When i talk to some non catholic frinds about the history of the church where the bible came from etc all i get back is " Its all about Jesus and as long as we love him then thats all that matters" Are there any sughgested approaches coz I find that a real road block.
Here’s a short answer. Denominational differences tend to exist where there are divisions over doctrine. Doctrines are statements about spiritual truth. Jesus said, “I am the Truth.” Therefore denominational differences are divisions from Jesus.
And here’s a longer answer.
First, some relevant scriptures:
Matthew 12:30, “He who is not with me is against me, and he who does not gather with me scatters.”
John 17:20-23, “I pray not only for them, but also for those who will believe in me through their word, so that they may all be one, as you, Father, are in me and I in you, that they also may be in us, that the world may believe that you sent me. And I have given them the glory you gave me,
so that they may be one, as we are one, I in them and you in me,
that they may be brought to perfection as one, that the world may know that you sent me, and that you loved them even as you loved me.”
Jesus prayed that we might be brought into perfection as one. Not as many divided churches but one united body. He also prayed that we might be one as He and His Father are one. That unity is TOTAL. No divisions whatsoever.
There can be no disagreements about the nature of truth between the Father that knows all things and the Son who said, “I AM the Truth.” Jesus never got a doctrine wrong. Christ prayed that we shall be one as He and His Father are one. There is no legitimate place for doctrinal disagreements in that, for the Father and the Son had none. Indeed, this calling is to the most perfect and complete unity, unity without sin, unity without error, unity in love, in truth, in flesh (via Eucharist), in Spirit, in baptism, in God, in possessions (we give freely, considering ourselves only stewards of property rather than its real owners), in
everything that we are, we are called to be one and only in the Catholic Church is that ideal at once considered possible and present as established fact.
Jesus said that whoever does not gather with Him scatters. That is just what has happened to the Protestant Reformation. Endlessly propagating divisions.
Here’s what St. Paul wrote about that, “Now I appeal to you, brothers and sisters, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that all of you be in agreement and that there be no divisions among you, but that you be united in the same mind and the same purpose.” 1 Corinthians 1:10
The scattering process in Protestantism is unceasing; the “essentials of faith,” Protestants share have become fewer and fewer over the centuries, and modern liberalism and relativism have shattered them completely in some denominations. On the other hand, the Catholic Church’s teaching has remained a bedrock of unchanging truth since the beginning of Christianity. All Catholics that are truly one with the Church are one with this truth, united in mind and heart, united in faith, in baptism, in Lord, united in ever increasing unity of love and selfless giving to one another and their fellow man. It is a perfection of unity present and alive in the Catholic Church, and most visibly and magnificently manifested in her saints. The saints are those that were most completely one while here on Earth, one in the Catholic Church, in the Truth and Life of God.
The Catholic Church opens the path to God fulfilling in our lives that incredible vision of unity. Denominationalism closes that path by asserting it’s okay to get by with a few agreements. It shuts the door on the unity Jesus preached in order to embrace the divisions Paul forbade.