In the Buffalo diocese, Catholic high schools seem to give very little attention to family life, enormous focus on college and career. They give very little attention to doctrinal content - everything is “values”, not really much different from the values that are promoted in public schools. In the schools I am familiar with, there is little going on that would encourage anyone to have a big family, or to emphasize family life. Some devout Catholics are still coming from Buffalo Catholic high schools, but I think they are getting that from their home life, not the school.
The diocese formerly operated some high schools, but no longer. The diocese doesn’t hold anyone at the Catholic high school, or any of the local “Catholic” colleges, responsible for the Catholicity of the institution. With regard to grammar schools, which the article is about, the pastor is responsible, or for regional schools a priest is appointed by the bishop as “canonical administrator” responsible for the Catholic identity. The absence of children in Catholic grammar schools today is a result of parents who attended weak Catholic high schools and colleges in recent years.
The only bright spot in Buffalo I can see is the growth of home schooling, sometimes with cooperative pastors, where parents cooperate and support each other, perhaps one day a week at the parish buildings. In my time as a parochial school parent, parent (name removed by moderator)ut was discouraged. We were allowed to choose whether to hold the ice scream social in April, or in May, but had no say over things like sex education, choice of religion texts, sacramental preparation, etc.