I’ve been thinking about this thread a lot today.
My job was tough today. Last week, our hospital cut around 100 positions to try to save money, and we lost one of our staff, so all of us are stepping up to do the work she used to do. It’s hard. I was hot, tired, thirsty, hungry, and I had to go to the bathroom, but couldn’t find a break time. My knee hurt awfully, as I was taken off of Celebrex last week after I had a severe allergic reaction (ER visit, IV with meds, stayed home from work a day to rest, etc.)
It was also rather lonely, as we were all too busy to chat back and forth. (We are also still rather sad over the loss of our staff person.)
But I tried to be cheerful and encouraging to others, and be grateful to God for all the good things about my job. Hey, it’s a job! And I have a paycheck coming in–there are many in the U.S. who can’t say that. And it’s inside, so no bugs or sunburns. And it’s a job that helps other people get well, so it’s fulfilling.
My point is, we become saints not through having smooth sailing and happy trails, but through suffering, pain, discouragement, loneliness, etc. It is when we are at our weakest that we are forced to rely totally on Jesus, and then He is able to make us more like Him.
Perhaps some of you who “suffer” through singing, or hate the hymns that are selected in your parish, would like to consider the possibility that maybe the Lord is trying to help you to give up your likes and pleasures, and instead, submit meekly to others in authority (e.g., the priest and his hired staff), and in so doing, learn to submit to Jesus Himself. Maybe the fact that the hymns are unpleasant to you could help you to become more like Christ–IF you will stop struggling against something that you really can’t change anyway, and rest in the Lord and allow HIM to be your music, your song, your hymn.
One suggestion that I have for those of you who hate the contemporary hymns like Gather Us In is to use the congregational singing time to meditate upon the words of the hymns that you hate. Often the composer/lyricist is one of the St. Louis Jesuits–think about the Jesuits, about Ignatius Loyola, and what they have accomplished and are accomplishing on this earth for the Church and for Christ.
Or perhaps the author is Marty Haugen, the Lutheran. Think about the Lutherans and what they believe, and why their beliefs are flawed. Pray for them, and for Mr. Haugen.
Or perhaps you don’t know the author–try to imagine what the author was thinking and experiencing when they wrote the hymn.
Try to think of Bible verses that the hymn refers to.
I hope these suggestions are helpful to some of you. I can’t imagine going through Mass in misery. I agree with one of the first priests I ever knew, back when I first became Catholic–he used to say, “I’m grateful for ANY music in the Mass!” What a sweet, reasonable attitude.