Does anyone ever know what they are doing when they sin?

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This seems to be somewhat of a flaw in your theory. He clearly states 'they know not what they do" indicating which ones to which he is referring.
Are you saying that when He said “them”, that he was only talking about a select portion of the crowd?
A person can only avoid near occasions of sin when they are AWARE of what they are doing when they sin.
Actually, this is not stated or implied in the OP. Any person can avoid sin. This is not what you are saying, though, as you are saying that addicts cannot stop using. (I think you can see that I disagree)

I am simply saying that when we sin, we do not know what we are doing, which is what Jesus observed in those crucifying Him.
 
I am

saying that we have culpability IF we ALLOW

ourselves to continue watch or hear tempting

things, we are not avoiding OCCASIONS for

sinning.
When you say “we have culpability” are you meaning that we are “able to be blamed” or are you saying that “the sin is imputed to us, we did it”? I hope you can see that these are two very different statements, but both can fall under definitions of “culpability”.
 
Q. “Perversion” in context is not an act, but an attachment. From CCC 1849:

A. CCC 1849: “Sin is an offense against reason, truth, and right conscience”. Specifically it is sin, of which all are acts (commission or omission).
I think it is pretty clear that coveting my neighbor’s goods and wife is sinful, but neither one are specifically “acts”. Living like Gollum is a sinful state. Living as an addict is a sinful state. They are not acts, but mindsets, alienated mindsets.
A. Actual grace is given simultaneously with the act of will of the person, and the emotions are not under the control of the will, which requires temperance. It takes time to perfect the virtues of prudence, fortitude, justice, and temperance that even venial sin is avoided.
Emotions are “under control” to some degree. When we recognize the emotion, the power of the emotion itself becomes somewhat dissipated. Forgiveness erases resentment. And yes, practice of virtues mitigates the problems of some emotions and desires.
Q. Ultimately, it is forgiveness from the heart that brings the sinner back into reconciliation with God and the other person, right?

A. No, it is sacramental confession, absolution, and satisfaction.
The Sacraments are, according to my catechesis, signs of what has occurred, is occurring at the time of the Sacrament, or will occur in the future. A person can confess without sincerity and receive absolution, but in the case I gave if forgiveness of the heart has not occurred, the Sacrament is essentially not manifested. This is not to say that it will not be manifested in the future.

Even a penance can be carried out without forgiveness from the heart, Vico. Of course I am not saying that such a person is not forgiven, as you already know that I see that God always forgives. The point I am making is that ultimately forgiveness from the heart is what leads to reconciliation, and the Sacrament has a role in that reconciliation.

Even a non-Christian can be reconciled with the Father.
Q. Yes, this is from the catechism, but are you implying that when Jesus said “forgive them, for they know not what they do” He was not speaking for Abba Himself, that God did not forgive even though Jesus did?

A. I am just giving the catechism item without drawing any other consusions from it.
Okay, well CCC 597 does not say in any way that Jesus was not one in being with the Father when He said “Forgive them, for they know not what they do.”
 
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People can and do choose to stop getting drugs.
Absolutely! The earlier they are in the addictive process, the easier it is to do. At the later stages, the craving drives the mind, emotions and actions.

God can save people from anything, and everything.
It seems to me, though, that the person who is overwhelmed could be shown that his or her addiction came from a position of not knowing what they were doing, so that they could transcend the overwhelming self-condemnation
This is one of the principles upon which the 12 steps are based.
When things are out of control, all of this reflection-centered stuff is out of the picture.
I am not ruling out that insight/enlightenment can come into even the most drug saturated addicted brain. God is able to work miracles. But many times it can take months or even years for the mind and emotions to stabilize after years of disruption.
you are saying that addicts cannot stop using.
Of course addicts can stop using! Otherwise, we would have no recovering addicts!
Living as an addict is a sinful state. They are not acts, but mindsets, alienated mindsets.
There are no addicts that do not engage in acts harmful to themselves and others. Addiction, by definition, harms the addict and all those within the addicts circle, especially family. It is based in an alienated mindset, but it manifests itself in disordered ACTS.
you already know that I see that God always forgives
This Catholic teaching about hell and Satan being thrown out of heaven must really be missing the mark.
according to my catechesis
Were you not planning to publish a book? The American Conference of Catholic Bishops really seem to need help getting squared away on this point. Perhaps, if you could provide them some catechesis, they could revise the Catechism to reflect what you have discovered?
 
People can and do choose to stop getting drugs.
Absolutely! The earlier they are in the addictive process, the easier it is to do. At the later stages, the craving drives the mind, emotions and actions.

God can save people from anything, and everything.
It seems to me, though, that the person who is overwhelmed could be shown that his or her addiction came from a position of not knowing what they were doing, so that they could transcend the overwhelming self-condemnation
This is one of the principles upon which the 12 steps are based.
When things are out of control, all of this reflection-centered stuff is out of the picture.
I am not ruling out that insight/enlightenment can come into even the most drug saturated addicted brain. God is able to work miracles. But many times it can take months or even years for the mind and emotions to stabilize after years of disruption.
you are saying that addicts cannot stop using.
Of course addicts can stop using! Otherwise, we would have no recovering addicts!
 
Q. I think it is pretty clear that coveting my neighbor’s goods and wife is sinful, but neither one are specifically “acts”. Living like Gollum is a sinful state. Living as an addict is a sinful state. They are not acts, but mindsets, alienated mindsets.
A. Thoughts that are engaged in are voluntarily are actual sins, so we do have sins through thought like lust and coveting.

Q. Forgiveness erases resentment. And yes, practice of virtues mitigates the problems of some emotions and desires.
A. Resentment can remain even after the valid forgiveness of the sacrament of confession.

Q. A person can confess without sincerity and receive absolution, but in the case I gave if forgiveness of the heart has not occurred, the Sacrament is essentially not manifested. This is not to say that it will not be manifested in the future.
A. I speak of attrition. That is proper disposition and sacramental grace is received with absolution, yet there may remain resentment feeling.

Q. The point I am making is that ultimately forgiveness from the heart is what leads to reconciliation, and the Sacrament has a role in that reconciliation. Even a non-Christian can be reconciled with the Father.
A. Reconciliation with God and the Church occurs with sacramental confession.
 
Q. Forgiveness erases resentment. And yes, practice of virtues mitigates the problems of some emotions and desires.

A. Resentment can remain even after the valid forgiveness of the sacrament of confession.
This is exactly the point I am making, Vico. As long as there is still resentment, forgiveness from the heart has not been complete, there is still a lingering issue.
Mark 11:25New International Version (NIV)

25 And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive them, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins.”
If the resentment involves a negative affect towards someone, then there remains a “holding against”, we hold the person’s actions or something else against the value of the person in some way.

Of course God forgives us anyway, that part is not the point of the verse. The point of the matter is, that to the degree we hold something against others (resentment), to that degree we are not realizing, not experiencing, the love of the Father.
 
I appreciate your clarification in this post. Your clarification shows that you are not saying that an addict has no choice in his sin, I definitely got that wrong.
This Catholic teaching about hell and Satan being thrown out of heaven must really be missing the mark.
Actually, it does not. The teaching mirrors what happened in the story of Adam and Eve, and reflect exactly what our minds do in the formation of the “shadow self” or the “false self”. During conscience formation, we “throw out” (banish) the aspects of ourselves that we very normally come to resent . For example, we banish our desires for status, dominance, having other people’s stuff, all of the “seven deadlies”, which helps us to keep our own behaviors in check. While this banishment is vital (IMO) in the development of the moral person, the trade-off is that we are a divided person, at constant battle within.

As we grow in love and empathy, these manifestations of grace (love and empathy themselves) become our true guide in our interactions with others. While fear of hurting someone or doing wrong is still there, it is the will to treat others with mercy and compassion that supplants the “law” provided by the conscience. Can you relate to my description of this aspect of spiritual development?

And then, of course, we have the existence of psychopaths and sociopaths, who cannot grow in empathy; they seem to have a true disability that we have yet figured out how to resolve, right? These people can function in society by having solid belief in a fear-based spirituality. “Throwing out” the stories of banishment would be “missing the mark” in terms of upholding this option in image of God.

Are you and I capable of having an honest discussion about this? I’m starting to believe we can. I’ll tell you what, I have a great deal of respect for the work you do, and I ask His blessings upon you and those you serve.
 
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the formation of the “shadow self”
That sounds very Jungian!
it is the will to treat others with mercy and compassion that supplants the “law” provided by the conscience. Can you relate to my description of this aspect of spiritual development?
Yes, it sounds very much like the dialectic Jung described between the Self and the Ego.
Are you and I capable of having an honest discussion about this? I’m starting to believe we can.
I love psychology, and have spent a lifetime studying it. It is a favorite subject of mine. However there are some great disconnects between what modern theories propose, and what has been revealed by God to the Church.
 
I love psychology, and have spent a lifetime studying it. It is a favorite subject of mine. However there are some great disconnects between what modern theories propose, and what has been revealed by God to the Church.
I agree. For example, there may be some aspects of Jung’s model that fall short when it comes to describing the psyche, but I am definitely not an expert on any particular psychologist. I do know this: all of us who read psychology find some of it ridiculous, and we label this “pop psychology”. However, one person’s “pop” may be very different from the other! 😀

Generally speaking, to me psychology is good when it helps clarify what is stated in the Gospel. The scripture-scholar’s course I went to brought in a lot of solid psychological concepts into his teachings, and my own growth benefited a great deal from this practice. I learned a lot from his course.

BTW: Fr. Rohr (who I don’t always agree with) demonstrates that Jungian psychology is in many ways in line with the letters of St. Paul. Jung, in many ways, is not “something new”; certainly the concept of the “shadow self” can be gleaned from St. Paul’s letters.
 
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forgive = give up a debt

Mark 11
25 And when you shall stand to pray, forgive, if you have aught against any man; that your Father also, who is in heaven, may forgive you your sins.
26 But if you will not forgive, neither will your Father that is in heaven, forgive you your sins.
Q. As long as there is still resentment, forgiveness from the heart has not been complete, there is still a lingering issue.
A. Forgiveness from the heart is from charity which the person with sanctifying grace has, even with a feeling of resentment (but not ill will). God is healing the penitent through grace which is the love of the Father.
 
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Altho continuing on even when we KNOW
that we are heading in the wrong direction
is ASKING for trouble, if we turn away at the
last second, and NOT fall into sin, we might
get away w/ slap on the hand, but I am doubt-
ful whether we will still remain BLAMELESS.
 
forgive = give up a debt

Mark 11

25 And when you shall stand to pray, forgive, if you have aught against any man; that your Father also, who is in heaven, may forgive you your sins.

26 But if you will not forgive, neither will your Father that is in heaven, forgive you your sins.
Actually, the verse you quoted does not define forgiveness as “giving up a debt”. “Aught” can be anything, so it can very well include negative feelings toward someone. Do you agree that holding onto negative feelings against someone is not what Jesus calls us to?
 
Altho continuing on even when we KNOW

that we are heading in the wrong direction

is ASKING for trouble, if we turn away at the

last second, and NOT fall into sin, we might

get away w/ slap on the hand, but I am doubt-

ful whether we will still remain BLAMELESS.
Yeah that is the big question, right? Do we forgive, or do we blame? Do you agree that when we have a good conscience, we have a gut-level reaction to sin that involves an “automatic” blaming?
 
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Vico:
forgive = give up a debt

Mark 11

25 And when you shall stand to pray, forgive, if you have aught against any man; that your Father also, who is in heaven, may forgive you your sins.

26 But if you will not forgive, neither will your Father that is in heaven, forgive you your sins.
Actually, the verse you quoted does not define forgiveness as “giving up a debt”. “Aught” can be anything, so it can very well include negative feelings toward someone. Do you agree that holding onto negative feelings against someone is not what Jesus calls us to?
There is no definition there. The subject is sin. Resentment is either a temptation to sin (a feeling) or a sin (ill will).

Example wording from Our Father, Matthew 6:12

RSVCE
And forgive us our debts, As we also have forgiven our debtors;
DRC:
And forgive us our debts, as we also forgive our debtors.
 
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I might be watching TV, and the Spirit says to turn
off the thing and pray, I keep on watching and the
voice of the Spirit and my conscience gets smaller
and smaller. THAT, my friend is denying the Lord-
ship of Christ, an act of disobedience, which is
akin to divination! 1 Sam. 15:23
 
I might be watching TV, and the Spirit says to turn

off the thing and pray, I keep on watching and the

voice of the Spirit and my conscience gets smaller

and smaller. THAT, my friend is denying the Lord-

ship of Christ, an act of disobedience, which is

akin to divination! 1 Sam. 15:23
So you do have that gut-level reaction to your decision not to pray, I’m hearing. You self-condemn.

The self-condemnation helps motivate us to behave differently, correct? And then, if it doesn’t work, we self-condemn more. Do you find yourself in this loop sometimes?
 
RSVCE

And forgive us our debts, As we also have forgiven our debtors;

DRC:

And forgive us our debts, as we also forgive our debtors.
Yes, when we forgive from the heart, the debt that we perceive others owe us goes away also. If we look at Matthew 18:35:
35 “This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother or sister from your heart.”
As the priest who taught us explained, God always forgives, but if we do not forgive one another we will not experience the unconditional love and forgiveness from the Father. We suffer the uncertainly of a conditional love.

So, back to my question. Do you agree that holding onto negative feelings against someone is not what Jesus calls us to?
 
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Can this be applied universally? It seems to be so. I can’t think of a case where people actually know what they are doing when they sin, when using an all-inclusive definition of the word “know”. (i.e. knowing all the information relevant to the decision to behave in a certain manner)
No, this cannot be applied universally. For example, when I give into to sexual sin, I know 100% what I’m doing and that it’s sinful. I simply cave to temptation.

My sexual sin is a mortal sin because I know it’s a mortal sin.

The majority of us have enough information to know something is sinful. We don’t have to have all of the information, but only enough to know to know it’s sinful or against the natural law.

In regards to Jesus on the Cross, Jesus was not implying that they didn’t know what they were doing when killing Him. He meant the Jews didn’t know they were killing the Son of God and perhaps that some in the crowd may have thought he was truely guilty of blasphemy.

But in no way was Jesus implying that the ones responsible for His death didn’t know what they were doing in regards to killing an innocent man.

God Bless
 
No, this cannot be applied universally. For example, when I give into to sexual sin, I know 100% what I’m doing and that it’s sinful. I simply cave to temptation.
I will admit that when I know something, I think I know everything about it. I think I know all the consequences, all the hurt I am causing. I think that I value the “temple” of me as much as I can possibly value.

The fact is, though, that there is much more to know, which one can learn from experience and inspiration.

How do you know that you know everything about what you are doing? There is more to knowing sin than knowing that “it is a sin”. There is knowing why it is a sin, for example. Now this might make your mind go to “wait a minute, this is making excuses!”, which is very natural, but that voice coming from within is a roadblock in itself, it shuts off the mind to a deeper understanding. The focus here is on understanding, not condemnation or condonation.
but only enough to know to know it’s sinful or against the natural law
Yes, there it is! “It is only enough” means “only enough to condemn”. But the focus, again, is not on blame, the focus here is on understanding. The blame comes from the conscience (a good conscience).
In regards to Jesus on the Cross, Jesus was not implying that they didn’t know what they were doing when killing Him. He meant the Jews didn’t know they were killing the Son of God and perhaps that some in the crowd may have thought he was truely guilty of blasphemy.
They did not know what they were doing at many levels. For example, do you think the people that wanted the other two crucified knew what they were doing?
 
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