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brotherhrolf, I am extremely sorry that my post came across as condensention. I did NOT intend this at all. I truly do respect your memories. My comments were NOT intended to make you into some kind of fossil.
I work with children a LOT, and I write children’s novels. Children are dear to me. THAT is why I suggested that you consider creating a character and turning your memories into good, wholesome stories for children. I was NOT, I swear, implying that you are in any way an “ecclesial dinosaur” and I was most certainly NOT trivializing your memories. I believe that little children desperately need good, religious stories that help them develop a strong belief in Jesus and their Church.
I realize that you may not be interested in that sort of writing, and that’s OK. It’s just a suggestion.
And yes, I have a really good idea of the anguish you experienced when they removed the altar rails.
How do you think I felt when I read in a Protestant periodical that “church organs should be thrown out, they are worthless in this day and age?”
How do you think I feel now when I read of Protestant churches that offer “communion” at the back of the church on a table–just help yourself to a paper cup of grape juice and a soda cracker.
How do you think I feel when I see wine and beer offered in Baptist homes? (Yes, I know most Catholics have no problem with wine and beer, but when I was growing up, it was absolutely forbidden and I have a very hard time with this change.)
How do you think I feel when I see a church pastored by an “assocation” from a far away city, and there is no “pastor”, but a “video” of his sermons that the people view while they sip latte and sit around tables?
How do you think I feel when youth groups no longer do Bible studies because “no one will come?” (This is what the youth pastor in the last evangelical church we attended told my daughter when she asked him if they could do a Bible study.)
How do you think I feel when children as young as 4 have to “audition” to be in the Christmas pageant!!! The children have to have a “portfolio” that demonstrates “experience with or aptitude in the performing arts.” (I am NOT kidding!)
How do you think I feel when the churches of my childhood march with NARAL, marry gay couples, and ordain women? Even the evangelical churches are making use of women pastors now!
And how do you think I felt when the church that I had faithfully worked in for 7 years KICKED ME AND MY HUSBAND OUT and accused us of heinous sins? One of the “deacons” who was present out our tribunal told me that I was “unloveable and unteachable,” even though he had NEVER MET ME UNTIL THAT EVENING!!! Even though my children’s choirs in that church had grown in three years from 24 children to over 60 children, and more were calling to be included. Even though my own children, teenagers at the time, actually taught a class of VBS children–my daughters were mature and responsible enough to teach their own class instead of just “helping.” Even though my husband was a wise man who donated subscriptions of “Creation Journal” to the Church library and any teenagers who were interested?
Oh, yes, brotherhrolf, I know all about the anquish that you have experienced. I have watched the church of my childhood deteriorate from a “family” to a “club.” At this point, I fear that my childhood church will soon close its doors. So few people attend now, and most of them are old. Everyone is packing into the trendy new “megachurch” and watching the professionally-produced (I am NOT kidding–they put out ads for professional stage managers, sound and light techs, and other production workers!) “worship experiences.”
However, my anguish differs from yours in one very important way. **I now know that my friends in the evangelical churches are possibly on the way to hell. ** THAT’S ANGUISH!
I drive by my childhood church every day, and I realize that they are estranged by choice from the Catholic Church, the Eucharist (the dear Lord Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament) and the other Sacraments, and the TRUTH of the teaching of Catholicism. Their only hope of heaven is God’s mercy.
At least when your Church fell apart all around you, the people were still bona fide Christians with the hope of heaven by virtue of their baptism. You knew that you could hope to see all your friends in heaven some day. Do you know that there are evangelical churches that NO LONGER PRACTICE BAPTISM?!!! It is a “ritual of man,” and they have eliminated it. God have mercy!
I pray that God will be merciful to my dear friends in their ignorance, and I pray with all my heart that the Holy Spirit will lead them home to the Catholic Church. And I pray that if possible, I can be used in some way to help them embrace Catholicism.
I am NOT bashing you or any Catholics who grew up pre-Vatican II. If you can find posts of mine that bash you, please quote them to me so that I can repent and apologize. I respect you and your past. I think your memories and stories are interesting and I enjoy reading your posts about New Orleans especially.
What I DON’T like is when someone (usually NOT you, which is why I was really surprised at your bitter quote earlier in this thread) tells ME that my Catholicism is “not really Catholic” or “lacking in some way” or “heresy.” THOSE kinds of comments represent rebellion against the Church, as far as I can see, and it is the sin of rebellion that felled Satan and his demons.
I really do want to know what you expect of us, brotherhrolf. I still don’t get it. I’m sorry to be so dense.
I work with children a LOT, and I write children’s novels. Children are dear to me. THAT is why I suggested that you consider creating a character and turning your memories into good, wholesome stories for children. I was NOT, I swear, implying that you are in any way an “ecclesial dinosaur” and I was most certainly NOT trivializing your memories. I believe that little children desperately need good, religious stories that help them develop a strong belief in Jesus and their Church.
I realize that you may not be interested in that sort of writing, and that’s OK. It’s just a suggestion.
And yes, I have a really good idea of the anguish you experienced when they removed the altar rails.
How do you think I felt when I read in a Protestant periodical that “church organs should be thrown out, they are worthless in this day and age?”
How do you think I feel now when I read of Protestant churches that offer “communion” at the back of the church on a table–just help yourself to a paper cup of grape juice and a soda cracker.
How do you think I feel when I see wine and beer offered in Baptist homes? (Yes, I know most Catholics have no problem with wine and beer, but when I was growing up, it was absolutely forbidden and I have a very hard time with this change.)
How do you think I feel when I see a church pastored by an “assocation” from a far away city, and there is no “pastor”, but a “video” of his sermons that the people view while they sip latte and sit around tables?
How do you think I feel when youth groups no longer do Bible studies because “no one will come?” (This is what the youth pastor in the last evangelical church we attended told my daughter when she asked him if they could do a Bible study.)
How do you think I feel when children as young as 4 have to “audition” to be in the Christmas pageant!!! The children have to have a “portfolio” that demonstrates “experience with or aptitude in the performing arts.” (I am NOT kidding!)
How do you think I feel when the churches of my childhood march with NARAL, marry gay couples, and ordain women? Even the evangelical churches are making use of women pastors now!
And how do you think I felt when the church that I had faithfully worked in for 7 years KICKED ME AND MY HUSBAND OUT and accused us of heinous sins? One of the “deacons” who was present out our tribunal told me that I was “unloveable and unteachable,” even though he had NEVER MET ME UNTIL THAT EVENING!!! Even though my children’s choirs in that church had grown in three years from 24 children to over 60 children, and more were calling to be included. Even though my own children, teenagers at the time, actually taught a class of VBS children–my daughters were mature and responsible enough to teach their own class instead of just “helping.” Even though my husband was a wise man who donated subscriptions of “Creation Journal” to the Church library and any teenagers who were interested?
Oh, yes, brotherhrolf, I know all about the anquish that you have experienced. I have watched the church of my childhood deteriorate from a “family” to a “club.” At this point, I fear that my childhood church will soon close its doors. So few people attend now, and most of them are old. Everyone is packing into the trendy new “megachurch” and watching the professionally-produced (I am NOT kidding–they put out ads for professional stage managers, sound and light techs, and other production workers!) “worship experiences.”
However, my anguish differs from yours in one very important way. **I now know that my friends in the evangelical churches are possibly on the way to hell. ** THAT’S ANGUISH!
I drive by my childhood church every day, and I realize that they are estranged by choice from the Catholic Church, the Eucharist (the dear Lord Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament) and the other Sacraments, and the TRUTH of the teaching of Catholicism. Their only hope of heaven is God’s mercy.
At least when your Church fell apart all around you, the people were still bona fide Christians with the hope of heaven by virtue of their baptism. You knew that you could hope to see all your friends in heaven some day. Do you know that there are evangelical churches that NO LONGER PRACTICE BAPTISM?!!! It is a “ritual of man,” and they have eliminated it. God have mercy!
I pray that God will be merciful to my dear friends in their ignorance, and I pray with all my heart that the Holy Spirit will lead them home to the Catholic Church. And I pray that if possible, I can be used in some way to help them embrace Catholicism.
I am NOT bashing you or any Catholics who grew up pre-Vatican II. If you can find posts of mine that bash you, please quote them to me so that I can repent and apologize. I respect you and your past. I think your memories and stories are interesting and I enjoy reading your posts about New Orleans especially.
What I DON’T like is when someone (usually NOT you, which is why I was really surprised at your bitter quote earlier in this thread) tells ME that my Catholicism is “not really Catholic” or “lacking in some way” or “heresy.” THOSE kinds of comments represent rebellion against the Church, as far as I can see, and it is the sin of rebellion that felled Satan and his demons.
I really do want to know what you expect of us, brotherhrolf. I still don’t get it. I’m sorry to be so dense.