That is all along the lines of what I have been thinking. On the one hand, don’t be under the control of the intoxicant, on the other hand the beverage itself is made with properties of nature which God created with the intention of man’s enjoyment. Psalm 104. So the mild affects as well as the taste of controlled drinking are to be enjoyed by those who are under control, but the dissipation of abuse is to be avoided by those who are tempted with the excessive use.
I once had a beverage that was stronger than I expected and was feeling tipsy. I later asked a friend who was there and who has no guile if I was affected and he said my conduct was unchanged. That’s an example of why I was wondering about this. If one has a few extra in the joy of the moment or misundestimates the content of the drink, does that count as a sin of excess, gluttony or dissipation where the alcohol does not lead to immoral behavior?
One of the things I make a standard practice is to minimize temptations. I make sure that I won’t have to travel after I have my first drink and I am not in the company of people who are a bad influence. After that I have a specific stopping number that I stick by. Is this temperance? There are other things too that I don’t do. I choose not to drink around the opposite sex except my wife, although once I had drinks with a friend and his wife was there for a short time. I also don’t get into hard subjects that are going to bring temptations of attitude.