S
St_Francis
Guest
Through my reading about Catholic education as a result of my homeschooling, I can see that the ideal would be wonderful. But to me the ideal is: small Catholic parish (ie, most of the people in the parish are Catholic), everyone or almost everyone can easily walk to the centralized church “campus,” children are not forced to go esp at younger ages, school does not waste time all day, and there is lots of interaction between the school and the parents–the teachers (who are almost all practicing nuns) are well aware and responsive to their goal of helping the parents rather then superceding them.I don’t really agree with post #12. In the Catholic schools that I attended as a child & teen, the nuns were amazingly holy role models, and prayer was integrated into the school day. (No one but me remembers holy water fonts inside every classroom door? Daily visits to Chapel?) You were aware of the presence of the Holy Spirit pretty palpably. I’d call it something of an immersion – something that a busy mother of many children, whose husband was not Catholic and a naval officer, and who therefore was often busy moving us – could never have maintained on any consistent basis on her own. I’m so thankful for that school altmosphere of my youth.
The First Communion preparation of my own children was done by their Grade 2 Catholic lay teacher who is herself an ex-nun who married, but remained very true to her faith. We felt blessed in this environment, as well. The preparation was truly special.
Perhaps unlike many on CAF, I see faith formation as something that requires a triangulation: home, school, parish – or at least benefits from that Modern lifestyles being what they are, I don’t see faith formation as being contained or limited to home and still being effective. It didn’t work that way when I was a child, and I see that being even less true now. I think there have to be serious contact points outside of the home as well.
The school does its job so the parents don’t end up “teaching” for 2 or 3 hours a day (the situation with a family whose 3rd grader went to Catholic school), and the goal is not stuffing the children’s heads with information and getting them past tests but getting them into Heaven.
Unfortunately, circumstances are so rarely ideal… and certainly in our current culture, for most parents the only way to maintain a thoroughly Catholic culture is to homeschool.