I use to be Catholic too but now I think the teaching of hell is man-made. What room is there in an all-loving God for hell? God is nothing but the purest of love, benevolence, kindness. Hell is adopted from the collective personality and we’ve been conditioned to fear it. That fear does not come from God because there is no fear in God. Where else could the fear be coming from then?
Have you ever heard these words from Scripture?
Romans 12:20 Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head.
Have you ever had this happen to you in real life? Have you treated someone badly and they returned your bad behaviour with kindness? And have you felt like crawling into a hole, afterward?
I know it’s happened to me. Now, you said yourself that God is nothing but the purest of love, benevolence, kindness. Suppose that a person has spent all his life committing sin and refusing to acknowledge God’s existence. Suppose this person does all he can to please only himself at the expense of others and in so doing, insults God. Suppose that this person refuses to acknowledge the sacrifice that Jesus Christ made for his salvation?
Now, when he dies, the invisible God becomes visible. And He is everywhere. But He is still loving and kind. And you can’t change what you can’t run away from Him. You can’t hide.
Our God is consuming Fire.
Psalm 139:8 If I ascend up into heaven, thou art there: if I make my bed in hell, behold, thou art there.