For what its worth, I believe you are an honest broker. We have a different view on a number of fronts, but based on the sum total of your posts that I have read, you seem to have an open mind.
I get the “overload” statement. I’m getting overload from news stories highlighting double standards, and from some of my friends. (example: They went after me on the “selfishness” of the salon owner in Dallas who opened up during the shutdown when she said she needed to support her family. They were OK with the protests that they supported).
I have friends with different viewpoints (as well as adult children), and we debate vigorously, but then have an adult beverage, break bread and engage in fellowship. You seem to be a person that if I knew you personally, would fall into that category.
Blessings!