I’ll be back in a little bit, I need to calm down some.
Personally, I am unsubscribing from this thread but for the sake of completeness, in follow-up to my previous post, if you are sincerely interested in understanding “ecumenism” from the Catholic perspective, I would suggest that you be in touch with a Catholic ecumenist.
More than anonymous people who are participating on an Internet forum, each offering their own thoughts and reflections of greater or lesser relevance, one who does ecumenism on a day to day basis, indeed as one’s life’s work, is better positioned to explain what ecumenism is from a Catholic perspective, how it is actually conducted, and how we understand its place in the efforts both for Church unity and for cooperative efforts in various initiatives and endeavours.
If your questions and interest lie more with the current state of the relations and conversations presently between Catholicism and Mormonism, this would be an issue under inter-faith dialogue rather than ecumenism, technically speaking. The inter-religious dialogue with Mormons is actually a rather unique situation given Mormonism’s own uniqueness. It is not a particularly extensive topic at the international level where I am, but certainly the Diocese of Salt Lake City, and specifically its Ecumenical Commission, is an excellent beginning resource for you.
There are, actually, real and strong bonds of cooperation at the hierarchical level between the Catholic Church and the LDS…as demonstrated by the meeting at the Vatican between Pope Francis and Henry Eyring, first counselor in the governing First Presidency, in November 2014, as well as, for example, the work Bishop Wester did before his elevation as Metropolitan Archbishop of Santa Fe, USA.
Yes, you have encountered confusion in terminology and its use – because the terminology is being employed by non-specialists.
Aspects of what you are speaking about fall simply into the category of cooperation among the Churches and ecclesial communities which is a type of practical ecumenism but is occurring at a level outside of meaningful theological dialogue.
I am truly sorry to read that you are upset. I am, however, confused by your objective. On the one hand, you assert you do not wish to talk to “church lawyers” or “far removed paper-bound theologians” but rather engage in discussion with ordinary people. But then are nonplussed when these ordinary people give you varying or imprecise answers. It takes three years of academic study to become a canon lawyer and longer to become a doctor of canon law, just as it takes years to become a doctor of theology – which is why, when you ask a question of a canon lawyer or theologian, they are speaking to you from their knowledge and their experience…not from their thoughts, feelings, or what “seems”.
I have offered my advice as best I can. A forum with many voices speaking from many backgrounds is not a particularly useful channel for meaningful dialogue. I bid you farewell and wish you well in your pursuit of the knowledge and information that you are seeking.