Do you feel offended by people who come to the CC dressed as if they were at a barbeque in their backyard?

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I feel we should dress the best we can. To some it may be a dress to others dress slacks. I know someone who converted from a Protestant church, who once told me, when she was growing up her mother had a hard time affording nice clothes. She felt people looked down apon them at church. This was one of the reasons why she liked the Catholic church, she doesn’t feel so judged on what she’s wearing.
 
interesting how you cited the pagans as an example how people are dressing today.
Well, quite frankly, that statement strikes me as racist. My parish priest is from India; hence the picture of the Indian lady’s suit that I posted earlier in this thread. I’m pretty sure my priest’s sisters dress like that back home, as did his mother. All were/are devout Catholics.

Most of the people in my parish are from distant lands such as Africa, India, East Asia, etc. In fact, I would bet the majority are of non-European descent these days. Which begs the question: who are the real pagans today?
 
i will let you figure out.
No “wisdomseeker”…you were specifically asked several times to post the sources from the Church and you have failed to do so! Why? Because they don’t exist.

Even the signs outside the Vatican Churches that illustrate what is appropriate to wear give an option of modest pants for women.

Can you just admit in humility that the choice to wear pants is a personal one and you prefer not to wear pants (if you are female) or that you prefer women wear modest dresses or skirts (if you are a male). Having a personal choice is fine, but when you can’t come up with a Church-issued statement and then state your opinion as fact, it really reduces your credibility with other posts and issues and lessens your “witness” as a Catholic.
 
Wasn’t the cloak in particular given to him by pilot?
You mean Pilate

And again, that is besides the point. They wear robes back that because thats what they wear back then. Expensive of cheap is besides the point. People today are more likely to wear jeans or pants, because its what we wear today. They are not immodest, they reflect the culture of today.

I do agree about shorts, mini-skirts, etc. We have to draw the line somewhere. Pants are not a big deal.
 
I think this is for the ladies. Man should stop wearing shorts and flip flop and tshirts in the House of God.
The majority of the world’s Catholics live in third world countries and hundreds of millions of them in poverty. Often they are lucky to even have shorts, t-shirts and flip flops. Are you saying they should not be allowed to attend Mass?
 
You mean Pilate

And again, that is besides the point. They wear robes back that because thats what they wear back then. Expensive of cheap is besides the point. People today are more likely to wear jeans or pants, because its what we wear today. They are not immodest, they reflect the culture of today.

I do agree about shorts, mini-skirts, etc. We have to draw the line somewhere. Pants are not a big deal.
Yeah, Pilate I totally got 3/7ths of the name anyway.

And I was legitimately asking, not trying to make a point. The robe was given to him by PILATE right?
 
Yeah, Pilate I totally got 3/7ths of the name anyway.

And I was legitimately asking, not trying to make a point. The robe was given to him by PILATE right?
I think so. Its not off the top of my head and I’m a little lazy to look it up right now.
 
I feel we should dress the best we can. To some it may be a dress to others dress slacks. I know someone who converted from a Protestant church, who once told me, when she was growing up her mother had a hard time affording nice clothes. She felt people looked down apon them at church. This was one of the reasons why she liked the Catholic church, she doesn’t feel so judged on what she’s wearing.
Well, I have one or two ballgowns, they are ‘the best I can’ wear to Church. By your logic they are what I should wear.

I’m sure at least a few gents, even in this more casual day and age, might own a tuxedo, maybe even a set of tails and a tophat? Those would be ‘the best’ those gentlememen own. By your logic, those are what they should wear to Mass.
 
Darn it, those were my feelings on the matter too. I hope the first 10 results on google know.
The answer is that Herod gave Jesus an elegant robe and sent him back to Pilate. Jesus was beaten and dressed in a purple robe as a sort satiric humor by the Roman soldiers which may or may not have been the robe that came from Herod. Either way it wasn’t his robe.
 
I’m going to try to help you out wisdomseeker. (though, I’m not picking sides.) But here is some arguments for not wearing pants (on woman) …

An interesting read at least …

catholicapologetics.info/morality/modesty/dress.htm
For an apologist site, they sure throw up one heck of a strawman. If you read, all the Church documentation is referenced to modesty, not pants. Pants are mentioned here…
IN GENERAL, clothes should hide the shape of the body rather than accentuate it. Only this kind of clothing can truly be called “decent”. This rule
automatically excludes slacks (which are masculine apparel) for women.
…but this is not Church teaching, but the author’s statement. Interestingly enough, with all the documentation for modesty, he does not document this leap of logic. If one does a Church, pants are mentioned four times, not once by the Church.

I do think the principles of modesty are laid out very well, though. However, especially when it comes to fashion, one can not use standards from generations past.
 
The majority of the world’s Catholics live in third world countries and hundreds of millions of them in poverty. Often they are lucky to even have shorts, t-shirts and flip flops. Are you saying they should not be allowed to attend Mass?
third world countries i find to be a derrogatory term. it is a way to call others as if they were less human and inferior to us.
i come from a so called third world country and i can tell you that i never saw none of those back then wearing shorts or pants to go to Mass. while those so called better than the third world countries and more rich are the ones whose dresses are causing shame to the Church.
 
I’m going to try to help you out wisdomseeker. (though, I’m not picking sides.) But here is some arguments for not wearing pants (on woman) …

An interesting read at least …

catholicapologetics.info/morality/modesty/dress.htm
For an apologist site, they sure throw up one heck of a strawman. If you read, all the Church documentation is referenced to modesty, not pants.

I do think the principles of modesty are laid out very well, though. However, especially when it comes to fashion, one can not use standards from generations past. Also, a Brazilian bishop’s discipline for his Church back in the sixties and seventies never extended beyond his own diocese, or past his death.

One thing I appreciate about Catholic Answers is that it at least tries to stick to what the Church says and does go beyond to promote any agenda. The only thing I learned was to be leary of this site. Of course, I am suspicious of any site that does not explain who they are and what their goals are.
 
I’m going to try to help you out wisdomseeker. (though, I’m not picking sides.) But here is some arguments for not wearing pants (on woman) …

An interesting read at least …

catholicapologetics.info/morality/modesty/dress.htm
Thank you Gabriel for this.

Padre Pio

**The saintly stigmatized Padre Pio was always a merciless enemy of feminine vanity: he never tolerated low-necked dresses, short and or tight fitting
skirts, and forbade his spiritual children to wear transparent stockings. In the last few years of his life, his severity increased enormously, as
fashions became more and more immodest. **
 
For an apologist site, they sure throw up one heck of a strawman. If you read, all the Church documentation is referenced to modesty, not pants.

I do think the principles of modesty are laid out very well, though. However, especially when it comes to fashion, one can not use standards from generations past. Also, a Brazilian bishop’s discipline for his Church back in the sixties and seventies never extended beyond his own diocese, or past his death.

One thing I appreciate about Catholic Answers is that it at least tries to stick to what the Church says and does go beyond to promote any agenda. The only thing I learned was to be leary of this site. Of course, I am suspicious of any site that does not explain who they are and what their goals are.
I agree. And some of the stuff concerning sports is hard to swallow. My kids are all swimmers.
 
Answer what?

those who refuse to respect the House of God have already made their choice.
I can not make anyone see.
You base this on their dress? How cand one become the judge of another’s heart (excuse me, discerner) based on the casualness of attire? How does one not fall under the condemnation that by whatever judgement he metes out it will be meted out to him? Fear of God would compel me away from such judgement.
No “wisdomseeker”…you were specifically asked several times to post the sources from the Church and you have failed to do so! Why? Because they don’t exist.
No, but this one does.
2477 Respect for the reputation of persons forbids every attitude and word likely to cause them unjust injury. He becomes guilty:
  • of rash judgment who, even tacitly, assumes as true, without sufficient foundation, the moral fault of a neighbor;
I fear that this thread does little but enforce unfair stereotypes of traditionalists. Please, I would exhort all to witness by dress what one believes in one’s heart, but for the sake of God’s mercy do not take offense for God’s sake when there may be no offense. Even when there is sin, as in the case of deliberately immodest dress, unless we ourselves are free of sin, there is a better way of handling such one with love, rather than being the instrument of Satan that drives them from God.
 
For an apologist site, they sure throw up one heck of a strawman. If you read, all the Church documentation is referenced to modesty, not pants.

I do think the principles of modesty are laid out very well, though. However, especially when it comes to fashion, one can not use standards from generations past. Also, a Brazilian bishop’s discipline for his Church back in the sixties and seventies never extended beyond his own diocese, or past his death.

One thing I appreciate about Catholic Answers is that it at least tries to stick to what the Church says and does go beyond to promote any agenda. The only thing I learned was to be leary of this site. Of course, I am suspicious of any site that does not explain who they are and what their goals are.
So, by advocating for modesty in the Church is an evil thing?
 
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