I have seen more than one thread about how CAF is weakening their faith. Threads such as this one are part of the problem.
What we discuss here in CAF rarely concerns the heart of Christianity - what Jesus taught. I think it is entirely possible to be a “good Catholic” and yet not be very Christian.
When members talk about how good it would be if the Church would shrink to only “true Catholics,” I have to shake my head. They just don’t get it.
Threads where supposedly good Catholics shake their fist at unambiguous Church teachings (such as the teachings on abortion) make me shake my head and wonder, at times, if the protestants were right. Or make me think that maybe I should seek out an SSPX chapel somewhere.
Look, there is a fundamental difference when a person is confused about Church teaching, when they don’t understand it, or if they are mistaken about it. People like that should be treated with the utmost respect and patience.
On the other hand, people who don’t
want to know what the Church says about a subject, do everything they can to wiggle out of it, or out-and-out say that the Church is wrong about a matter of faith and morals, I have very little patience with.
Again, the example, abortion. I don’t think that ANYBODY could possible construe that the teaching of the Magesterium is anything but unambiguous on the subject. It’s not a new teaching. It’s not an updated position. It’s been there from time immemorial.
Somebody could say “what about this, what about that, what about the other.” “It doesn’t seem right to penalize a person with a baby they don’t want.” “A woman shouldn’t have to bear the fruit of a rape.” “It’s my body.” “But what if the mother’s life is in danger.” “What about incest?” “What if the mother is mentally deficient?” Or whatever. Any of the many, many excuses.
Each one of those excuses could be dealt with. And it is perfectly understandable that a Catholic could hold one or more of those excuses as a rationale for holding a position against the Church’s position on that issue. Particularly considering the so-called “enlightened” position held by modern, secular society. Particularly considering the influence of modern media. Particularly considering societal pressure communicated by that secular society, largely through the media, on the individual…pressuring that individual to conform to the societal mold.
Those of us who are pro-life should take the challenge on to catechize those who were poorly educated as youth and influenced by society. That catechesis should be given with patience, love, and respect.
HOWEVER, when a person gets to the point of saying “I fully comprehend what the Church teaches, and I really don’t care…” then that is another thing altogether. And when one goes public with that attitude, then, at that point, is when I label somebody a dissenter.
And if you read my original post carefully, you will note that I did not, at any time, suggest that the Church purge herself of these people. I simply asked why
they would associate
themselves with a group with whom they disagree on so many levels. An earlier post on the thread indicated that they believe themselves to be right and so, therefore, they aren’t dissenters (rather they think I think I’m holier than the Pope or some such thing).
Obviously, I think that the best option is for one to form his/her conscience according to the teachings of the Church and to then act in accordance with that well-formed conscience. Even if that person is not fully successful in freeing him/herself from all societal attitudes that are in opposition to the teachings of the Church, the effort is still there, along with the humility that comes with that effort.
But if one is unwilling even to attempt to form one’s conscience according to the teachings of the Church, then I simply don’t understand the rationale of wanting to stay a member of a group whose norms are utterly rejected.
Of course, then again, maybe I should follow my own advice. If I don’t like the “norms” of the social justice forum, maybe I should just stay clear of it. Maybe I should just do that for Catholic Answers in general.
(Note to mod: no, the above was not an opus, just a stray thought)