Disobeying God = Disavowing God?

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Just because I can’t explain it to you in words of one syllable doesn’t mean that I don’t understand it.
No need to get hostile. I realize it may seem like I’m just trying to antagonize; apologies for that. I really am trying to reason things out.
Infinite punishment isn’t from God - it’s from the person who chooses to live without God. God doesn’t force Himself upon us - it is our choice, whether to love Him or not, and our love for Him is expressed in our actions, here in this life.
Yes, it is. God cares about you so much, that He will not allow you to vacillate forever, and nor will He force Himself upon you against your own will.
God cares so much that He’d rather condemn us to hell [by removing our ability to choose at a time when we have not chosen Him] than allow us to vacillate?
 
No need to get hostile. I realize it may seem like I’m just trying to antagonize; apologies for that. I really am trying to reason things out.
The first thing you need to realize is that God is the one in charge; He is the one with all the power. You are nothing - He doesn’t need you for anything. So, you aren’t gaining any power over Him by waiting some length of time before choosing Him. He does not submit to tests. If you try to test Him with all this “how much do you really love me” stuff, He will just laugh at you and then move on. He doesn’t play that game.
God cares so much that He’d rather condemn us to hell [by removing our ability to choose at a time when we have not chosen Him] than allow us to vacillate?
It’s not God who is condemning you to Hell; it is yourself - and it is not God taking away your ability to choose after death - it is the fact that you have died (ceased to live; ceased to have the capacity to reason, and to make choices of various kinds).

In reality, every waking moment, you choose either for or against God - it’s not possible to take a neutral stand. Either you are living your life out of love for God, or out of greed for gain.
 
The first thing you need to realize is that God is the one in charge; He is the one with all the power. You are nothing - He doesn’t need you for anything. So, you aren’t gaining any power over Him by waiting some length of time before choosing Him. He does not submit to tests. If you try to test Him with all this “how much do you really love me” stuff, He will just laugh at you and then move on. He doesn’t play that game.
You’re right, an infinite God would surely get tired with someone after almost a hundred years. That makes sense.
It’s not God who is condemning you to Hell; it is yourself - and it is not God taking away your ability to choose after death - it is the fact that you have died (ceased to live; ceased to have the capacity to reason, and to make choices of various kinds).
I’m asking how it makes any sense for a loving God to define death that way. You’ve said that it makes sense for God to give people some time and then leave them. No, it doesn’t. Not for an infinite being.
 
You’re right, an infinite God would surely get tired with someone after almost a hundred years. That makes sense.
:rolleyes:

The point is that it is you who would get tired, or stuck in a rut, after all that time. How many 80 year olds do you know who are still trying to decide which career to follow, or what school to attend? Different kinds of decisions have their different seasons. The decision to follow Jesus is one that you make before you die (and in most cases, before you reach the age of seven), or that you never make at all.
I’m asking how it makes any sense for a loving God to define death that way. You’ve said that it makes sense for God to give people some time and then leave them. No, it doesn’t. Not for an infinite being.
You make it sound like God just invented death on a whim, or that God is some kind of magical being that can cause things to exist or not exist, totally at random, and out of relationship with everything else.

Yes, God is the Creator, but the Creation has rules. The rules aren’t just “made up” by God willy-nilly, out of nowhere - they are the rules that by default came into play when God created things a certain way.

Same as if you paint with acrylic, once you put the paint out on the palette, you don’t get to wait around all day deciding what colour to make the background - acrylic dries in five minutes - either on the palette, or on the canvas - your choice.

Death is the opposite of life. God created life, because life is good. Death is the opposite of life; it’s not a separate created thing. God didn’t create it - it only “exists” (it is the state of the non-existence of life) because life exists. Without life, there cannot be death. There could have been life without death, but Adam messed that one up, because he didn’t stay within the boundaries that keep the Creation from not-existing. This was not God’s fault. God didn’t just arbitrarily create death because He was on some kind of power trip to punish Adam, and get the rest of us as well. It’s just the natural and unavoidable consequence of the sin that Adam committed. Death means the end of decision making. You can’t give over your life to God, if you no longer have it to give.
 
:rolleyes:

The point is that it is you who would get tired, or stuck in a rut, after all that time. How many 80 year olds do you know who are still trying to decide which career to follow, or what school to attend? Different kinds of decisions have their different seasons. The decision to follow Jesus is one that you make before you die (and in most cases, before you reach the age of seven), or that you never make at all.
The reason 80-year-olds aren’t concerned about the things you mention is that those are all worldly things, things that are totally in this life. If you’re saying every 80-year-old out there has made up his mind about God, I’d say that’s awfully far-fetched.

The idea that most people decide whether or not to follow Jesus before the age of seven is also ridiculous.
You make it sound like God just invented death on a whim, or that God is some kind of magical being that can cause things to exist or not exist, totally at random, and out of relationship with everything else.
Yes, God is the Creator, but the Creation has rules. The rules aren’t just “made up” by God willy-nilly, out of nowhere - they are the rules that by default came into play when God created things a certain way.
Same as if you paint with acrylic, once you put the paint out on the palette, you don’t get to wait around all day deciding what colour to make the background - acrylic dries in five minutes - either on the palette, or on the canvas - your choice.
Death is the opposite of life. God created life, because life is good. Death is the opposite of life; it’s not a separate created thing. God didn’t create it - it only “exists” (it is the state of the non-existence of life) because life exists. Without life, there cannot be death. There could have been life without death, but Adam messed that one up, because he didn’t stay within the boundaries that keep the Creation from not-existing. This was not God’s fault. God didn’t just arbitrarily create death because He was on some kind of power trip to punish Adam, and get the rest of us as well. It’s just the natural and unavoidable consequence of the sin that Adam committed. Death means the end of decision making. You can’t give over your life to God, if you no longer have it to give.
Yes, because it’s totally consistent that an omnipotent God obeys some outside set of rules. It’s totally consistent that natural consequences are something an omnipotent God must follow. You can’t have it both ways.
 
The reason 80-year-olds aren’t concerned about the things you mention is that those are all worldly things, things that are totally in this life. If you’re saying every 80-year-old out there has made up his mind about God, I’d say that’s awfully far-fetched.
By the time a person is 80, he is either a daily Mass attender, or an atheist - and not in the mood to have someone try to change his mind for him.
The idea that most people decide whether or not to follow Jesus before the age of seven is also ridiculous.
Reginald and Bibby (Statistics on Christian Practice) beg to differ.
Yes, because it’s totally consistent that an omnipotent God obeys some outside set of rules. It’s totally consistent that natural consequences are something an omnipotent God must follow.
“Omnipotent” does not mean “magical.” God follows the rules of the Universe that He has set up. He is not exempt from the laws of nature any more than you are.
 
By the time a person is 80, he is either a daily Mass attender, or an atheist - and not in the mood to have someone try to change his mind for him.
This is flat-out untrue. I don’t really know what else to say.
Reginald and Bibby (Statistics on Christian Practice) beg to differ.
Can you find any webpages or refer to any books on this? I literally cannot find anything about either. Are the authors “Reginald and Bibby” or the single author “Reginald Bibby,” who has done some research on religious statistics?
“Omnipotent” does not mean “magical.” God follows the rules of the Universe that He has set up. He is not exempt from the laws of nature any more than you are.
You can’t claim that God set up a universe and established its rules and is simultaneously free from culpability for what those rules caused. If God set up the rules of the universe so that free will is taken when someone dies, then He takes free will. Where is the flaw in that logic?
 
This is flat-out untrue. I don’t really know what else to say.
I have never met an 80-year-old who didn’t know what he believed in.
Can you find any webpages or refer to any books on this? I literally cannot find anything about either. Are the authors “Reginald and Bibby” or the single author “Reginald Bibby,” who has done some research on religious statistics?
The authors are Reginald and Bibby. They do surveys about once every five years. Their most famous book is The Emerging Generation which is the one that records their finding that most people are in their life-long religion (or non-religion) by the time they are seven.
You can’t claim that God set up a universe and established its rules and is simultaneously free from culpability for what those rules caused. If God set up the rules of the universe so that free will is taken when someone dies, then He takes free will. Where is the flaw in that logic?
God didn’t invent the rules one at a time - they are all interdependent. Rather, by creating life, He caused there to be a possibility of death. Life was on purpose - death was not. Death is just the opposite of life. Death isn’t “created by God” as if it were a separate “thing.” Death is simply the absence of the thing that God created, which is life.

God also did not “set it up” so that Adam breaking the rules would cause there to be death in the human race. God was not playing a trick on Adam. Rather, God knew that in order to stay eternally alive, Adam would have to keep on obeying God, and doing what God wanted him to do. God was not testing Adam by giving him the commandment - He was warning him of what actually was going to happen. God didn’t “cause” it to happen. Adam did.
 
I have never met an 80-year-old who didn’t know what he believed in.
All of the 80-year-olds you’ve known have either been devout, daily-mass Christians or atheists?
The authors are Reginald and Bibby. They do surveys about once every five years. Their most famous book is The Emerging Generation which is the one that records their finding that most people are in their life-long religion (or non-religion) by the time they are seven.
Closest thing I can find is this, but again it’s by a man named “Reginald Bibby.” Is this what you’re referring to?

openlibrary.org/books/OL2603587M/emerging_generation
God didn’t invent the rules one at a time - they are all interdependent. Rather, by creating life, He caused there to be a possibility of death. Life was on purpose - death was not. Death is just the opposite of life. Death isn’t “created by God” as if it were a separate “thing.” Death is simply the absence of the thing that God created, which is life.
God also did not “set it up” so that Adam breaking the rules would cause there to be death in the human race. God was not playing a trick on Adam. Rather, God knew that in order to stay eternally alive, Adam would have to keep on obeying God, and doing what God wanted him to do. God was not testing Adam by giving him the commandment - He was warning him of what actually was going to happen. God didn’t “cause” it to happen. Adam did.
Again, this suggests that an omnipotent God is somehow subject to some set of “natural” rules that He had no hand in creating. The idea that life and death are the only two options seems wholly arbitrary.
 
Again, this suggests that an omnipotent God is somehow subject to some set of “natural” rules that He had no hand in creating. The idea that life and death are the only two options seems wholly arbitrary.
It hardly matters - what matters is, if you want to be with God, you have to do it His way. Not because He is tricking you, but because that’s the way it is.

If you try to wait until after you die before making a decision, you will find that the decision has been made for you - and you might not like it. 🤷

I leave you to it - I’ve had enough of this. 🙂
 
It hardly matters - what matters is, if you want to be with God, you have to do it His way. Not because He is tricking you, but because that’s the way it is.

If you try to wait until after you die before making a decision, you will find that the decision has been made for you - and you might not like it. 🤷

I leave you to it - I’ve had enough of this. 🙂
Still no reasoning as to how this makes sense - why “that’s the way it is.” Oh well.
 
Aperture, you will not accept logic when logic is given to you. You reject everyone’s statements as failed attempts to persuade you, but the truth is you are so set in your ways that you refuse to accept when some of the things we’re saying might make sense.

It’s very simple:

We have free will based on our intellect and consciousness. We have the ability to make decisions based on both our conscience and our physiological ability to process information. It is for this reason that we have free will until death.

You are basing your argument on a fallacious understanding of what evil and sin are. Sin is evil. Evil is the absence of God, not disagreement with God (even though it does not make sense to disagree with someone who is, by definition, all-knowing). Therefore when you sin, you choose the absence of God.

Maintaining a habit that is forbidden without fully understanding that it is forbidden isn’t mortally sinful. If you truly don’t think something you’re doing is wrong, then there are doubts as to whether you are sinning mortally. You propose that if someone disagrees with God and commits some action in that disagreement, the Church teaches that he will go to Hell. But if someone disagrees with God, he, by definition, does not have full knowledge that what he is doing is wrong, and therefore lacks culpability. His (albeit poorly formed) conscience is telling him that action A is good, and so he is doing action A through no fault of his own. One would have to agree that something was evil and want to do it anyway in order to be sinning mortally. In other words, one would have to understand that evil is the absence of God, and then deliberately choose that absence of God out of a conscious desire to separate himself from God. This is not disagreement, this is divorce. There is a big difference, though it is one you refuse to acknowledge.

When the Church provides examples of behaviors that are objectively sinful, it is as a guideline that is normally correct. But when it comes down to it, only you know if you have sinned, and you have only sinned if you have consciously turned from God. If you don’t think you have consciously turned from God, then you haven’t mortally sinned. If you don’t think disagreeing with God (which I still think is silly to do) is consciously turning from God, then you haven’t mortally sinned.

However, it is our duty to be open to the guidance of God, and to wish sincerely to do what He wants us to do, which is why we are called to consciously form our conscience in accordance with God’s guidance.
 
You are basing your argument on a fallacious understanding of what evil and sin are. Sin is evil. Evil is the absence of God, not disagreement with God (even though it does not make sense to disagree with someone who is, by definition, all-knowing). Therefore when you sin, you choose the absence of God.
I guess I just don’t understand why being a happy atheist is possible in this life but not the afterlife. If God is infinitely loving, why is Hell - the place an atheist goes after death - so awful? It is possible to turn away from God’s love in this life without living in constant torment; why should the next be so different?
 
I guess I just don’t understand why being a happy atheist is possible in this life but not the afterlife. If God is infinitely loving, why is Hell - the place an atheist goes after death - so awful? It is possible to turn away from God’s love in this life without living in constant torment; why should the next be so different?
Because there are very few atheists who are actually atheists. A great deal of so-called “atheists” are actually people who regularly say ‘yes’ to God to the best of their ability, which is all anyone needs to do. So many people think that they reject God, when they are actually rejecting what they mistakenly believe to be God (and rightly so). Most of them regularly respond to the graces that are offered to them without even realizing it. They are, as we say, ‘anonymous’ Christians.

It is not enough not to believe that God exists. The so-called “atheist” rejects God only when he rejects the love, truth, freedom, beauty, and depth in his life. The Catholic who deliberately disobeys God is doing something similar in that he is acknowledging goodness and then rejecting it.

The true atheist cannot be fulfilled- neither in this life nor the next. How can any one be “fulfilled” when his heart has a hole in it where God should be? However, he may think he is fulfilled because he lives a life of pleasure or wealth. Many rich men think they are happy when they are not. In the next life, they will become fully aware of how unhappy they never knew they were.
 
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