I worked before I was married, I worked while engaged, I worked after I got married, I worked when I had both kids (6 weeks maternity leave), and the kids are grown, and I am still working. I wouldn’t have it any other way. I will retire at 62, I’m done. I told my daughter to “work”, continue to work, go to school, learn a skill,…learn how to do something that can sustain you. Mama always said, “A woman’s independence begins with her own money.”
I never wanted to “ask” if I could buy a pair of shoes, or a dress, or a pair of jeans, or flowers for the yard, or a magazine at the check out, or if I could have girls night out, or lunch out with friends. …or ask to use the car. (I bought my own, my name is on the title).
It was “my” income that afforded us a house in a neighborhood where I didn’t have dig a moat and add some gators. No, I do not live in a McMansion… it’s an old house that needed work, it’s been 16 yrs and we are finally done.
I would work again, and I advise any young women to learn a skill, go to school, work, make
your own money.