I must admit I’m not even Catholic and some the irreverence at Masses can be quite shocking to me on occasion. Particularly with regard to mobile phones going off or being played with etc. (I’m aware that charitably some may be doctors on call etc., but this is probably rare), and your example of many sometimes rushing straight off after receiving communion without even waiting for “the Mass is ended”. (So many that it is unlikely they all have a grave reason to leave so soon).
Hi there kingal86,
I agree totally with your thoughts.
We must not be uncharitable and - of course - no-one is perfect, we can all make mistakes and there are times we we all forget to put our phone off, or accidentally let a door bang etc.
However, what is so disappointing to me is the depressingly regularity with which these things happen.
For example, if I went to mass (novus ordo) I would actually be surprised if I
didnt hear at least one phone go off. If these things happened only one in a blue moon, I would not be so bothered about it - but its the fact its the norm (or at least, very common).
Its just sad - it shows that people are not giving any particular thought to where they are, or what is going on around them.
The woman I called “Lady Gaga” earlier (!) has all kinds of form. She usually attends as part of a family group, and there is a small infant child who, like all kids, occasionally plays up.
Thst no big deal, (we cant expect adult behaviour from kids), but Gaga uses this as a constant excuse to take the kid off to the side of the Church, where she sits on the ground and lets the kid run riot as though they were in a playground.
The lowest point came when the child was allowed to use the All Souls side chapel as a playground. It was painfully obvious that Gaga had no real appreciation that the area she was allowing the child to play in, and she herself was lounging around in, was an altar dedicated to the faithful departed. Sad.
That was the day I noticed that Gaga spent 90% of her time playing with the child at the side of the Church. The other 10% was made up of going up for communion and chatting with her neighbours.
I remember thinking “As she clearly isnt interested in whats been said or done on the alter, why is she even here?”
Then, I had an epiphany.
I realised that the reason she spent so much time fussing over the child was because…
The family bring the child along specifically to keep Gaga occupied, just the same as how some families bring along toys to keep children opccupied.
How sad and ridiculous is that, eh?
I must admit, I nearly burst out laughing at this ridiculous realisation - but its definitely more sad than funny.
(probably there is another thread elsewhere moaning about some guy (me) who was smirking during mass one day - haha!)