Hi po,
Let me ask you this (because I know you and the sincerity you always bring to a discussion), are you of the conviction that both have the fullness of truth, despite the differences regarding universal jurisdiction primarily, and a few other issues that I will term, only from my view, somewhat minor (Transubstantiation, Filioque, IC, as examples)?
The East has its arguments, and over the past 1000 years, they have become quite firm. Yet, it is clear to me that Peter was prime among his brothers. Jesus gave the Apostles power over
everything. They passed that power on and the primacy of the chair of Peter went with it. I honestly think that much of the East-West division was political and geographic. It is human nature to engage in power struggles. As a Catholic, I see the EO Church as an intergral, ireeplaceable part of making disciples of all nations. Yet, how far must one go to find an EO Church in most partts of the world? And, which EO Church is it, under which Patriarch?
Nevertheless, unifcation is not the responsibility of only the two elder Churches, but it remains incumbent upon each of us to do our part. I
try 
to be charitable and invite others, as I do with you, to examine and consider unity - especially in light of the advance of evil in our world. Just as the wall which separates us is dismantled one brick at a time, Those bricks can be employed to build, one brick at a time, the wall defending us against evil. You and I are bricklayers in that regard.
You know, considering what guan said above, perhaps I am part of the healing. Some criticize me because this is an obvious part of my apologia, but I believe its important for folks to recognize that there really are many of us out here who pray for unity, and unity between east and west is truly the first step toward full unity.
The unity between East and West is ongoing and occurs in steps, just as the disunity did. Yet, you and I are not spectators, but participants. We are either striving toward unity, or we are stagnating.
Yet, all such moves require that we take a breath and follow Jesus’ command to first deny ourselves, take up our crosses, then follow him. Pentecost eve is a good time to offer the prayer to the Holy Spirit, Who is the unifier of Christ’s Body:
**Come, Holy Spirit, fill the hearts of Thy faithful and enkindle in them the fire of Thy love.
V. Send forth Thy Spirit and they shall be created.
R. And Thou shalt renew the face of the earth.
Let us pray. O God, Who didst instruct the hearts of the faithful by the light of the Holy Spirit, grant us in the same Spirit to be truly wise, and ever to rejoice in His consolation. Through Christ our Lord.
Amen.**