Does Catholic rudeness keep you away from the Church?

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I should like to encourage you to put forward your thoughts much more often than you have been doing.
Oh dear, oh dear, oh dear. That sentence above is so unwieldy and awkward.

It shouldn’t be, “I should like to encourage you to put forward your thoughts much more often than you have been doing.”

It should simply read, “I should like to encourage you to put forward your thoughts much more frequently.”

I dunno. Some people just haven’t a clue.

Didactically,
Mick
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Your argument has no validity because not all Roman Catholics speak with one voice. That is perfectly clear from reading the various forums here at CAF. Yet you have the temerity to cast that about as criticism of others…I think you are projecting.

Orthodox all believe the same theology (this is our voice), and are conservative by nature. Even in those occasions where Orthodox are not sharing in communion the reason is not over theology and has no bearing on the validity of their respective orders, sacraments or Saving work under Christ. Usually the source of the problem is political and not of a permanent nature, in fact not usually affecting the people in the pews who visit one another’s parishes without problems.

It normally prevents the bishops and priests from concelebrating. There are very few actual situations where this happens and it is a matter of intra-church discipline.
The Church does speak with one voice. Dissenters do not speak for the Church.

I provided an example of one Orthodox group that isn’t in communion with the others because they have a different theology on ecumenism. They call the other Orthodox heretics.
 
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SSTeacher:
With respect, the above are “facts” only when viewed through a Catholic filter. For those who do not accept them as stated, some qualification is required. That can be taken into account by referring to them as disputed facts.

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Hi SS, 👋

Actually you are incorrect. Since the Catholic church is the only group authorized to interpret scriptures as we actually wrote and taught them for 1,500 years, before the first Protestant was corrupted by Satan ,we know what we are talking about. **

There is no insult in putting forward what you perceive to be a fact provided that it is adduced in a courteous manner. This would come quite naturally if you first recognize that there are others who through no fault of their own do not share your assumptions and presuppositions and therefore do not reach the same conclusions as you do. I hope that makes sense?

**I totally 100% 👍 agree with your statement “… there are others who through no fault of their own do not share your assumptions and presuppositions and therefore do not reach the same conclusions as you do.” That is even taught by the RCC actually. Your ignorance of the truth wasn’t your fault. But now that you have been told the truth you continued ignorance could be considered pure foolishness couldn’t it? **

D’you know any rude Catholic clergymen, by the way?

** :hmmm: That is a subject question. I can think of one that I really admire for his boldly speaking the truth. He is a holy priest who pulls no punches. Here are some of my favorite quotes from one of my heros that you might consider rude, if you perhaps mistakenly consider mine to be rude. His name is Fr John Corapi. You can decide on his rudeness or honesty as I rather call it:

“Ignorance of the Catechism is ignorance of Christ, just like the Bible says”

“There are people who say, ‘oh every time Catholics make the sign of the cross they re-crucify Christ.’ Look, that’s what comes under the theological classification of happy horse manure! **Got it, that’s what that is. That’s bologna, absolute bologna! They don’t know anything about our religion, and I don’t purport to know anything about theirs. I respect theirs, respect ours. When we make the sign of the cross we are simply making a statement of faith. I believe in the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, and I believe in the sign of the cross, because that is the sign of our salvation!”

“In the end, forever, you and I will be in Heaven or Hell. Period.”

“Sometimes people will say ‘Well I’ve outgrown my faith.’ I’ve met eight zillion people who have said ‘Yeah I used to be Catholic…’ Well what are you now? And they may be Buddhist, or who knows what? And they sometimes say ‘Well I outgrew my Catholic faith, I became more sophisticated, I became more educated.’ There’s something I have found. Now I have some education. I have earned five university degrees, most of them with highest honors. I’m not bragging, I’m just saying that to let you know that I respect education. I have a high regard for education. But in my many years around the education establishment, I was given a great revelation by God, and the revelation is: a lot of people done been educated into imbecility.”
“More than once I’ve had discussions with persons who say, things, based on a misunderstanding. …] ‘Oh you Catholics worship images.’ No we don’t, ‘yes you do,’ no we don’t, ‘yes you do,’ no we don’t! The final retort to that is… I have a doctorate, in Catholic theology that I have earned the hard way; by sitting in university classrooms for twelve years. I know what we believe! You get a doctorate in Catholic theology? What do you know about it? Nothing! You don’t know anything about it. You’re saying things that are born of misunderstanding or ignorance.”

Does this ring true to anyone here claiming to had “Catholic theology” before Satan drug her off on her way towards eternal damnation? To quote Fr Corapi in case you missed it “You don’t know anything about it. You’re saying things that are born of misunderstanding or ignorance” to which I add AMEN!

God Bless
 
Oh dear, oh dear, oh dear. That sentence above is so unwieldy and awkward.

It shouldn’t be, “I should like to encourage you to put forward your thoughts much more often than you have been doing.”

It should simply read, “I should like to encourage you to put forward your thoughts much more frequently.”

I dunno. Some people just haven’t a clue.

Didactically,
Mick
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**Hi SS, 👋

You really need to get out more! 😃 😃 😃 😃 😃 **
 
By the way, did you ever see that episode of Everybody Loves Raymond wherein the focus is on Frank and his buddies ushering at the Catholic Church on Sunday morning?
That’s a real coicidence, because I almost mentioned it! I thought it was relevant because he guilts his son for not attending Mass more often, but it then turns out he himself is going for the wrong reasons. That episode was definitely comedic for the truth in that stereotype, and both my husband and I had a good chuckle at it. Which is also how we handle the same situations in real life.
 
Erma Bombeck said “Guilt is such a wonderful gift; it never stops giving.” I think she also distiguished between Catholic nd Jewish guilt, lol!
 
Not naming any names, but I notice quite a few posts and threads in this section which seem to be unnecessarily belligerent and argumentative towards Protestants.

I’m a Catholic, but I’ve been outside the Church more than once in my life. And during those times, when I would venture to Catholic or Christian discussion boards, I’d really be offended and put off by that kind of message.

For me, it was the kind Christians - the ones who had a sense of humor and tried to engage me where I was, rather than argue with me - who “softened me up” and got me in the state of mind where I could seriously reconsider coming home.

What do you think, non-Catholics (and non-Christians)? What kind of Catholic would you prefer to deal with - one who constantly tells you you’re on the road to Hell, or one who walks by your side, chatting and laughing and using “gentle persuasion”?
That’s pretty ironic that you are making the claim that Catholics do such things, because in my daily encounters in college, the people who do that have always been Non-Catholic Christians…and all of the Catholics I know are completely opposite of the stereotype you’re displaying.

so even though you didnt ask for my opinion (because you are segregating Christians from Catholics, which in itself seems to be something you are arguing against…hypocritical much?) I’m giving it, for the sake of other Catholics, who do not act this way and are being incorrectly branded.
 
TRUTH without LOVE is brutality…

LOVE without TRUTH is nostalgia…
 
Christians who reject the teaching of the Church are heretics.

I’m sorry to hear you have separated yourself from Christ by rejecting His teachings on contraception/abortion and the ordination of women. You have made a grave error, you should reconsider your actions.
That is an opinion you hold. You are welcome to the politics of hate and otherness. I embrace God’s love and the teachings of Jesus and am quite comfortable in doing so. I am not the least interested in your subjective view of whatever errors you believe are committed by those who don’t think like you. But again, it seems you don’t think on your own, but merely mouth the words of a man made institution. That is your right, and I am happy for your comfort there. Sadly you cannot see that others have found their home in other ways. You may rant all you wish, but it is but your opinion, one that you did not produce, but was given to you by a heirarchy of other humans.
 
I’ve got that problem too, except most of them are my husbands books and you know how men feel about getting rid of things. Please don’t spend precious time, if you think that you will be discouraged. I’m just one of those that likes to learn the “back story” even if I don’t agree. Seems as though this thread has gotten out of control, I am a factor in that also. Even when we don’t or can’t agree on things it’s always nice to know that people are so passionate about their love for Christ, and I truly believe it’s that love that makes “most” of us try to show others how we feel about things. Even when people accuse one another of things, idolotry, false theology,etc,etc, I really think it’s just that we are concerned about our brothers and sisters and want everyone to know Christ. I try very hard not to let this kinda thing insult me, quite the contrary, I find it refreshing that we as Christians care about one another so much that we’ll yell it out at the top of our lungs. My Dad was a yeller, I have six brothers that are yellers, I get over it. God Bless.
If I have read your posts correctly, I doubt that much would be learned from continuing to hash it out. That doesn’t mean I am not interested however, like I said, just strapped for time. I am helping to co-teach a class on Paul at my church, and am spending my extra time in preparation. Along with the usual cooking, cleaning and blogging, I don’t find 24 hours adequate. Perhaps we can take this up at another time Mary. I am grateful for your pleasant demeanor, though I suspect we don’t agree on some basic things. Blessings.
 
Guyonthestreet,

Yes you’re absolutely right. I’m currently checking into Catholicism but I’m comparing it to Orthodoxy as I do so (I’m comparing only the beliefs of Churches not the level of courtesy of the individual members). As far as I can see, as an outsider, the claim of the Eastern Orthodox Church to be the One, Holy, Catholic and Apostolic Church is just as valid as that of the Catholic Church. The existence of both Churches making the exact same claim rather weakens the claim itself, methinks. I’ve got as far as “they can’t both be right,” which isn’t exactly what you might call progress.

Musingly,
Mick
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Speaking from an Anglican point of view, we draw what we deem appropriate from the RCC, the Eastern Orthodox and the Scottish Church. We do not believe in a magisterium or heirarchy however. We do examine tradition, but re-examine it as necessary to see if it is still valid. We also add reason to the mix for we believe God presented us with these fine instruments for a reason. Since they have served us so well in other aspects of life, we assume they are functional to discern truth in metaphysical things. I say this in no way to promote my faith. It is my opinion that we are all structured to fit better in one place rather than in others. I hope your journey leads you to a place of peace and love where you can express Jesus to the best of your ability. 🙂
 
Yes, once again you present a sensible and reasoned argument.

It’s perhaps worthwhile bringing to mind from the Gospel accounts how Jesus treated women. At the risk of censure from the Hebrew good old boys club Jesus talked to women, responded to their touch, healed them, received their emotional and financial support and used them as main characters in His stories. He even welcomed a woman’s anointing of His head as indicative of her understanding of His real mission. Moreover, Jesus spoke directly to the matter of treating a woman as a sex object. In the Sermon on the Mount, He redefined adultery to include a lustful look. So as Jesus made religion a matter of the heart instead of the law He elevated women from the level of sexual exploitation to the level of full personhood.

Conclusion: The Founder of Christianity wasn’t rude to women (I’m making a feeble attempt to stay on topic).🙂

Biblically,
Mick
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Indeed I agree with what you have said. I believe that Paul very correctly interpreted that women were equal partners in marriage. Much of the anti-woman stuff in the scriptures was I believe not authentic Pauline writing, but followers of him, who interpreted him, and rather badly I think. In any case, when we look directly at Jesus, there seems no reason whatsoever to come to the paternalistic conclusions that are so prevelant among the conservative elements today.
 
Can it be true? Is Jesus Really in Catholic Holy Communion?

Jesus Willed to stay with us. Mt. 28: “18 And Jesus came and said to them, "All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me… and lo, I am with you always, to the close of the age."

The gift from God, of God (His Son, Jesus the Christ) and for God, in that it is the greatest source of grace, leading to our eternal salvation.

When the Catholic priest or bishop pronounces the words: “This is My Body…. This is My Blood” two miracles take place. First the priest is momentarily miraculously transformed into Christ Himself, as it is Christ who makes the transformation (Transubstaniation…Catholic theological term) of what appears to be ordinary bread and wine, into the very Flesh and Blood of Jesus Himself. Thus we proclaim that what was, is no more” Jesus Himself, not a sign, and not a symbol: Jesus Himself is made present. All that remains are “the accidents” that is to say the appearance of bread and wine. Has to be with direct Apolostic Succession!

John: Ch. 6:

52The Jews then disputed among themselves, saying, “How can this man give us his flesh to eat?” 53 So Jesus said to them, "Truly, truly, I say to you, unless you eat the flesh of the Son of man and drink his blood, you have no life in you; 54 he who eats my flesh and drinks my blood has eternal life, and I will raise him up at the last day. 55 For my flesh is food indeed, and my blood is drink indeed

66 after this many of his disciples drew back and no longer went about with him. (Deciples …not Apostles.” no longer” means that they deserted Jesus and His teaching.) 67 Jesus said to the twelve, “Do you also wish to go away?” 68 Simon Peter answered him, “Lord, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life; 69 and we have believed, and have come to know, that you are the Holy One of God.”

Jesus didn’t say …oops, “you didn’t understand what I was trying to say.” He simply asked ‘do you not understand, not believe and wish to go away (desert Me)?

**Saint Paul: 1st. Corinthians 11: **
27 Whoever, therefore, eats the bread or drinks the cup of the Lord in an unworthy manner will be guilty of profaning the body and blood of the Lord. 28 let a man examine himself, and so eat of the bread and drink of the cup. 29 for any one who eats and drinks without discerning the body eats and drinks judgment upon himself.

33 So then, my brethren, when you come together to eat, wait for one another—34 if any one is hungry, let him eat at home–lest you come together to be condemned. Paul is saying this “this not a meal! It is the Body, Blood, Soul and Divinity of Jesus Himself.” Were he not saying this, why would one be” condemned” for eating what is only ordinary bread, and drinking ordinary wine? **NOT! **

Only through the window of Divine Love, can one even come close to understanding why God did this.

Heb. 2: “5 For it was not to angels that God subjected the world to come, of which we are speaking. 7 Thou didst make him for a little while lower than the angels, thou hast crowned him with glory and honor, **8 putting everything in subjection under his feet." Now in putting everything in subjection to him, he left nothing outside his control. **As it is, we do not yet see everything in subjection to him. 9 But we see Jesus, who for a little while was made lower than the angels, crowned with glory and honor because of the suffering of death, so that by the grace of God he might taste death for every one.”

Desiring to do more, to be more, to save more; Christ became our Bread and our Drink. God didn’t settle for (dare I say) “just” becoming a man like us in every way but sin. Jesus the God-man, didn’t just die for us. No, God who promised to be “with us until the end if time,” (Mt. 28:20), Willed to become an inanimate object, ordinary bread and wine.

Why did Jesus allow Himself to be born as a small, helpless, baby? Remember he was “laid in a manger.” What is a “manager? Something that hold food. Where did this take place? Lk. 2: “15 When the angels went away from them into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, “Let us go over to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has made known to us.” 16 And they went with haste, and found Mary and Joseph, and the babe lying in a manger. And what does the work “Bethlehem” mean in Hebrew?” It means, “house of bread.”

Jesus came to us as a tiny harmless baby, so as not to scare or to intimidate us. For the very same reason, he assumes the appearance of bread and wine. Mt. 11: 28 ”Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me; for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light." Jesus loves us too much to scare us, to force us, but loves us so very much that He desires to lead us to Himself.

This, my friend can only be understood through the window of Divine Love! A gift of Jesus to the only Church He founded.
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So sad to see this. You treat this as some exclusive club. You need to look for the mote in the eye as they say, and see the glorious work being done by others in the name of Jesus. I believe in the real presence, but I do not condemn those who don’t. If their works are the same, I suspect God cares more for substance than rhetoric.
 
Can I please ask how we believe in something or someone that we know little or nothing about, a complete mystery? We have to know something of God to believe in Him. I propose that the more we know, the better and stronger believer we can be, knowing what we believe in and worshiping Him for Who He Is.

God is a mystery in as much as we can never fully understand Him. If we could, He would not be God. So, the task is to understand Him as much as we can, and realize He is still mystery in that we do not understand Him fully. God has revealed His nature to us, and there are things we do know about Him. I don’t think we should limit our knowledge and understanding of Him and just stop learning saying He’s a mystery that I believe in. This includes His Eucharistic Presence. We need to understand that this is different modality than when two or more are gathered in His Holy Name. It is very important. For example, it is very important to know that the person of Christ has two natures, one fully God and one fully man. In this way, we understand better His suffering in the Garden of Gethsemane, etc. God revealed Himself to us, and calls us to be like Him. How can we do so unless we receive His revealed Truth and seek to know Him?
We believe because we hope. The essence of faith is hope in things not seen. We do the best we can to understand God, but we all recognize in the end, that there is little we can know from a scientific point of view. Augustine said as much when he said that what we know about God is probably precisely what we don’t know. I’m stating that poorly of course, but his point was that matters of faith are not subject to knowledge and aren’t meant to be. They are faith for a reason. We are to believe. Belief can be rational and based on a certain internal logic, but you can no more prove the existance of God definitely than I can disprove his existence.

Given the learning you have listed, I find it hard to understand why you are arguing this very basic truth. God is faith. You believe that he is revealed as I do in certain ways. But it is belief. There is no test that can be done that proves this to a dispassionate observer. If there were it would not be faith. I believe that God wishes it this way. If he wanted to reveal himself in a manner that would leave no doubt to any human, he could certainly do so. But the whole point would be lost. We are learning to be as God is, little by little. At its ultimate, we and our personalities dissolve in God who uses us as an instrument of good in the world.

It is the process that so intrigues God I believe. To hand it to us as certainty would be a worthless exercise.
 
May I please ask why you assume that I assume? It was really a question, and not an analysis of one’s demonstrated behavior.

Studying and prayer are exactly what I recommend. I recommend that one study and rely on reliable sources and authority. Yogi Berra might say something like don’t rely on the unreliable. Wouldn’t you agree?
Forgive me but I thought you used the word deciding on a whim. I merely pointed out your word choice.

As to studying…of course we should rely on “reliable” sources, but that in itself is a conundrum. Does your tradition as you see if encourage you to read broadly or not? I can tell you that many on this forum consider a huge corpus of Catholic as well as protestant theology inappropriate and dangerous. They won’t touch it. Such things as liberation theology, feminist theology, deChardin, and a whole host of writers not acceptable. I was warned off these very things a good while ago here when I was still a Roman Catholic. Anyone who limits the faith to a set of approved writers is on dangerous ground for me. Truth can always withstand all interpretations. My tradition draws freely from theology and other faith traditions for any and all insights that are helpful in livng life as a Christian. Many in your faith do as well, but many here would chastise them heartily for doing so. For instance, I knew many a nun who meditated, learning from reading buddhist books on the subject. Some here find centering prayer alien and dangerous. It’s all a matter in the end of what you define as “responsible and reliable” isn’t it?
 
I propose that “not believing one” and objectively calling them a “liar” have different definitions meanings and intentions. If one reads what was meant, then a very valid interpretation is that person’s experience with those who had done this, did not match what you displayed. I think the message was that your education from theologians was not genuinely Catholic without error. For instance, I know some departments of theology (too many) are really rampant with unorthodox teachings and outright anti-Catholic teachings. It’s very unfortunate. It is certain that you took it differently, as is your option in using your free will.
Do you not see that that too is a matter of belief? You claim that perhaps I was taught by unorthodox and in error Catholics. That is no doubt your interpretation of encyclicals, other magisterium writings, and the opinions of clergy you have CHOSEN to respect. I fully believed and still do that I was taught by exceptionally well trained clergy and religious. They headed departments and ran programs teaching the faith and ministry applications for laity. Your heretic is my orthodox. Isn’t this obvious to you? You have an opinon that somebody is not genuine by some formulae that you have defined as genuine. Others don’t agree with your interpretation. Why is there this utterly fanatical need to be right?
 
If I have read your posts correctly, I doubt that much would be learned from continuing to hash it out. That doesn’t mean I am not interested however, like I said, just strapped for time. I am helping to co-teach a class on Paul at my church, and am spending my extra time in preparation. Along with the usual cooking, cleaning and blogging, I don’t find 24 hours adequate. Perhaps we can take this up at another time Mary. I am grateful for your pleasant demeanor, though I suspect we don’t agree on some basic things. Blessings.
Well I’m sure we don’t agree on some basic things, there’s a lot of that going around in this world. Good luck on your classes, my diocese here in minnesota has had many classes on Paul too. Fr. Mitch Pacwa from EWTN has a wonderful series out on the teachings of St. Paul, that I have spent many hours listening too. He’s quite the speaker. Maybe we can take this up at another time…until then…May God bless you in ways that are unimaginable.
 
Can we please catch a deep breath? … … … Okay. This sentence you denied was not a statement of faith. In the most straight forward way I know, it means “whether or not Peter was assigned head of the Church does not depend on our beliefs.”

“That Peter was assigned as head of the Church (as in whether or not he was) is simply a matter of truth whether we believe or not (truth does not depend on our beliefs).”
You are still missing it. Whether we believe Peter was or wasnt’ I agree, changes not the truth. The truth is what it is. But It is precisely the truth which we don’t know. It is a belief. And I invite you, absent the bible, ECF, Magisterium prove that he was. You cannot. You prove it circularly. You are starting from the proposition that the bible is a literally true document. It says what it means and means what it says. I don’t agree. I believe the writers were inspired to speak truthful that which they BELIEVED to be true. That does not necessarily mean they were correct.

QUOTE]Yes, I was differentiating my personal belief here. As for me, deeper reading and understanding has brought me to the place where I am confident that Christ did establish Peter as head of the Church. It flows so well with the rest of Scriptures. I have examined this thoroughly with Catholics, non-Catholics, and anti-Catholics. The objections have all been found flawed in one or more ways. So, nothing I have heard is able to refute this, and nothing else makes sense.

That is a perfect statement of what you believe and why you believe it. I accept that that is your belief. It is not mine for a series of reasons I find just as compelling as the reasons you belief as you do. I am not criticizing you, nor claiming you are wrong. I am merely stating I believe differently. It doesn’t mean that I know less, or more, or anything else. Nor do you.
 
I am a Catholic and I have felt quite of rudeness thrown my way by Catholics. That being said- I am sure that I have been rude at times as well.

I think that the issue is not really about the different faiths of the posters but more about the nature of the internet itself.

Forums in general- on any given subject- attract VERY vehement people. You know- the kind of people who will sit in front of a computer and take time out of their day to type out sometimes lengthy posts on a given subject. Many people, like my wife- NEVER post on forums. The look at stuff or shop or whatever.

So you see- be the nature of the forums- they attract more extreme people. Personally I post a lot because I really don’t have much of a life! Yeah sad but true! Really I am a happy person I just don’t do a whole lot. I suspect some others on this forum are the same way. 🤷 😃
 
We believe because we hope. The essence of faith is hope in things not seen. We do the best we can to understand God, but we all recognize in the end, that there is little we can know from a scientific point of view. Augustine said as much when he said that what we know about God is probably precisely what we don’t know. I’m stating that poorly of course, but his point was that matters of faith are not subject to knowledge and aren’t meant to be. They are faith for a reason. We are to believe. Belief can be rational and based on a certain internal logic, but you can no more prove the existance of God definitely than I can disprove his existence.

Given the learning you have listed, I find it hard to understand why you are arguing this very basic truth. God is faith. You believe that he is revealed as I do in certain ways. But it is belief. There is no test that can be done that proves this to a dispassionate observer. If there were it would not be faith. I believe that God wishes it this way. If he wanted to reveal himself in a manner that would leave no doubt to any human, he could certainly do so. But the whole point would be lost. We are learning to be as God is, little by little. At its ultimate, we and our personalities dissolve in God who uses us as an instrument of good in the world.

It is the process that so intrigues God I believe. To hand it to us as certainty would be a worthless exercise.
Interesting comments. I would not accept a premise that we are to have blind faith, rely on science to discover God or know His nature, or that our belief comes from hope that there is a God. I agree that I don’t know why I would argue against basic truth either. One option to consider would be that I did not. While we believe in things unseen, must they be completely unknown? God indeed revealed things about Himself to us. Because we can’t see with our eyes, does that equate to promoting blind faith in things we also don’t know anything about? Also, if God revealed it, why would we ignore that? We certainly don’t substitute science for believing what God has told us. No one is asking anyone to substitute science for believing in God (I think you may have misunderstood what was meant). In science, we discover His creation, and anyone who sees the order and intricacy might start to realize that a wonderful creation demands that there be a Creator. We know that believing in Him means having faith in, being committed to, and obeying Him.
 
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