make sense, dzheremi … but that doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with, for example, Cathholics admitting that we worsened relations by proselytizing Orthodox, the First Vatican Council, even the sacking of Constantinople if we want to go back that far. We can’t change the past, but we can apologize for it.
Oh, but Peter, at least Vatican I can be changed,at least its formal and official interpretation. Of course it’s not going to be happening anytime soon, but it can be changed with a stroke of a (Papal) pen.
 
The principles you’re laying out make sense, dzheremi … but that doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with, for example, Cathholics admitting that we worsened relations by proselytizing Orthodox, the First Vatican Council, even the sacking of Constantinople if we want to go back that far. We can’t change the past, but we can apologize for it.
So, that’s what’s meant by Catholic “apologetics”! :D:D
 
dzheremi, of course I agree in main, but I’ll make a comment anyway (yeah BIG surprise … LOL) 😛

I really don’t want to be one of those either. :eek: But I think that in the matter of Christology, (which was really the point of Chalcedon), that hurdle has been vaulted, at least on Rome’s part (and … well, you know I generally don’t agree with Rome). What remains is more ecclesiological, and at this point in time, that is probably the most significant obstacle (at least between the RC and the OO & ACoE - the EO are another story and I won’t address that). I won’t address ecclesiology either, lest I get myself in dutch with one or another poster, but you already know where my chips are placed on that. 😉
Well…ok, then, leaving out ecclesiology to focus only on Christology, I think it is right to wonder how Rome has done that. Because I read all the agreed statements with the COC and the SOC, and I just don’t see them as uniative in the same way as Catholics apparently do. That’s why I made the point of specifying that the real bar is set at accepting the faith completely and without precondition. Rome is not actually accepting the OO faith by these documents, and neither are the OO accepting the Roman faith. They are fundamentally not the same, and the matter is only worsened much more with the RCC’s seeming acceptance of the Christology of the ACoE, which as I’m sure you know motivated the ending of talks between the COC and the ACoE in the mid-1990s after the disaster that was the Syriac dialogue organized by Pro Oriente in Vienna in February 1996, wherein, from the Coptic point of view, the ACoE went back on earlier promises made at the meetings at the monastery of St. Bishoy the previous year.

So, no, my friend, I am afraid I am going to have to disagree that the hurdle has been vaulted as far as Rome is concerned. Undiscerning omni-Christology does not Orthodoxy make, and you know we’re not interested in anything else.
 
Well…ok, then, leaving out ecclesiology to focus only on Christology, I think it is right to wonder how Rome has done that. Because I read all the agreed statements with the COC and the SOC, and I just don’t see them as uniative in the same way as Catholics apparently do. That’s why I made the point of specifying that the real bar is set at accepting the faith completely and without precondition. Rome is not actually accepting the OO faith by these documents, and neither are the OO accepting the Roman faith. They are fundamentally not the same, and the matter is only worsened much more with the RCC’s seeming acceptance of the Christology of the ACoE, which as I’m sure you know motivated the ending of talks between the COC and the ACoE in the mid-1990s after the disaster that was the Syriac dialogue organized by Pro Oriente in Vienna in February 1996, wherein, from the Coptic point of view, the ACoE went back on earlier promises made at the meetings at the monastery of St. Bishoy the previous year.

So, no, my friend, I am afraid I am going to have to disagree that the hurdle has been vaulted as far as Rome as concerned. Undiscerning omni-Christology does not Orthodoxy make, and you know we’re not interested in anything else.
Oh, I know that full well. In the matter of Christology, I don’t exactly think Rome is being “omni” but rather finally accepting that Rome’s rigidity in centuries past was in error. No offense intended, but the COC can be rather rigid as well (thanks, at least in part, to a certain influential bishop who has clear ties to MP where artificial or contrived rigidity is the byword) but relations between the COC and ACoE are not really the point I was looking at.
 
Tell me all the reasons why my family ought to leave the Greek Orthodox Church and become Eastern Catholic. Convince me.
IMV, There’s only one reason. To be Catholic and remain Catholic is the same reason. John 17:20-23

The Orthodox aren’t in union with Peter AND they aren’t in union with those who are in union with him … either.
 
Oh, I know that full well. In the matter of Christology, I don’t exactly think Rome is being “omni” but rather finally accepting that Rome’s rigidity in centuries past was in error. No offense intended, but the COC can be rather rigid as well (thanks, at least in part, to a certain influential bishop who has clear ties to MP where artificial or contrived rigidity is the byword) but relations between the COC and ACoE are not really the point I was looking at.
No offense taken; I know we can be rather rigid about certain things, and I certainly wouldn’t lay this one at the feet of His Grace Who Cannot Be Named, if we’re talking about why it is that we still have problems with the ACoE. And I know that’s not really the point you were looking at, but my point is that here is a document (presented at the link from the LA Dioscese) that does make the link between the RCC’s (relatively) chummy relations with the ACoE and the complication of the RCC’s relations with the COC. Because by giving sanction to the ACoE Christology that our church very much opposes (rightly or wrongly, according to whomever; I don’t really want this discussion to turn into a discussion about that) in the name of being less rigid or having a big tent theology or whatever the heck is going on here, it alienates the COC on Christological grounds. We thought we understood the people we were talking with and what goals we were working toward together (e.g., with the Nestorians at the monastery, or meeting with Catholics elsewhere to produce “agreed statements” or whatever), only to have things “inverted” (as per Fr. Moses’ wording) later on in the name of…whatever that was (presenting the ACoE opinion, I guess; sure, fine). It’s kinda hard to have as good relations as possible when your interlocutor decides that everything is okay for everybody, so long as they submit to Rome ecclesiologically, which really is how it seems according to people in both the Coptic Orthodox and Indian Orthodox churches, as well as a few individuals in the Armenian Church (which by and large seems more liberal about these matters, but even then not so much that Nestorius is not opposed greatly; see below). So again I’m afraid I disagree with you and what I have termed the “omni-” approach must be rejected, whether it’s arrived at via a laissez faire attitude or what. Think about it this way: If dyophysitism is what you reject about Chalcedon (and I don’t expect nor even really want to get into that publicly), then the same idea should be no less wrong when coming from the ACoE instead of the Byzantines, no? As you may already know, the Armenians rejected Chalcedon a bit late due to the insistence of the Assyrians in their midst in Persia that Chalcedon confirmed that the Greeks now sided with them and against the Armenians in the Christological disagreement that had led to the condemnation of Nestorius only a short while earlier at Ephesus (you can see this if you read the two letters of the Armenian Catholicos Babken from around the time of the Council of Dvin, I believe just titled “To the Orthodox [read: Armenians] in Persia”; in the first letter, apparently written before the Armenians had gained much knowledge about what Chalcedon taught, HH writes that the Greeks agree with the Armenians, while in the second HH reflects that they have now called a Council to deal with this matter…this was the Council of Dvin in 506, when Chalcedon was rejected)
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So I don’t know…maybe I’m the one who is “rigid”, but I don’t think it’s to anything other than the defense of the faith from admitting things we believe are wrong as somehow now being acceptable when they are not. I actually just had the present conversation in miniature last night with an ACoE friend (see…I’m still nice to them! :p), and after we had each said our peace, we decided that it would be best to pray instead of arguing, as we at least share in common Mar Isaac of Nineveh. I should think that would also be the best conclusion to any discussion regarding the Roman Communion’s Christology/Christologies (or for that matter its ecclesiology, too). As was originally my point in the post you first replied, we’re simply not going to be convinced, by and large (funny, given the thread title, though I suppose individuals still might be; Mar Bawai Soro, who actually represented the ACoE in the meetings with the COC at the monastery of St. Bishoy, later became a Chaldean Catholic…as far as I know, that was an ecclesiological change, rather than a Christological one, but y’know…that’s on him).
 
I can’t agree with you on this because if our family were to leave the Greek Orthodox Church for an Eastern Catholic Church, we would have to pick an ethnicity - Ruthenian or Assyrian or Ukrainian or some other ethnicity - that is not part of our ethnic/culture heritage.

If we get over the hurdle of becoming convinced we must become Eastern Catholic rather than Eastern Orthodox, another question that would immediately follow is: Which Eastern Catholic ethnicity ought we select & on what criteria ought we base our ethnic decision on?
Why change? Why not remain what you are and be it
excellently? If baptized young do you believe the
Holy Spirit was in error with your Orthodoxy?
 
I can’t agree with you on this because if our family were to leave the Greek Orthodox Church for an Eastern Catholic Church, we would have to pick an ethnicity - Ruthenian or Assyrian or Ukrainian or some other ethnicity - that is not part of our ethnic/culture heritage.

If we get over the hurdle of becoming convinced we must become Eastern Catholic rather than Eastern Orthodox, another question that would immediately follow is: Which Eastern Catholic ethnicity ought we select & on what criteria ought we base our ethnic decision on?
No, you would not need to select an Eastern Catholic Church because of ethnic ancestry - you can and should select a community by its Eparchy leadership and pastoral service.
I am of Slavic and English heritage (my maternal grandfather was Greek Catholic from his birthplace in the old country) but I began worshiping with Melkite Greek Catholic in the USA. The Melkites have church locations in the USA, Canada and Mexico. Many of the Melkite Greek Catholics are of Mid-Eastern ancestry but there are church locations with Italians, French, Irish, English, German, Greek, Russian, Slovak and Polish. The Melkite Eparchy head in the USA ordained married deacons to the priesthood.

Of course I worship and pray with the Ruthenian and Ukranian Byzantine Catholic church communities in the Passiac NJ and Stamford CT Eparchy jurisdictions. And Russian Byzantine Catholic church in New York City and San Francisco (the NYC Russian Byzantine parish is served by a married Melkite clergy). But there is a deep treasure among the Melkites; the Melkites are near and dear to my heart! And soul!

Sorry to jump in here…but if you want to worship with the Melkites, we will welcome you. Please consider us!

God bless your spiritual journey!
 
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