Did Mary commit a sin at the wedding feast of Cana?

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Yes I do, especially when I say the Rosary. BUT I do not make up stuff. I doubt very much that Jesus played games with HIS Divinity and I don’t believe Mary or Joseph would have expected Him to. They BOTH knew HE was the Son of God from the Beginning. Joseph, before he took Mary, his wife, into his home, when the Angel appeared to him in a dream. Their early life together is a great Mystery and known only to them. At the wedding feast, Jesus responded to her intersession. Letting us know she is our intercessor too. Pondering on that will keep us busy for a loooong time. God Bless, Memaw
If He did perform private miracles for His family, I wouldn’t call it playing games. No, they did not need His miracles to know He was the Son of God. But just maybe, as a loving son, He MAY have made their lives a little easier by making the wine sweeter and the bread softer. And what if He did perform private miracles for the Holy Family, how on earth would that change anything? His first miracle is the Marriage Feast of Cana. So be it.
 
If He did perform private miracles for His family, I wouldn’t call it playing games. No, they did not need His miracles to know He was the Son of God. But just maybe, as a loving son, He MAY have made their lives a little easier by making the wine sweeter and the bread softer. And what if He did perform private miracles for the Holy Family, how on earth would that change anything? His first miracle is the Marriage Feast of Cana. So be it.
If, maybe, what if, all products of a vivid imagination with NO facts to back it up. There are sooo many known things we can ponder on that are worth out time and effort to study and cherish. Spending time with Our Lord in the Blessed Sacrament and the awesome Mystery of His Sacred Presence, for one. God Bless, Memaw
 
I wish I had more knowledge to counter statements like this.

"[v.3] Mary says to Jesus, “they have no wine” [v.4] Jesus says,“Woman, what have I do do with you? Mine hour is not yet come AND HERE IT COMES…… [v.5] Mary says to the servants, “Whatsoever he says to you, do it” BAM!!! Mary ignores the fact that GOD/Jesus’ plan does not include a miracle now She tells the servants to stand there staring at Jesus, waiting for him to speak May FULLY expects Jesus to do a miracle anyway, GOD’s plan or not THAT IS SIN….”

How can I show that this is not a sin of disobedience to God’s will?
So If I pray for something and it is not immediately answered it is a sin if I pray for it again ? ?
 
Mary and Jesus are at a wedding. She observes that the couple have run out of wine and it will be embarassing for them. Mary goes to Jesus. She doesn’t say let’s pool some money together and go buy extra wine.
That’s right. However, neither does she say, “Son, perform a miracle.” She’s just coming to Him with a problem – like good mothers do – and asking her son to help.
He would never have responded to her in the way He did. In my mind, she had to have known something from previous experience. And He responded to that reference by telling her His time had not yet come.
Read a few verses farther. The reason for performing the miracle, we find out, is that it manifested His glory, such that His disciples began to believe in Him. It wasn’t just “let’s do something nice for someone” or even “make the wine sweeter or bread softer.” Jesus’ miracles in the Gospels always have theological or ministry-related goals.
Those are my thoughts and I don’t see anything wrong with the obeservation.
Mary’s trust in her son doesn’t imply that she expected a miracle; at the heart of it, that’s your presumption that’s leading you down this path. I don’t know about you, but my Mom often comes to me, identifying a problem and (implicitly) asking me to help out. Doesn’t mean that there’s any request for a miracle, though… 🤷
 
Okay. Let’s end this conversation. I don’t want to argue. It is my observation and my thoughts. Nothing sinister. And the world will still rotate and all will be well. 👍
 
She didn’t ask Him to do anything, she simply told Him of the situation and He responded. God Bless, Memaw
no, that is the problem. She didn’t just tell him about the situation. According to my debater, the sin came when she told the servants to do what he tells you.

Supposedly when he tells her that his time has not come, he is telling her that it is not in God’s plan that he start his ministry yet and she disregarded the will of God and told the servants anyway.
 
no, that is the problem. She didn’t just tell him about the situation. According to my debater, the sin came when she told the servants to do what he tells you.

Supposedly when he tells her that his time has not come, he is telling her that it is not in God’s plan that he start his ministry yet and she disregarded the will of God and told the servants anyway.
As a Catholic, if you think the Blessed Mother sinned, I think that’s a serious accusation. I’d talk to a priest about that if I were you! God Bless, Memaw
 
So If I pray for something and it is not immediately answered it is a sin if I pray for it again ? ?
no, the sin is because Jesus told her it was not yet his time. basically my debater is saying that she defied the will of God by going ahead and telling the servants to do what he tells you.
 
As a Catholic, if you think the Blessed Mother sinned, I think that’s a serious accusation. I’d talk to a priest about that if I were you! God Bless, Memaw
I am debating a non-catholic on this and asked for help from the forum. I have no problem believing in all the church teachings. But this person has a real issue with Mary and I am not that skilled of an apologist.
 
no, that is the problem. She didn’t just tell him about the situation. According to my debater, the sin came when she told the servants to do what he tells you.

Supposedly when he tells her that his time has not come, he is telling her that it is not in God’s plan that he start his ministry yet and she disregarded the will of God and told the servants anyway.
Ask your debater if telling them to “Do as HE Tells You” is a sin??? HE did the telling, NOT Mary. God Bless, Memaw
 
no, the sin is because Jesus told her it was not yet his time. basically my debater is saying that she defied the will of God by going ahead and telling the servants to do what he tells you.
Right; but, as we’ve responded, if she sinned, then so did Jesus, by doing a miracle against God’s will and “before His time.” Since that’s impossible, so is the idea that she sinned. 😉
 
Was Jesus wrong to endure the Passion?

That certainly made many people, Mary included, worry about Him.
That was His Father’s will. Nothing was going to stop the Passion.
 
no, that is the problem. She didn’t just tell him about the situation. According to my debater, the sin came when she told the servants to do what he tells you.

Supposedly when he tells her that his time has not come, he is telling her that it is not in God’s plan that he start his ministry yet and she disregarded the will of God and told the servants anyway.
How did Mary disregard Jesus’ will? He said the time has not come. He did turn the water into wine. I think He may have done it because of the “Honor thy mother and father” commandment. So it wasn’t in His plan, but honoring His parents IS.
 
Right; but, as we’ve responded, if she sinned, then so did Jesus, by doing a miracle against God’s will and “before His time.” Since that’s impossible, so is the idea that she sinned. 😉
That is what I said earlier.
 
no, the sin is because Jesus told her it was not yet his time. basically my debater is saying that she defied the will of God by going ahead and telling the servants to do what he tells you.
Ask your debater about what Jesus stated about the end times That He knew not the day.
Most people will say the man Jesus knew not but the God Jesus did.

If that is the reply then simply state that the man Jesus knew not the start time of His ministry however the Father used Mary to get it started.
 
I wish I had more knowledge to counter statements like this.

"[v.3] Mary says to Jesus, “they have no wine” [v.4] Jesus says,“Woman, what have I do do with you? Mine hour is not yet come AND HERE IT COMES…… [v.5] Mary says to the servants, “Whatsoever he says to you, do it” BAM!!! Mary ignores the fact that GOD/Jesus’ plan does not include a miracle now She tells the servants to stand there staring at Jesus, waiting for him to speak May FULLY expects Jesus to do a miracle anyway, GOD’s plan or not THAT IS SIN….”

How can I show that this is not a sin of disobedience to God’s will?
First, Mary’s response does not, necessarily, constitute a sin. Mary only says, “Do whatever he tells you.” Now if Jesus said, “Go sit down.” Then, presumably, the servants would have sat down.

Secondly, Jesus’ statement doesn’t say He’s not going to do anything, anymore than his statements to the Canaanite women mean he’s not going to heal her daughter (Mt 15:21 ff). Jesus, in John 2, merely asks, “what is this between you and me?” or “What is this to you and me?” or a half dozen other translations - the phrase is very hard to translate.

Either way, Jesus doesn’t say, “I’m not going to do anything about it, and you shouldn’t either.”

On a side note, the phrase “my hour” is referring to His death. According to Bible scholars, such as Arch Bishop Fulton Sheen in his Life of Christ, anywhere you see the phrase “the hour” or “my hour” etc, it refers to Christ’s Passion.

Essentially, according to Bishop Sheen, what Christ is saying is, “If I do this, you know what will happen? I will, eventually, have to suffer and die. You will have to suffer too. (Cf Lk 2:35)”

God Bless, :signofcross:
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I think the first question is why did Jesus not want to be known as the Messiah and did Mary know? In Matthew 16 Jesus specifically instructed the Apostles not to tell anyone that he was the Messiah. This is a repetitive theme. However, after his brothers had left for the festival, he went also, “not publicly, but in secret”. John 12 And…“Now my soul is troubled, and what shall I say? ‘Father, save me from this hour’? No, it was for this very reason I came to this hour.

We would have to assume Mary knew all this then from this perspective one can deduce disobedience etc. However, from other similar verse such as above the timing and perception of Gods ministry obviously wasn’t comprehended by His elect, or conveyed to the point of comprehension perhaps to the extent God understood or desired them to know. The free will of coming to the understanding that Christ is God is always in play also without overbearing will of God forcing the realization, all while moving to the climax of His hour, the redemption of all mankind. So its a constant interplay of Gods will in relation to what man with good intention believes Gods will should be.

As far as Marys, “Do whatever He tells you” in this case still stands today.
 
Also this keeps coming to mind also, the theme somewhat reminds me of Luke 1…
But she was greatly troubled at what was said and pondered what sort of greeting this might be.
Mary said, “Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done to me according to your word.”
Mary was seeking understanding in either case.
 
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