To Christians, homo-sexuality, same-sex marriage, co-habitation are all immoral and sinful. Our consciences have been informed with the moral truths regarding them. We can not say the same for those involved in the immoral situations that they are committing sin, and we are commanded not to judge the person. We must realize that if the person is not blessed with the moral truths, then he can not give what he does not possess, and may not even sin at all. There is one consistent truth that permeates the scripture and that is God’s love for mankind. Jesus came as the sign of the Fathers love for all of us. We were loved while still in the state of sin, and must imitate Jesus if we are to please Him.
I made friends with several men that were homosexuals, they live across the street from me. My wife and I even took care of one when he was sick, another died of AIDS. I knew one of them for l3 years as a friend. He was chairman of the Alzheimer’s Association in my town. He help another partner receive a liver transplant. I tried for years to get him interested in the Catholic Church (he was baptized Catholic) He did show some interest. When gay marriage was accepted on the West Coast he became emboldened and he negative feeling about me came to the surface. I was shocked! We were open with each other for the most part, and I did mention that I could not agree with his life style, but I accepted him as a friend. He referred to the Pope and me as nuts. The whole block on my street was against us, yet we were kind to everyone, there were lesbians, homo-sexuals, and co-habitators. and free lovers, they even had a party, of course we weren’t invited. I told him that I knew he was homo-sexual for aproximately l3 years. He denied that he was:shrug: The very next day I read the local paper that he was caught in a homo-sexual sting in a neighboring town! He met me and said that he was in a state of denial, and now the whole world knew. My wife and I had to move Right next door lived a man that had some real mental problems. Satan was active, no doubt. I experienced great compassion for my neighbors. Time has passed, and my friend died, I was told that the man that bought my house hated homo-sexuals and he contributed to my friend’s death. Another amazing thing was that a Catholic lived in the same block, and actually thought I was a homo-sexual because of my friendship. He also hated homo-sexuals. I t,old him as Catholics the Church advises to love no matter what, he just walked away.
Even to this day I can approach those I knew on the block and still have a friendly relationship with them in spite of past events. We must forgive, and continue to love, we will never go wrong!