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Here you are loosely using the English translated “until.”I agree that the above information is not without error. Joseph and Mary did have a marital relationship. It is safe to say this because of the references to his brothers in Mt 12: 46-50 and Acts 1:14. Also in Mt 1:20-25 an angel of the Lord instructs Joseph to wed Mary now but he asks that he not have relations with her until the birth of Jesus.
I could say, “The kid fell and got up again.” But that doesn’t mean the child fell down before and this was the second time he got up.
Likewise, we can say, “Mary was a virgin until death.” Well, that doesn’t mean at death she lost her virginity. or “The students studied hard until they had the exam.” This doesn’t mean that they didn’t study for exams later down the line.
The “until” describes a waiting period. Mary and Joseph did not have relations until Christ’s birth meaning the child was 100% the cause of Divine intervention - and not the offspring of Joseph. It doesn’t mean Mary and Joseph had relations afterwards.
Mary asked the Angel, “How is it possible [that I can bear a son] since I do not know man?” (AKA - vow of virginity) Wouldn’t logic dictate that since she was about to marry Joseph that the son would be his if they had no vow of celibacy? But, Mary knew a vow was eternally binding and therefore asked, “how is this possible?”
“there was no word specific to “cousin” [or “close relative”] in ancient Aramaic” hence the use of “brothers and sisters.” For example, in some languages there is no word for “wrist.” It’s simply referred to as part of the hand. So, written down in those languages, they would write, “he broke his hand.” And if we translated this exactly, we would say “hand.” It would be foolish and naive to say, "he couldn’t have possibly broken his wrist, because here, it clearly says “hand.” ** No translation is ever exact.**
Here’s a good link that explains it well, and I used some of their examples:newtheologicalmovement.blogspot.com/2011/12/biblical-proof-that-mary-and-joseph.html