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Friar_David_O.Carm
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You need to speak to both the pastor where you are going though RCIA. I believe that you said it is a student center but there has to be a Catholic priest who is the head of this group. You also need to speak to who ever is in charge at your Episcopal parish and let them know what you are doing.
It shows a big lack of commitment and maturity (I am sorry but I truly believe this to be so). If I was the priest in charge of your RCIA I would not accept you into the Church with this going on.
Why go for special training for ministry in a Church you are choosing to leave?
There is something not right with this situation.
You are not ready to enter the Catholic Church. I know RCIA is a process and takes time but for those planning to enter the Church at the Easter Vigil some commitment needs to have been made when they started RCIA. While RCIA is a discernment process, it is a discernment of the Catholic Church and you are just clouding that with what you are doing.
Every RCIA I know of tells the participants who wish to enter the Church, not those who are just there to learn more about the Church with no plan on enter at the next Easter Vigil, that they need to stop receiving communion at their old church and to start attending Sunday Mass. Part of the Catechisis will take place by attending Mass.
I just had to enter my opinion on this.
What you are doing here is like being engaged to be married with one person while still dating your ex saying that you will stop seeing your ex on your wedding day.Although I am getting closer and closer to crossing the Tiber and becoming a Roman Catholic (currently in discussion with a Roman Catholic Priest on the matter and hoping to bypass RCIA since I am already validly Baptized and have a fair amount of education in the faith), but I am remaining active in the Episcopal Church (such as receiving Communion on Sunday) until I am able to make a full profession of Roman Catholic faith.
It shows a big lack of commitment and maturity (I am sorry but I truly believe this to be so). If I was the priest in charge of your RCIA I would not accept you into the Church with this going on.
To add to may analogy above, this is you making commitments to both your fiance and to your ex. It is like you spending the holidays with your ex while still planning your wedding with someone else.Anyway, in October, I will be receiving, from an Episcopal Deacon, Lay Eucharistic Visitor training and, possibly, Eucharistic Minister training (i.e. to be a Chalice Bearer, etc.). If/when I am accepted in the Roman Catholic Church, will that LEV/LEM training be accepted or would I have to be ‘retrained’ by a Roman Catholic Deacon or whatever? After all, although the Roman Catholic Church does accept as valid Anglican Holy Orders, this is not so much a matter of that (I am not being ordained, although I receive a certificate from my Diocese in the Episcopal Church), but a matter of training.
Why go for special training for ministry in a Church you are choosing to leave?
There is something not right with this situation.
You are not ready to enter the Catholic Church. I know RCIA is a process and takes time but for those planning to enter the Church at the Easter Vigil some commitment needs to have been made when they started RCIA. While RCIA is a discernment process, it is a discernment of the Catholic Church and you are just clouding that with what you are doing.
Every RCIA I know of tells the participants who wish to enter the Church, not those who are just there to learn more about the Church with no plan on enter at the next Easter Vigil, that they need to stop receiving communion at their old church and to start attending Sunday Mass. Part of the Catechisis will take place by attending Mass.
I just had to enter my opinion on this.