The question is, why do people who disagree with the majority of the truth, as taught by the church, remain in her? If they think the church is wrong in her teachings then they must deny that she is the true church, so again, why do they stay? Why don’t they go to a church which teaches what they think is the truth?
I’ve been thinking about, studying and trying to understand dissenters for a long while now. I wouldn’t call myself an expert, but my diocese has a lot of dissenting Catholics (the majority of them are as such) and I’ve seen and talked and lived with them for years (not to mention those in my own family).
The question you ask is both the most obvious and most difficult. Why do they stay?
We can all think of reasons, but here are a few that I’ve come up with (not ranked in order of importance):
– They think that there’s some kind of prestige to being Catholic. So, they’ll accept the name and maybe go to Mass. But it’s like a religious country-club where you can go through the motions and dismiss any teaching you don’t like.
– They think that they have “the truth” and that the “institutional Church” doesn’t know what it’s doing. They think of the Church as a human institution only.
– This is not meant to be rude but … they’re ignorant of Catholicism. They haven’t suffered for it. It was a cultural or family tradition given to them on a silver-platter. The notion that Christ died for His Church and its pure, divine teaching is not considered or appreciated.
– They want to quiet their conscience. So, they’ll live in their sin (usually some kind of sexual sin) but then go to Church and consider themselves Catholic. This makes them feel better. Then they will say that the teachings of the Church are “wrong” so they’re ok with their behavior.
– They won’t go elsewhere because this means a religious committment. They would be publicly saying that their behavior is in conflict with Catholicism so they have to leave. That means taking the faith seriously, but that’s too much for them.
– They like to believe that God is going along with their dissent because they’re truly right and the “old man in Rome” doesn’t know. They’ll use all kinds of arguments to show that the Church changed in the past, so they’re just “prophets” of the truth today. The arrogance in this position should be obvious (there’s no humble submission to Christ to be found there, as much as it is pretended).
– They often put themselves in the infrastructure of the parish. This “proves” that they’re “good Catholics” so they have the “right” to dissent. These types “would never dream of leaving”.
– Basically, in almost all of these cases, they don’t believe that the Catholic Church teaches the divine truths of Christ. They contradict the explicit and fundamental teaching of Catholicism on this point. They believe that their own personal religion (their customized selection of dogmas) is better than Catholicism – but they won’t found their own churches because that is too difficult and serious.
– So, they lack courage and conviction at the deepest levels. They won’t pay the price that their dissent requires. They want a softer path – going through a show and masquerade by been seen at Mass, but interiorly rejecting the Catholic Faith.
– They lack honesty also. Part of this is because they’re rarely challenged. A lot of priests will support them and their conscience gets dulled over time. So they can’t honestly look at how they’re lying about their own embrace of the Catholic Faith (they’re not embracing and submitting to Christ’s teachings, but rather just picking what they like).
– They claim to be “reformers”. But when challenged by pointing out that there is an official process to follow when one believes a teaching is incorrect, they’ll claim that the hierarchy is corrupt and patriarchial so they couldn’t get a hearing. They sometimes submit objections to the Canonical Tribunal (as Call to Action did) but if they don’t get the answer that they want, they just continue to dissent as before.
– Their “addicted” in a sense. It’s like out of control, impulsive behavior that they can’t stop on their own. They need to be disciplined by an external force (namely bishops and priests) but that almost never happens so the addiction just persists and sometimes gets worse.
– In may cases, dissenters just stop going to Mass. They’ll still claim to be Catholic but they give up hope that the Church will change the way they want.
– Some rare few do leave and start their own churches or join Protestant sects. The women’s ordination dissenters have been excommunicated. They still won’t admit that they’re not Catholic though.