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PatienceAndLove
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DH was injured in the Marine Corps, which led to a brain injury. For the last year and a half, he has been taking medication for the issue.
We married in May, and he began working at he VA in August.
The VA cut him from 5 days a week to 3 days a week (because he is working too quickly on the current project).
He got sick (the meds wreck his immune system) and his meds have quite working as they should be.
DH didn’t work his third day last week, and did not go in today.
HR said if he missed another day, he’d be fired. DH cannot even get out of bed (the brain injury effects him both physically and cognitivelly), let alone drive and spend a full day at work.
I am in my last year of school (after 7 years of working at it) so he and my parents don’t want me to quit. But DH won’t accept state assitance while we get all this craziness figured out.
I don’t know what to do, and I keep crying about it because I am so overwhelmed. I now have a 3 year old to care for, a disabled DH to take care of (and we don’t know what is wrong), and I am trying to get my student teaching taken care of…
We married in May, and he began working at he VA in August.
The VA cut him from 5 days a week to 3 days a week (because he is working too quickly on the current project).
He got sick (the meds wreck his immune system) and his meds have quite working as they should be.
DH didn’t work his third day last week, and did not go in today.
HR said if he missed another day, he’d be fired. DH cannot even get out of bed (the brain injury effects him both physically and cognitivelly), let alone drive and spend a full day at work.
I am in my last year of school (after 7 years of working at it) so he and my parents don’t want me to quit. But DH won’t accept state assitance while we get all this craziness figured out.
I don’t know what to do, and I keep crying about it because I am so overwhelmed. I now have a 3 year old to care for, a disabled DH to take care of (and we don’t know what is wrong), and I am trying to get my student teaching taken care of…

