God does not do anything that will contravene the laws established by his Church.I was trying to understand what you meant when it was said a “calling” will not come in contravention of the Law established by the Church. You were saying that a married man would not receive a calling because Church law does not allow it. Does the married man actually not receive the calling or is not allowed to act on it?
I brought the more seedy examples as a way to illustrate that a man who is not in communion with Church law, could still receive a calling…
A vocation or lack thereof does not affect the validity of one’s ordination or marriage. A pedophile priest is indeed validly ordained even if it was against God’s will. A married man illicitly ordained is still a priest even though he doesn’t have a vocation to it. A careless couple who did not discern marriage properly but still properly exchange their vows with the full intention of faithfulness, fecundity and permanence indeed marry validly. They may end up miserable down the road, but they would be sacramentally married.I think you are opening a can of worms by saying that ordained priests could not have a vocation to begin with or that sacramentally married couples don’t have a vocation to begin with. That calls in to question the validity of the sacrament to begin with.
God, by virtue of the promise he made to St. Peter and the Apostles has promised to honour the laws his Church lays down and therefore would not contravene it. It also prevents people like married men from claiming “I have a vocation” and therefore do something stupid, like going Orthodox or Anglican or join faithless organizations like Call to Action.