Now thats the easiest one yet. Pure and simple they dont want to live according to the church they want to live the way of the world. They dont want to stay married they want to marry over and over again. They dont want to confess their sins, if they do that for goodness sakes they would have to admit they have sins, repent and turn away from sin, what fun would that be. They dont want to obey Gods words thats not fun. Thats also why more and more people who dont have the Faith of the Church are all on anxiety meds, because they dont go to the church and ask for Gods help. They want a pill they dont want to do it the hard way, and Gods way is the hard way, and its getting harder and harder every day, They want to read the bible and make it to what they want it to be, its easier that way, makes them feel good, i could go on and on and on. Dont listen to the Pope listen to yourself, thats the way of the world where you been, Turn away from the Church if you dont like this church go to the next one and then the next untill they tell you what you want to hear, Not what you need to hear, ANd then if you dont find the right church better yet start your own, Why not you can preach the word, Heck yeah dont you watch tv, Oprahs the talk of the town, dont believe everything you read step out of the box. think for yourself, AND THIS COMES FROM GOD YEAH RIGHT!