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Mi_Rose
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I’m curious. Do you live in a democracy?
Oh, I’m sure there were objectionable things. I’m just relating personal experience. I didn’t know anyone who dressed in blackface or experienced domestic violence. None of the neighbors seemed to argue much, none of the kids I knew were subjected to corporal punishment. Most of the wives worked as did the husbands. The kids had to help out with the household chores. I did worry about nuclear war sometimes, but mostly ignored such things. Nobody I know took June Cleaver seriously; it was just TV. Nobody we knew dressed like that for everyday liife. None of the neighbors were divorced. There were no violent gangs.Nothing objectionable? No Honeymooners glorifying and making a joke of the horror that is domestic violence? No white men in black face minstrel shows passing off crude racial stereotypes as entertainment? No June Cleaver insisting that it’s not good enough for women to simply do all the housework, but they’re falling short as women if they don’t glam it up in pearls and heels the whole while as well?
You’re assuming that the posts accurately reflect real life. People post things that they wouldn’t say, they react in ways they wouldn’t react, etc.It’s called an anecdote from data gathered from personal experience. Go through the social media of your average young woman. Every other post is nihilistic and hopeless. That goes for most young men as well.
There has been sin in every era of life. There was good and bad in the 1950’s, just like every other era. Not every family was victimized by domestic violence then anymore than every family is victimized by domestic violence today. It is a horrible thing that happens in some families and always has and sadly always will. There is definitely more help for women today and the justice system certainly responds much better against domestic violence than they did in the 1950’s but hitting one’s wife has been illegal in the US since the 1920’s.Nothing objectionable?
No June Cleaver insisting that it’s not good enough for women to simply do all the housework
People tend to equate June Cleaver with the 50’s but the show didn’t air until late 1957. It was more of an early 1960’s show as it lasted until June of 1963 and the reruns played through the 1960’s, not the 1950’s.Nobody I know took June Cleaver seriously; it was just TV. Nobody we knew dressed like that for everyday liife
Nope. It was perfect, and all the people who wanted to change literally anything about it were not only wrong but deliberately so and were trying to destroy the world, Bond villain-style.Something I read the other day that I think (somewhat) fits this thread - if you’re looking through rose-tinted glasses, then all the red flags are simply flags. For certain parts of society, the 1950s was a good time. For others it just wasn’t.
The point that ‘if the 1950s had been some kind of utopia, the 1960s wouldn’t have happened as they did’ is very apt, IMO.
We didn’t have independence yet, so there were political tensions regarding that. Stuff like dealing with communists, riots etc. We’re a new country and thankfully we caught up and surpassed many countries quickly though. Singaporeans weren’t prosperous then, clearly.Good one Lea. How was the 1950s in Singapore?