How does having intercourse and children defile a person? How could Mary possibly been defiled by having intercourse and subsequently bearing children after Jesus? How is having intercourse/children in marriage an act of impurity?
How is it that Eve is fallen by eating from the tree of knowledge, how is it that she is defiled?
Sorry i ran out of room on my last post, this is a continuation of it, to answer your questions.
It should be clear the BODY is the TEMPLE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT, and therefore is to be pure. We must be aware of teh BODY OF CHRIST that we eat and drink worthily of CHRIST’s HOLY FLESH AND BLOOD. That we have a pure communion with the LORD is a pure entering into the sacred mysteries, not only SPIRITually but BODILY. This is the fulfillment of the marriage union between GOD AND MAN (you’ll recall the famous painting of GOD reaching out for man).
In the old testament the ARK was kept in the HOLY OF HOLIES. But that HOLY OF HOLIES is MOTHER MARY, and the BODY OF CHRIST is the TEMPLE. Where the HOLY SPIRIT dwells. And where as the ark bore the ten commandments, JESUS is the COVENANT which MOTHER MARY brings to us. You will recall also the sacred rules which prohibited anything defiled near the ark of the covenant. But this is a SPIRITual defilement, sin. The flesh itself avials nothing, it returns to the dust. It is the wickedness of the heart which is the defilement. And since we are united to CHRIST with the BREATH OF GOD in us, THE HOLY SPIRIT, the defilement of the flesh, becomes a defilemen to the TEMPLE becomes a defilment of the heart.
Thus we say that sin is a willful act of disobedience to the commandments. Without full knowledge and consent, without the intention to, and completion of, that sin, there is not any defilement. For instance judas iscariot, had first to intend to betray the LORD making arrangements, and then completed the sin with a kiss. If he had not done so would he have guilty of a sin, even though the wickedness already resided in his heart, as we see when he grew angry at the loss of expansive oils he wanted to steal for personal gain.
The flesh isn’t defiled in marriage, any more than the flesh is defiled in THE HOLY EUCHARIST. Unless the person unworthily enters into that union, or defiles that union through inchastity. That is by being unfaithful to the covenant a person becomes unchaste. A person in a marriage to another becomes unchaste in adultery or sexual sin. A person in the marriage of the EUCHARIST becomes unfaithful by idolitry or false worship. Sin itself, can become a point of contention in a marriage, doing things which upset the marriage, calling one another names, so too using the LORD’'s name in vain would be as hurtful as for a spouse to refer to their spouse by some horrible explative.
In every real sense this is a marriage, with the LORD, and by the same reasons we accept fidelity in marriage to a spouse, we must accept these things also hold in the DIVINE MARRIAGE. And the same intimacies exist, though the lust of the flesh is not of GOD OUR FATHER, the joy and longing, and affection of the heart is a DIVINE expression of the heart. The carnal lusts are from an animal nature of man which was not intended by GOD, but came into the world after the fall in our fallen nature.
But the marriage is a DIVINE intended union of man and woman. to which the bonding of the two becomes covenant of the flesh, manifest in their children, and indissoluable of the heart. Sexual pleasure is not then sinful in this union where it is an expression of the heart, in romantic LOVE for the spouse, it is only sinful in the lustful desires as of adultery. We wouldn’t even think of going and bowing in false worship to idols, say a budda idol, it woudl be an abomination. But that is what you are doing if you look at other women while being married, you are thinking well maybe CHRISTianity is right, but it might be kind of cool to go to a Mosque and pray for a while. It would be adultery to JESUS. Of course if you don’t do this, well your wife i’m sure would forgive you. As will JESUS not worry if you are devout to HIM.
You can’t have a wife other than your wife, nor can you have a GOD other than GOD OUR FATHER. You can’t call your wife mean names, neither can you use the name of GOD in vain. You can’t commit adultery, neither can you worship false GOD’s. All these things defile the temple. The joy, pleasure, purpose, and frutifulness of marriage, is an image of DIVINE, joy, pleasure, purpose, and fruitfulness in the DIVINE MARRIAGE of the BRIDE AND THE BRIDEGROOM.