Oriel36–
This link to an answer in the “Ask An Apologetic” may help to shed some light and better explain some of what I was trying to paraphrase.
forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=47098
Regarding “solemnity”, perhaps I have been misread. I certainly did not mean to imply hell was anything such.
Eternal separation from God, to be forever without love, and so on, would most certainly painful to one’s soul and body. Hell is real and hell is eternal. Those are simply facts revealed thus far. Who is in hell? To date, no one seems to know.
However, I agree that one can overemphasize negative concepts.
In the end, it seems there is a middle-ground for the Catholic, far from Presumption but also far from Despair. Balance, yet again.
The good news is Christ.
Yours in Christ Jesus,
–Mark