The whole animal rights crowd really left a bad impression on me back in 99.
Now, I have always had dogs and still do. I am the type of owner that gives my dogs some of my time daily, take them with when I can and allow them to have a place in the family.
I had a german shepherd that was 7 when my first child was born. Raised him from a puppy. During my wifes pregnency he got weird. He would go after her tummy, started eating his poop and killing small animals in the yard.
And yes, he had 2 years of obdience training, was walked everyday on top of 10-30 minutes of fetch most nights. He was also taken with on many weekend hiking, camping & fishing outings. He had a lot of time and human contact.
When my new born came home, we where careful. Despite the new addition he was walked and not ignored.
The second day home I had my baby in one arm and started to crouch down so he could meet her. Well, he went after her and it was a lucky thing I was the one who attempted the intro, cuz he never had a chance with me vs the wife.
At that point he was gone, no second chances. When we tried to find a shelter, every one of the rescue places said they would not take a “throw away”. Despite the fact that he tried to attack my baby. They all judged us as if we where somehow bad people for not wanting this powerful animal around our baby that had tried to get her once and was showing strange signs of behavior.
The 2 vets I contacted(including our own) refused to put him sleep. All the pro animal folks could care less about the little human being in our home and all seemed more concerned with the friggin animal.
I called my older cousin who has a farm and we agreed to take care of the dog out there. I was gonna shoot the dog in the back of the head and bury him out there. Not my first choice, but the dog could not and would not stay in our home and we where getting zero help trying to preserve his life. This decision was arrived at after days of trying to find a rescue to no avail. I could not take a chance with my little girls saftey or even a minor attack that could scar her. She is a child, he was a dog.
I finally got in touch with my vet one last time and told him if he did’nt put the dog to sleep, what plan B was going to be. It was almost a week after he went after my baby that he was put to sleep. In that time he stayed in either one of 2 places, his crate indoors or out in the yard.
It still breaks my hart to think back to my gsd thunder, but I would do the same to either of my current dogs did the same. Don’t get me wrong, I am well aware that kids need to taught how to treat a dog and that there is a difference between an attack and a nip. My kids love and play with my border collies a lot and have been nipped, but its not the same as what my gsd tried to do. I know the difference. If you play fetch with my borders, your hand is gonna get tagged.
For a while I did’nt ever want dogs again. We also had a golden retriever at the time we put the gsd down. If it was’nt for that dog, I may not have stayed a dog person. That golden and my borders have restored my love & trust in dogs and I can relate to both sides. The fact of the matter is an animal should never be put above or equal to a human being. They are great companions, but are still animals.