God Graced Doug Mainwaring with a beautiful marriage to a woman.
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I’m only offering this up. I’m certainly not going to get into a debate. Unkindness from anyone is not of The Spirit.
He (Doug Mainwaring) suffered (or may still do) from same sex attraction; but made a decision to do what is Godly for himself and others around him.
Yes, it is true, I do not know what suffering from same sex attraction feels like. But I suffered from over attraction to woman far above natural attraction. And it wasn’t easy over the years that I did not cooperate with God’s Grace for pure Godly thinking, nearly enough. And one thing that never helped - and that was being cajoled by anyone. One of the main helps God sent, were Godly people. If we surround ourselves with those who went through some kind of struggle to be more Godly, who do not tell us what we want to hear; but are willing to help us with what we need to hear — then the battle develops a beachhead, gets to midway, and then through it – and a person becomes more willing to keep asking, seeking, and knocking to grow in conversion to God. God is for us, not against us, and God never cajoles; all we have to do is read The Gospels, which reflect the Authentic Christ Jesus.
Everyone should be treated with compassion and kindness. But lack of assertiveness is
not kindness. Now a days with many things, so many are called unkind and judgmental no matter how kind and empathetic they express the
truth of the natural law, which reflects God’s Law. And only by cooperating with God’s Grace can anyone begin to develop the inner peace;
and cheerfulness that God gives generously to overcome fleshly desired apart from God’s Will.
Yes, I know that not all who suffer from SSA, do this — but there are many who are down right mean if someone doesn’t agree with them. Should this be overlooked? When John Cardinal O’Connor was Bishop of NYC, some actually did sex acts on the steps of St. Patrick’s Cathedral.
Just like Bishop Fulton J. Sheen prophesied before 1950 — there would be an anthropomorphic centered accommodating atmosphere over the whole Church; which, from the outside would look the same. But he said do not worry, God will allow this for God’s Holy Purpose and the Chaste Church will always be available to those who choose it. But he also said, many do not realize the acceptance of evil in their times, because they just do not want to believe it.
I’m all for true compassion, and upholding a person’s personal God given dignity. One of the main problems in the world is enabling. And when this steam rolled more and more since the 1950s, and much more since the early 2000s, many see a tremendous correlation with so many leaving the Church.
After all, I can be a ‘good person,’ and help people. ‘Going to Church or not going to Church, doesn’t seem to make much difference in people’s lives.’
And things like that greatly contributed. None of us let God’s Grace develop a growth toward inner peace, harmony, chastity, and things like cheerfully helping others - by letting ‘feelings,’ trump faith and reason.
Peace.