Going back to the OP,
Mark,
I think you have gotten the answer to your original question. Dissenter’s remain in the church because they can. In fact, in many cases it is possible to find a priest, followed by whole congregations which condone (either silently or openly) whatever their particular sin of choice is.
I think your sidebar is really the most interesting point to be considered.
I don’t expect the moderator to stop the discussions on the forum. This is a good place to have discussions of all kinds and we should certainly be allowed to debate church teaching.
My question would be to the priest’s and the Bishops in this country. Why do they allow the dissent to go unmentioned or even supported, in the local churches, the parishes?
Every Confirmed Catholic is called by God to be obedient to the teachings of HIS Church. To dissent, either mentally or corporally is to sin. That’s it. Catholics are called by God to holiness. It is not a matter of simply saying we must accept the fact that there are dissenter’s in the church, we already have. We all sin. We know Christ came to save the sinner’s not the righteous. Christ also said, however, “…go and sin no more.” The real question is then, why does the hierarchy of the Church, sarting with the Bishops and going all the way to the magesterium of the Church, tolerate the onging sin of the clergy (the priest’s), in their own dissension, in as much as they fail to properly instruct the people?
I will use my own parish priest as an example. He doesn’t want to lose parishoners, so he says. So, he never gives a sermon. Every week we hear, essentially, the exact same homily. It centers on “going out into the world and living out our faith.” He never instructs us from the pulpit, however, what that faith should look like other than chartible acts and donations. He’s been at our parish for five years now and he has never given a sermon on any of the issues which people most often dissent from church teaching on. We haven’t heard a word about contraception, abortion, reproductive technology, homosexuality, the short or absent line at confession, fornication, out of wedlock procreation…the list is truely endless. So beginning with the priest’s lack of intruction from the pupit, every educational venue in our parish is also, tainted. I was fired as a chatechist, for teaching a Biblical definition for the words modesty and chastity to seventh graders. That’s 13 year olds. The A.R.E. called my lesson sex education and I hadn’t sent the appropriate paperwork to the parents (who were no doubt offended that someone might teach their 13 year olds that chastity is a virtue for the married as well as for the unmarried and that their is an appropriate way to present ourselves, especially for Mass) and so, she “let me go”. At the “mother’s group” meetings, the women sit around and joke about their preferred method of contraception and I sat in on an adult education class on social issues and the priest himself stated that artificial reproduction was gray area and up to each individual to decide. That statement was made for the benefit of one of the women in the group who was, at the time, undergoing in-vitro fertilization. I tried to argue with the priest, who was “teaching” the class, and I pointed to evangellium vitae, and humana vitae, but to no avail. I was rudely shut down.
The interesting thing to keep in mind is that we have a regular exodus of families, leaving our parish to go elsewhere because they want their children raised in orthodox catholicism. So they may teach their children at home (which is what I do) or they drive 30,40,50 miles away to attend a different parish.