Oh that’s good. God does not want to force us? We can do as he says or face the hazard of torture beyond imagination and without limit of time after our death, but God is not trying to coerce us in any way to worship him?
Well, if God does coerce it’s in the same sense that a parent might coerce a child who’s been taking drugs into stopping by saying ‘do what I say or face the hazards of a life of addiction’. In other words threatening the child with all sorts of horrors that the child can’t possibly imagine for a length of time - lifelong - that it can’t possibly fathom from the height of its teenage wisdom.
The parent doesn’t want the child to worship it, of course. Or to obey it for the sake of obeying it. There’s no ego involved. The parent simply knows the truth - that addiction and the consequences of it are awful - better than the child, and having authority and superior knowledge exerts it in the child’s best interests.
Same with our sin - we can’t see how horrible our sin is, God can. God wants to preserve us from the horror of it. Of course you’re going to say ‘but God could make us avoid sin in the first place’. But it WOULD mean God interfering with our free-will.
Saying God could make us beings who HAVE free will and yet inevitably exert that free-will not to sin - or who don’t suffer bad consequences when we do sin - is as nonsensical as saying God could make 2+2=5. By definition 2+2 does NOT equal 5, but 4. We humans figured that out by our God-given logic. God is always supremely logical, even when, His logic being greater than ours, we can’t grasp it.
By definition God leaving us free-will but also with no option but to do the good, or leaving us able to do evil but not suffer the natural consequences that flow from that evil (and which inhere in it) is like saying ‘God can make 2+2=5’.
Sure he could, technically, but it would defy logic. The definition of free-will is having the option to choose between good and evil. The definition of logic is the faculty by which we figure out that 2+2 will always =4 and not 5 or 3.
God being the supreme embodiment of logic, and the very embodiment of free-will, He knows the value and pleasure of those two traits. Knowing it, He values them in us so much that He wouldn’t want to interfere with them. Have you read the Gospel story of the farmer who, having planted his crop, sees weeds sprouting up among the wheat? His workers ask him if he wants to pull up the weeds and says ‘no, because you’ll end up pulling up wheat as well - instead, let them grow together, it will be easy to separate them at the harvest’.
This, I think - this sense of free-will being SO precious in spite of the pain and suffering it brings that God treasures it and knows, really, that we treasure it too - is the part of the logical pattern you seem to be missing.
Have you never had a person (or a situation) be both a pain in the keester AND at one and the same time such a joy and blessing in your life that you’ll happily take the pain in the keester bits along with the good? Those of us who have, I think, come very close to the mind of God.