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That is too bad… but would you or have you considered going to both with each other. Yes that would mean going to two Masses, but I hope that the division you are experiencing does not harm other things in your marriage.I agree . My wife likes the novus ordo Mass with its contemporary music and very liberal priest. I prefer the Anglican Use Mass with its majestic beauty, Gregorian Chant, and kneeling for Communion. We haven’t gone to Mass together in years.
I have friends who do something similar. One goes to a NO that has only a few “norms” that were not intended. The other goes to a NO where each week you could experience something new. I don’t know the future for them, but …
Strangly, the NO with few new “norms” has a pastor who has a penchant for entertaining at Mass.(small parish)
And the NO with lots of changes has a pastor who is considered very conservative (hugh parish, formerly “run” by the women in the office).
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