Non Catholic here. I cannot believe I am about to take up for the Pope for something that took place back in 1999!

I saved a lot of information I had gathered because of the freaking out people did.
Knowing a little about Islam and the culture/traditions/etiquette of both Muslim and Non Muslims living in the Middle East (and here) it made perfect sense to me and I was very touched when this story first broke. BTW, I am not a Muslim either. Just related to a few and grew up around them.
In their culture,whether Christian or Muslim, you would never visit someone or receive guests without gifts. If one is poor the gift does not have to be expensive. The gift is said to represent the Giver. It should be something to remember them by. It is a major no no and insulting to look down on a gift or return it. Their Prophet even said they should give gifts, it was not the same as charity, it was akin to giving love. That extended to visiting and receiving non Muslims as well. And one is always gracious. The Pope was very gracious and showed that he loved the people of Iraq and was honored by their gift. I do not understand why anyone would find that offensive. I am not a bible expert but did not Jesus say…“Come and let us reason together”?
In their culture proper manners, even if you do not like someone, is very important. In Islam those closest to Allah are the ones who have good manners. In fact, this may seem silly to you guys but I know Muslims who were very saddened by the death of Mr Rogers from the PBS show, some even shed a few tears for a man who was the ultimate example of practicing what he preached and teaching respect and manners. Some said a few prayers. Others commented that he could teach them a thing or to as well and that they could use another Mr Rogers for their children
Another fact many were not aware of is that the man in the picture that was published standing to the right of him was Chaldean Catholic Patriarch of Babylon Raphael I Bidawid. Over 1 million Christians live in Iraq. The majority of those are Catholic. They teach, hold government positions, etc…Christians had more freedom, not like in Saudi Arabia. Ironically it was after Saddam’s fall that attacks on them have increased.
Here is a quote from Raphael I Bidawid on this historical moment:
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It is known that Pope John Paul II (bio - news) has often voiced a desire to make a pilgrimage in the footsteps of Abraham, the common father of Jews, Christians, and Muslims. For the Pope, Abraham is a figure who helps the unity of believers to overcome political divisions. On May 14th I was received by the Pope, together with a delegation composed of the Shi’ite imam of Khadum mosque and the Sunni president of the council of administration of the Iraqi Islamic Bank. There was also a representative of the Iraqi ministry of religion. I renewed our invitation to the Pope, because his visit would be for us a grace from heaven. It would confirm the faith of Christians and prove the Pope’s love for the whole of humanity in a country which is mainly Muslim.
At the end of the audience the Pope bowed to the Muslim holy book, the Qu’ran, presented to him by the delegation, and he kissed it as a sign of respect. The photo of that gesture has been shown repeatedly on Iraqi television and it demonstrates that the Pope is not only aware of the suffering of the Iraqi people, he has also great respect for Islam. **