Did you approach him about his sermon? I would’ve.
You know…I’ve met a lot of pretty smart catholics on this CAF. There is nothing wrong with having a Q&A with your priest about what you know and what you hear him saying that he knows.
Sometimes priests will get wrapped around the message they are trying to convey and the wrong wording will SNAFU everything up. If you don’t bring it to his attention (afterwards) things could go from SNAFU to TARFU real quick.
The above quote speaks volumes to me. St. John Vianney - the Curé of Ars, tried to discourage us from overdoing it…esp where it involved speaking against priests. The above quoted suggestion **is **the solid first step to take. Not only can you get Father to qualify or clarify his statement, but you’re doing it in a way that shows love and compassion for him.
It could well save your priest some future grief…so he doesn’t end up being judged guilty until proven innocent. If he isn’t open to discussion about it… well there wasn’t any harm in trying…only love.
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My multi-quote attempt failed; mangy dog’s post # 18 quoted below, blue highlights:
Maybe we should blame God for abortions also. We were created for greatness. Our own concupiscence coupled with our free will is what drives the “bad choices” train. It’s real easy to blame God for this, that and the other thing.
God creates man and woman. Lucifer entices, woman sins and man follows.
…Who told you that you were naked?..What does Adam say?
the woman you created made me do it.
God goes to the woman and what does she say? The devil made me do it.
The only one that takes responsibility is the devil. Sort of the “buck stop here” kinda thing.
Our problem is that we think we can find our identities outside of God. Or, more of the same lie from the “garden”…" surely you will not die"…and we take it hook, line and sinker.
Our fault - us alone, not God.
One thing that always fascinated me about the “fall” in the garden was how we humans have never lost that skill of what I personally refer to as “blame shifting” (same as buck passing). We’ll blame anybody but ouselves…
God asks the man ,“What is this
you have done…”, but the mans answers: “The
woman gave me and I ate.”
Then God asks the woman," What’s this **you **have done…",but the woman answers , “The
serpent deceived me.” In the end the situation begs the question: Will the real sinner please stand up (or at least own up) ?
We still do this today…more than ever. In a similar sense, Cain is still killing his brother Abel too.
You know something…? If God had been my dear mother, and I had tried that answer with her - “The woman made me do it”, she would have snapped back, “And if the woman told you to go jump off the Golden Gate Bridge, you’d have done that too !!..Wouldn’t you…!!?”