Aisha was probably around 19 when the marriage was consummated. Compare to Mary, pregnant by the Immaculate Conception at around 14-15.
The Hadiths placing her age as 9 at marriage are incompatible with the known facts of her life. It seems, like many other women, she wanted to seem younger than her actual age. Cf.
muslim.org/islam/aisha-age.htm
In addition, all accounts are that Aisha was physically mature at the time of marriage consummation. That makes the age of 9 very unlikely.
This discussion is about Islam and your interpretation is not common in the Islamic world. Even assuming your interpretation of history and the Hadith are correct then you still missed my point entirely. The fact is, it can now be used as an excuse based on the earliest sources of Muhammad’s life.
However, I read that website and it’s some guy with a theory based on Aisha’s intelligence. I’m sorry, but I want early sources of Muhammad and Aisha’s life if you’re going to convince me. You’ll have to destroy centuries of data that claims contrary to you.
Again, I get you’re baha’i and defend from that POV, but good luck convincing an Imam:
Sahih al-Bukhari 3896—Narrated Hisham’s father: Khadija died three years before the Prophet departed to Al-Madina. He stayed there for two years or so and then he wrote the marriage (wedding) contract with Aishah when she was a girl of six years of age, and he consummated that marriage when she was nine years old.
Sahih al-Bukhari 5158—Narrated Urwa: The Prophet wrote the (marriage contract) with Aisha while she was six years old and consummated his marriage with her while she was nine years old and she remained with him for nine years (i.e. till his death).
Sahih Muslim 3310—Aisha reported: Allah’s Apostle married me when I was six years old, and I was admitted to his house when I was nine years old.
Sahih Muslim 3311—Aisha reported that Allah’s Apostle married her when she was seven years old, and she was taken to his house as a bride when she was nine, and her dolls were with her; and when he (the Holy Prophet) died she was eighteen years old.
Sunan Abu Dawud 2116—Aishah said: The Apostle of Allah married me when I was seven years old. (The narrator Sulaiman said: Or six years.) He had intercourse with me when I was nine years old.
Sahih al-Bukhari 3894—Narrated Aishah: My marriage (wedding) contract with the Prophet was written when I was a girl of six (years). We came to Al-Madina and we dismounted at the place of Bani Al-Harith bin Khazraj. Then I got ill and my hair fell down. Later on, my hair grew (again) and my mother, Umm Ruman, came to me while I was playing in a swing with some of my girl friends. She called me, and I went to her, not knowing what she wanted to do to me. She caught me by the hand and made me stand at the door of the house. I was breathless then, and when my breathing became normal, she took some water and rubbed my face and head with it. Then she took me into the house. There in the house I saw some Ansari women who said, “Best wishes and Allah’s Blessing and good luck.” Then she entrusted me to them and they prepared me (for the marriage). Unexpectedly Allah’s Messenger came to me in the forenoon and my mother handed me over to him, and at that time I was a girl of nine years of age.