I appreciate your clarification in this post. Your clarification shows that you are not saying that an addict has no choice in his sin, I definitely got that wrong.
This Catholic teaching about hell and Satan being thrown out of heaven must really be missing the mark.
Actually, it does not. The teaching mirrors what happened in the story of Adam and Eve, and reflect exactly what our minds do in the formation of the “shadow self” or the “false self”. During conscience formation, we “throw out” (banish) the aspects of ourselves that we very normally come to resent . For example, we banish our desires for status, dominance, having other people’s stuff, all of the “seven deadlies”, which helps us to keep our own behaviors in check. While this banishment is vital (IMO) in the development of the moral person, the trade-off is that we are a divided person, at constant battle within.
As we grow in love and empathy, these manifestations of grace (love and empathy themselves) become our true guide in our interactions with others. While fear of hurting someone or doing wrong is still there, it is the will to treat others with mercy and compassion that supplants the “law” provided by the conscience. Can you relate to my description of this aspect of spiritual development?
And then, of course, we have the existence of psychopaths and sociopaths, who cannot grow in empathy; they seem to have a true disability that we have yet figured out how to resolve, right? These people can function in society by having solid belief in a fear-based spirituality. “Throwing out” the stories of banishment would be “missing the mark” in terms of upholding this option in image of God.
Are you and I capable of having an honest discussion about this? I’m starting to believe we can. I’ll tell you what, I have a great deal of respect for the work you do, and I ask His blessings upon you and those you serve.