Most Baptists I know - here in the North, anyway - are moderate Protestants who are cooperative with other Christians. They don't hate anybody. Like you and me, they are not saints, but they set a pretty good example for the rest of us.
As for African-American Baptists in Catholic schools, yes, that is true. When I watch teams of such colleges as Notre Dame, Gonzaga, Villanova, etc., the thought often runs through my mind: "Those star-players are likely Protestants, probably Baptists." I'm especially thinking of NCAA basketball at the moment, since March Madness has been front and center.
I especially like the posting of 'By His Wounds' re alcohol. I have followed the same approach. I certainly can avoid the risk of alcoholism or even occasional over-drinking by not drinking alcohol at all. I also have saved a lot of money, especially when eating out. Again, no objection to moderate drinking and drinkers, but I resolved early on that it wasn't worth the risk. I have seen so many ruined lives, so many broken families, so many wrecked careers. and so many fatal accidents and resulting sorrow because of the misuse of alcohol. To get the alleged benefits of red wine I do drink grapejuice.
God bless Catholics, Protestants, Jews, and all of his children of every color, creed. culture and country. Personally, I don't believe God looks at our tribal labels, most of them inherited from Mom and Dad. God examines our hearts to see how close they come to reflecting the Sermon on the Mount. There are plenty of people who are unaware of the Sermon the Mount who are better Christians than some who claim to be loyal disciples of Christ. "By their fruits shall ye know them" and not by ancient doctrines, some of them irrelevant in today's world of magnificent telescopes, miscroscopes and other inventions that have so broadened our knowledge and made us more aware of what we don't know. I spent time with a Hindu family in India, and if they don't make it to the glories of eternal life a lot of us Christians ought to be worried!