“What about the vain repetitive prayer? Have you heard pagans praying before? I have. I have done it myself too. Have you seen pagan (pre-christian era) prayer chains? Jesus said do not pray in vain repetition like pagans do.” Exactly. You answered your own question. Jesus condemned repetitive, meaningless prayers to pagan Gods. The rosary is not “prayed in vain”. One meditates on the life of Christ while praying to Him. I am unable to see how meditating and praying about the life of Christ for 20 minutes is vain, repetitive prayer. And all Christians pray with some repetition. Do you not say the Lord’s Prayer everyday, multiple times per day? Is that not repetition?
An example of repetitive prayer in the Bible is in Rev 4:8 - The four living creatures, each of them with six wings,
8 were covered with eyes inside and out. Day and night they do not stop exclaiming: “Holy, holy, holy is the Lord God almighty, who was, and who is, and who is to come.” If our hearts are far from God, the words of prayer are in vain. But if we pray to Jesus, with Him in our hearts and minds, our prayers are not in vain. Don’t you ever have a tough day, feeling on the verge of losing your temper, crying, whatever, and say a few times “Jesus, be with me”, or “Holy Spirit guide me”, or something similar? Is that not repetitive? That doesn’t mean He doesn’t hear you? Or how about Psalm 136?
And so we use beads. Big deal. You want to attack it, but since you want to rely solely on the Bible and nothing else, where does it condemn beads?
Afterall Jesus said, everybody’s my mother and sister and brother, whoever keeps my commandments!!! I am pretty sure He meant what He said, too!” Of course he meant what he said. But I just read the entire chapter in context. I think you’re really stretching it to say that mary deserves no extra respect just because we are all his brothers and sisters. The two statements are not related.
**“If anything, I always wonder (as I mentioned it yesterday too) why Catholics don’t venerate John the Baptist more than Mary - afterall Jesus said, there was no greater human born of mother than John the Baptist. That would have to include Mary too since she was born of mother as well.” **I actually had to give this one some thought, and then it hit me like a ton of bricks. If we take this passage quite literally, and apply it the way you wish, then Jesus was saying that John the Baptist was better than even Him. And I think we can both agree that He was certainly not saying that literally, after all, they were both born of women. It is known that at the time of Christ, it was common amongst Rabbis to speak in absolutes. “Pluck out your own eye” “Cut off your own hand” Even “call no man father” as they continued to do so with their own earthly fathers. These absolutes are meant to make a point, not be the end-all, be-all, literal translation.
Understanding the scriptures in the cultural and historical context of the times in which they were written is so important in fully understanding what was written and what it means. That’s why the average person can’t just sit down and expect the Holy Spirit to tell you what everything means. We need to educate ourselves in order to be able to understand everything in the Bible (and I know you know this). It sounds like your husband has done some extensive Bible study, and probably you as well. But you’re still submitting to someone else’s authority most likely on at least some matters. You’re deferring to your Bible study leader, an author, a pastor, footnotes written in the Bible, friends’ interpretations, etc. But yet you dismiss those writings from the people who were closest to Christ because they didn’t actually write the Bible. I think you and your husband have done yourselves a great disservice by dismissing all of the early Christian writings, which is why I keep bring it up. And the fact that the vast majority of Christians do find their contributions to be quite valuable should tell you something.
Also, as a quick last statement, I actually don’t pray to deceased relatives. I simply mentioned that because I know a lot of people do. The only person I was close to who died is quite possibly not in heaven.