So you tell me the incarnation is extra biblical and then go on to say your not criticizing and that we’re worshiping the same God?

Are you reading the letters you are typing or does it flow naturally out of you? This pathetic attempt to be so politically correct, so unoffensive that when you let it slip out that you think we are wrong you will immediately backtrack? Why will you not instead continue to counter and exclaim how wrong the Christians are, how we have totally misread the scripture for 2000 years until the enlightened bahai came about? Its an attitude that disgusts me.
What’s curious however is that immediately after back tracking you go on the attack once more? Saying we indoctrinate, meaning what exactly? That we teach our children the faith as you no doubt teach your children your faith? That we teach things to those interested in becoming Christian like you teach things to those interested in believing Ali Hussain? Perhaps we should call you Hussainites.
Now his incarnation is an action of God, not an attribute like being good or being just and etc. The incarnation is describing who God actually is, that he took on human form. He did not transform and loose any part of his divinity but rather added an additional nature to himself. You need to understand the incarnation before you can speak about it.
You then go on to say you believe it contradicts the bible. We are back to my original point. Why does it matter that it contradicts the bible? We worship the same God so whats it to you? God isn’t going to punish me by the sounds of it, so why do you care?