If somebody asked me to buy him a condom and I said no, how is that forcing my beliefs on him? He is still free to acquire it on his own. If the government stepped in and said I was legally obligated to buy him a condom, isn’t THAT the true coercive behavior? Isn’t that the state forcing their beliefs on me?
The argument that it’s the insurance companies that pay for them doesn’t hold water. “OK then, give my friend your money, and then my friend can buy the condom. That way you’re not really buying it for me (wink, wink).”
Also, contraception is not health care. Health care is meant to treat pathological conditions. Contraception actually takes somebody with a healthy, functioning reproductive system and artificially induces infertility, which is actually a pathological state legitimately treated by medicine when it occurs without chemical inducement. I have yet to hear an argument that contraception is, indeed, a “women’s health” issue. Yes, birth control pills are used to treat actual medical conditions, which by the way, is supported by the Church, but fertility is not a medical condition. It’s a normal, healthy state of being. Why should anybody be forced to pay for somebody to be able to have sex as much as they want without having to face the healthy, natural consequences of sex - i.e. pregnancy? The only 100% reliable way to avoid pregnancy is also completely free - abstinence.