BlindSheep:
The problems you have with my analogy have nothing to do with the point. You and your friend could be climing to escape a flood - therefore, not taking unnecessary risks. The rope could have become accidentally tangled with your backpack, therefore there is no “stupid” act to place the blame on.
We can play what if games all day long. Even if this isn’t due to a “stupid error”, it still does not fit. If you have to cut the rope on your buddy in the case of climbing away from a flood, then it is a terrible thing and it would still haunt me, and yes, again, I would have to let my buddy die. What I cut would be what I had to to keep me safe, backpack be d***ed. But the original problem did not occur due to the backpack.
You continuously ignore the original problem! The original problem was that the child was implanted in the fallopian tube due to a problem in the region of the fallopian tube. Unless you are drawing a parallel by having the backpack cause you to be in the flood zone at the wrong time, this isn’t a good analogy.
I’d have to return the analogy, and say, if the backback caused you to be in the floodzone at the wrong time, would you get another buddy and return to the floodzone. If so, you are putting your other buddy at risk also.
BlindSheep:
For that matter, what is the “stupid” thing a woman with an ectopic pregnancy has done, according to you? Are you saying getting pregnant is equivalent to frivolously risking one’s life? And why are you so sure that every ectopic pregnancy is due to some flaw in the woman’s anatomy?
Feeling touchy? I NEVER said that a woman with a ectopic pregnancy did something stupid. The stupid comment was reserved for your bad climbing analogy. Go back, read my post, and stop putting words in my mouth.
That being said, putting your next child at risk because you are only concerned with fertility is not a pure love attitude. As for every ectopic pregnancy being a flaw. Well, are you asserting that ectopic pregnancy is natural and normal, or is it the result of a problem? I say it is a result of a problem. And once you have surgery on a tube, you increase the chances of future ectopic pregnancies. I’ve posted links, you are welcome to investigate them…including Vern’s link, which says the same thing.
BlindSheep:
Seems to me like men are awfully quick to brand women’s reproductive organs as flawed, when that may or may not be the case. Unless you are arguing that every ectopic pregnancy is caused by a defective fallopian tube, or that it would be impossible for a doctot to tell whether a tube was flawed or not, your excuse for removing the tube doesn’t hold up. Perhaps something is wrong with the embryo. Smoking increases the risk of ectopic pregnancy - if this were the cause, quitting smoking, not removing the tube, would be the way to prevent recurrance. Sometimes these things happen for no other reason than chance. You can’t assume there is always a problem with the tube.
See above. BTW, does smoking just inhibit the development of the egg? I don’t know. You are of course just assuming there is nothing wrong with the tube, smoking or not. And from the links I’ve given, surgery on the tube (including previous ectopic pregnancy) Is listed in the causes. So, once you have one ectopic pregnancy, you could have another. I don’t actually believe that doctors know all the causes. They can and do draw conclusions based on risk factors, but since every smoker doesn’t have an ectopic pregnancy, I don’t know that we can say stopping smoking will solve the problem, esp. after surgery
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